I'm tire....

• RedizAlertz

  10 Sep 07, 11:01

  TS, u hav hold onto the reins too tightly now..At 22, wat a gal wants is freedom (independence), friends & work.
  
  Romance is a bonus.
  Tat's y she chose u. U r 32, 10yrs her senior, she suppose u r matured & independant enuf to love her & yet let her be. But to remember MONTHLY annivarsary is a bother! A little of something occasionally is a sweet novelty, but too much of it is a deadly poison. Learn to loosen up, if she comes back to u, she's urs. If not, there's no point in holdin onto the reins even.
  
  U shld b matured enuf to analyse. Get a grip!
• Zarks

  10 Sep 07, 11:45

  Originally posted by GoodBook:

  Agreed. Obviously she has lost interest. This happens all the time, I was in one such r/s too. The rule of the thumb is that a girl who likes her guy will NOT ignore him. If she does so without good reasons, it speaks volume of her "love" for the guy.
  TS: Prepare for the worse. Learn to live without her.

  Very true.. happened to me too... this is sad.. im not as lucky as many ppl in their r/s... i doubt i can love any gal anymore.. i begin to lose trust on how a gal that i love will love me the same or at least care how i think T_T
  
  Felt everything that i did to my ex was is useless.. Im crying now !! huhuhh !!
• tequila

  11 Sep 07, 21:37

  Originally posted by Zarks:

  Very true.. happened to me too... this is sad.. im not as lucky as many ppl in their r/s... i doubt i can love any gal anymore.. i begin to lose trust on how a gal that i love will love me the same or at least care how i think T_T
  
  Felt everything that i did to my ex was is useless.. Im crying now !! huhuhh !!

  I think i'm on the same boat as you. Being a failure in all my relationships.
  I think i will do like most of the ppl here suggested. I will carry on trying and in the same time don't put in too much in this relationship.
• T.Ryousuke

  13 Sep 07, 08:08

  What horoscrope r u both? She is not ready for love yet, n u r looking for someone to settle down. U must sense what she want eg freedom, career.
  Maybe be u can go for older gal cause they r more ready to settle down as mindset and needs r different.
• tequila

  13 Sep 07, 17:03

  Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:

  What horoscrope r u both? She is not ready for love yet, n u r looking for someone to settle down. U must sense what she want eg freedom, career.
  Maybe be u can go for older gal cause they r more ready to settle down as mindset and needs r different.

  She is Cancer and i am Virgo.
  I can't deny that i'm looking for one that will settle down with me but i told her i will wait for her to be ready. She told me she wanna get marry at the age of 24 and i'm fine with that. She is not a career minded person and i'm not someone who restrict her freedom.