Gal so hard to understand them
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Gt to know this gal for a few years. Recently a friend of her told me she is quite concerned abt me. (not too sure what she concern me abt?) we seldom talk to each other and even we met on the way, she just walk away like i'm transparent. these few weeks we began to talk more. (just some normal stuff) Not too sure if i 'm bored and need a companion is it, i began to think of her. sometime when she talk to another guy, i will get a bit irritated or worked out. i began to ask her out 1 evening. we have a nice meal and a movie. the problem is we already knew each other for so many years but why i suddenly think of her so much. does she think of me too? do i really to like her? does she like me too? if she does, why she always ignored me when we meet? Am i thinking too much? both of us are single. i think right now only myself asking her out, but she doesn't ask me out. it make me wonder am i thinking too much. she might not like me at all.
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eh, i think the problem is not with the girl leh
more like u the one think too much -
internal brain conflict
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when u say 'concerned' in a good way or bad way.
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Are u sure anot TS?
When u see chio bu strip in front of u, your "under" (didi) wun stand meh?
So.....? Gals are EASY to under-stand lor!
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u all could me right. i might be thinking too much. right now, i think i like her more than she like me.
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If she didn't like you, why would she agree to go out and have dinner and watch a movie with you despite having given you the cold shoulder for years? Something's not right somewhere. Or perhaps, she's just peeved you haven't made a pass on her all these years. Then again, how old are the two of you?Originally posted by man4nth:u all could me right. i might be thinking too much. right now, i think i like her more than she like me. -
playing hard to get.
Dun let her mindfuck u -
I think the gal is very shy.. I agree with what previous reply say.. If she really gives u cold shoulder,she will not go for yr movie and dinner liao.. She maybe belongs to very conservative type that expect yr initiative most of the time.
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Does it matter if you like her more than she like you ?Originally posted by man4nth:u all could me right. i might be thinking too much. right now, i think i like her more than she like me.
Must it be that she must like you more ?
Since both of you are single.
What are you waiting for ?
Ask her to be your girlfriend very difficult ?
She may be trying to ignore you because she is unsure of your feelings for her.
Girls need assurance and validations.
You are a man, do the right thing. -
Someone once said before. Love starts with nothing and end with everything.Originally posted by man4nth:Gt to know this gal for a few years. Recently a friend of her told me she is quite concerned abt me. (not too sure what she concern me abt?) we seldom talk to each other and even we met on the way, she just walk away like i'm transparent. these few weeks we began to talk more. (just some normal stuff) Not too sure if i 'm bored and need a companion is it, i began to think of her. sometime when she talk to another guy, i will get a bit irritated or worked out. i began to ask her out 1 evening. we have a nice meal and a movie. the problem is we already knew each other for so many years but why i suddenly think of her so much. does she think of me too? do i really to like her? does she like me too? if she does, why she always ignored me when we meet? Am i thinking too much? both of us are single. i think right now only myself asking her out, but she doesn't ask me out. it make me wonder am i thinking too much. she might not like me at all.
She could be shy, that's why she avoided you. You should give it a try and if situation permits, ask her to be your girlfriend. Give each other sometime to understand each other better. Ask her out for dinner more often. Praise her! Girls love hearing praising from guy. But of course, your praise must be genuine.
Good luck!
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both of us are in mid 20s. we knew each other for nearly 5yrs. hardly talk to each other. only recently den talk often. i'm afraid it only my one side thinking, she might not like me at all. i'm afraid if i ask her to be my gf, and she don't like it, we might not be even become friend.
