Originally posted by man4nth:
it not like cannot call us out or cannot talk to other guy. i respect her of course. i have ask her out b4 but maybe because i too damm quiet or stunned when with her( it just my personel feeling.) i just think why she nvr ask me out b4? y when there other ppl ard she just look away from me? am i so unattrative to her? hear tat many yrs back she did woo a guy but not successfully. and she had date another guy but oso unsuucessfully.
Ok dude, U got to understand we gals, we like to be dated, we like guys as gentlemen to make the move, guide us and protect us in a way that make usfeel very secure.
When a gal agreed to go out with you, it shows a liking in you ok, the other part of your thinking are just your plain hallucination of her, why she cannot look at handsome men? It is natural that handsome and beauti make heads turn. You cannot deny that, otherwise why we gals like to doll ourselve beautifully for what?? When i go out with a guy, i also look at handsome men mah, my date will also look at beautiful gals and we giggle at each other in a natural act, we also like to comment on ppls wearing, fashion and make up, it makes us laugh. So many things to talk about, just sit in an outdoor cafe and you can enjoy all the fun.
Next, when you love a gal, you cannot listen to hearsay about her, it is very unhealthy, she might had done it or she may not, or simply she might had made a mistake during her younger years.
Dun look glum and quiet, i hate this type of man, be jovious and if she look at some other pples, just join her and agree that this man is handsome or that gal is beautiful, flow with her characters, gel into her mood, fix into her eyes, be active, be ready to change topic, be approachable, start questiion the right question. Change location, show your love by caring for her.
You dun have to be handsome to have a beautiful wife, all you need is the ability to provide the joy, security, stability and the warmth you can bring to her.
Be natural, dun have to act about anything in relationship, because you cannot act forever, if thing dun works out, so be it, as nature as it is, it just dun gel well. Dun blame is on yourself and start thinking about this and that, which in the end you may end up in depression with ED sickeness