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I am a risk taker, so in my opinion I will sian her to be my gf, BUT let you know I got rejected before so there's a risk lor... But if I never try, I won't be having a gf now. My gf is 8 yrs older than me, taller than me, last time earn more money than me, so imagine the odds lah, most guys would have given up... but if I never try, I never win her over. If genna rejected, it's the girl's loss lah, what I will then do is to work hard and earn lots of money and get a better girl and prove to her that it's her loss lor, and I won't go back to her side anymore. That's just my thoughts lah, it may be worthless.Originally posted by man4nth:both of us are in mid 20s. we knew each other for nearly 5yrs. hardly talk to each other. only recently den talk often. i'm afraid it only my one side thinking, she might not like me at all. i'm afraid if i ask her to be my gf, and she don't like it, we might not be even become friend. -
u stupiak la... why think so much ? ask her out again la few times alone dating.. if she always agrees to go out with u alone, that means some chemistry already la.. lets think bout this... lets say theres one fat lady who has bad attitude wan ask u out dating alone, have u even think twice of rejecting ar ? haiya , same case la.... even if she just treat u as a fren and go out with u all the time alone, at least she feel comfortable be with you and she thinks your good guy or something like that...Originally posted by man4nth:Gt to know this gal for a few years. Recently a friend of her told me she is quite concerned abt me. (not too sure what she concern me abt?) we seldom talk to each other and even we met on the way, she just walk away like i'm transparent. these few weeks we began to talk more. (just some normal stuff) Not too sure if i 'm bored and need a companion is it, i began to think of her. sometime when she talk to another guy, i will get a bit irritated or worked out. i began to ask her out 1 evening. we have a nice meal and a movie. the problem is we already knew each other for so many years but why i suddenly think of her so much. does she think of me too? do i really to like her? does she like me too? if she does, why she always ignored me when we meet? Am i thinking too much? both of us are single. i think right now only myself asking her out, but she doesn't ask me out. it make me wonder am i thinking too much. she might not like me at all.
U must know la.. some gals are very shy.. they pretend they dont like u.. er , i mean they wont show any signal they like u ..
Same case with me too previously, i didnt know this gal like me only after i confess to her
DOnt think much la... you're a guy rite? use ur brain la.. do more research instead of thinking too much -
Don't think! JUST DO IT!Originally posted by man4nth:Gt to know this gal for a few years. Recently a friend of her told me she is quite concerned abt me. (not too sure what she concern me abt?) we seldom talk to each other and even we met on the way, she just walk away like i'm transparent. these few weeks we began to talk more. (just some normal stuff) Not too sure if i 'm bored and need a companion is it, i began to think of her. sometime when she talk to another guy, i will get a bit irritated or worked out. i began to ask her out 1 evening. we have a nice meal and a movie. the problem is we already knew each other for so many years but why i suddenly think of her so much. does she think of me too? do i really to like her? does she like me too? if she does, why she always ignored me when we meet? Am i thinking too much? both of us are single. i think right now only myself asking her out, but she doesn't ask me out. it make me wonder am i thinking too much. she might not like me at all.
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TS, ur doing fine....its hard to contol the mind sometime coz u also want to be sure. And to be sure, use ur mouth to ask.....only then ur mind can be at ease
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Dont be afraid la.. even though u know her 5 years or 10 years.. its still hard to understand anyone if not close enough la.. just ask her out.. call her.. sms her... email something interesting or something bout love. share music or anything with her... ask her opinion on something like wat type of guy she like... just do more research and learn more bout her..Originally posted by man4nth:both of us are in mid 20s. we knew each other for nearly 5yrs. hardly talk to each other. only recently den talk often. i'm afraid it only my one side thinking, she might not like me at all. i'm afraid if i ask her to be my gf, and she don't like it, we might not be even become friend.
afraid afraid afraid.. sigh.. i guess u dun know this is the time where u can have the most fun when u goin out with a gal... research !
u try call her like thrice per week...
every call dont last more than 10 - 15 mins.. just hi, how r u, hows things, what u did today, and some laugh.. thats all. and plz dun be a wussy.. dun try to be a clown ok? just relax.. ask all the question above.. and act gentlenman and dun laugh urself when u try to make stupid joke
then call her out for some movie or some new place to eat... have a nice meal..ask her to talk bout herself , how she was in the past when she was small.. anything funy to talk bout.. just ask all those
but be patience.. dun call her everyday, sticking to her like glue.. give her some time to at least miss u.. gal dun like any guy who stick too much to a gal
If she got any prob , dun even scold her if she did something stupid but advice her and be there when she need some1 to talk
most important task for you know is to find out what kind of things she like.. cute one ? some art? or wat? u find out.. bring her to mall... walk around.. go to cute shop or anything.. then simply ask if she likes cute stuff
sigh im lazy to explain all.. the rest u have to do more research or u go surf online bout this stuff... u need to do homework b4 she thinks you're a wussy or a clown..
Stop thinking nonsense that she might not like ur or u think too much bout she might like u.. all these is nonsense... if u really like her.. then u must do something.. dun care if she likes u or not .. at least u did your best without regret -
man4nth,Originally posted by man4nth:both of us are in mid 20s. we knew each other for nearly 5yrs. hardly talk to each other. only recently den talk often. i'm afraid it only my one side thinking, she might not like me at all. i'm afraid if i ask her to be my gf, and she don't like it, we might not be even become friend.
I tell you lah.
Friends forever also can.
You just keep quiet, be nice to her.
Then you wait for her to get hitched by other guy.
You her friend right ? You can watch how other guys kiss her, hug her, shower her with tender loving care.
Then you can be her listening ear... listen to her brag about how wonderful it is to make love to her lover man.
Then you wait , wait for the invitation card.
Invite you to her wedding.
Then you be her best man, and help her get married.
Then you wait.. wait for her to send you notice that she has baby.
You go out and find a baby gift.
Send to their home and congratulate them with a big smile.
Then you wait... hopefully they divorce... then you have another chance again.
Like that.. can be friends forever lor...... good boh ?
Or... you can grow some balls.
If she rejects you.. move on and target another one lah. -
well, ppl can say i no balls is a cowards or anything. it really my character. i could be thinking too much. i really dun wan to lose a friends if i express to her. i prefer to noe she really interested in me b4 i take action. that my character..............
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yayaya v hard..guess i ma be gay....haha
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You...... want the girl to go after you ?Originally posted by man4nth:well, ppl can say i no balls is a cowards or anything. it really my character. i could be thinking too much. i really dun wan to lose a friends if i express to her. i prefer to noe she really interested in me b4 i take action. that my character..............
I am sad to break this news to you.
I have some guy friends who thinks like this.
They are now left on the shelf.
FYI : If you cannot read a girl's mind. I suggest you open your mouth to ask. -
plain speaking, you have a "crush" on this girl,
don't think so much,
do it,
the next best thing, is to ask her our for another movie & dinner,
so many years you ignore her, & she ignore you,
she also not sure of your feeling,
so, how can you expect her to suddenly like you,
invite her out more often,
go slow,
have more movie & dinner with her,
until she tell you no !
then you know her feeling ?
think so much, no use,
do it,
got her phone nos ? or not ?
good luck,
but do NOT sms her everyday,
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firstly i think you're thinking too much but i don't blame you because i guess its your character to analyse things and try to conclude things yourself.Originally posted by man4nth:Gt to know this gal for a few years. Recently a friend of her told me she is quite concerned abt me. (not too sure what she concern me abt?) we seldom talk to each other and even we met on the way, she just walk away like i'm transparent. these few weeks we began to talk more. (just some normal stuff) Not too sure if i 'm bored and need a companion is it, i began to think of her. sometime when she talk to another guy, i will get a bit irritated or worked out. i began to ask her out 1 evening. we have a nice meal and a movie. the problem is we already knew each other for so many years but why i suddenly think of her so much. does she think of me too? do i really to like her? does she like me too? if she does, why she always ignored me when we meet? Am i thinking too much? both of us are single. i think right now only myself asking her out, but she doesn't ask me out. it make me wonder am i thinking too much. she might not like me at all.
secondly i hope that she's not going out with you due to symphathy. can you tell any signs from her if she's doing so? but since you mentioned something about both of you having a nice meal and movie together i doubt so.
thirdly shouldn't you go up to her and say hi if she really didn't manage to see you? instead of saying her treating you transparent. unless you tell me she looks at you straight in the eye and didn't say hi.
forthly don't keep her waiting for too long and good luck -
unsure whether the rest can still remember the scene where Melvin Udall in "as good as it gets" describe women to the female clerk of the publishing company..
Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.
and of course, the scene where Carol (hunt) came drenched to Melvin's door....
and the quote -> Melvin Udall: You make me want to be a better man.
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Yes, we gals are hard to understand, but we also dun understand guys. Why cannot call us out meh? Why cannot talk to another guy meh? why guys hv all those crazy thinking leh?Originally posted by man4nth:Gt to know this gal for a few years. Recently a friend of her told me she is quite concerned abt me. (not too sure what she concern me abt?) we seldom talk to each other and even we met on the way, she just walk away like i'm transparent. these few weeks we began to talk more. (just some normal stuff) Not too sure if i 'm bored and need a companion is it, i began to think of her. sometime when she talk to another guy, i will get a bit irritated or worked out. i began to ask her out 1 evening. we have a nice meal and a movie. the problem is we already knew each other for so many years but why i suddenly think of her so much. does she think of me too? do i really to like her? does she like me too? if she does, why she always ignored me when we meet? Am i thinking too much? both of us are single. i think right now only myself asking her out, but she doesn't ask me out. it make me wonder am i thinking too much. she might not like me at all.
U know, we can be hard to understand, but it is usually we, the gals that make your under stand up and hardened. Unless you cannot get hard, then i agree it is quite hard for you to understand us.
Another lame man