'I only think of you as a friend'
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Hey, I just got rejected by the gal i like for the past year
First try in my life and got rejected. My closest female friend in fact. But i'm not that sad, just a ok got rejected feeling, maybe cause i expected this le. I've hidden the fact that i like her and she alway got hint me that we're only friends but i decided to be honest. Called her on the phone and told her and she rejected me 
Maybe that is a good thing that she's honest and now I can stop thinking so much Studying to forget about this, since exam coming le... 
But i'm worry that our friendship will not be like b4. How should I handle this now? How to face her? How to make this less awkard?
Gals, will you still be good friends with guys you reject?
Hope my experience will not discourage anyone here from being honest about your feelings -
yah, can continue to be frens
provided the rejected party is able to accept it and relli be frens only.......do not bear any hopes.......... -
she'll be more cautious of her actions and speech when she meet u.. definitely, she'll know u'll still want to get close to her & she'll try to stay away from u.
unless she's those v open-minded type -
Yea. This is top-in-list factor when I consider confessing.
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There will of course be this feeling of awkwardness immediately after the situation. Avoiding all contact with each other for a while may be one way to go about it. This avoidance period will serve to heal the "strained" process. As you busy getting on with living your life, so will the significance of the rejection pale and the awkward feeling bugging you lesser. When the akwardness bugs tou to an insignificant level, then re-iinitiate contact. Hopefully, she would also have gotten over the akwardness for you two to resume where you guys have left it.........
In any case, rejecting you now doesn't mean you have no more chance! She could be testing you for all you know! If you really feel for the girl, you will not abandon hope on her after just one rejection. You'll keep trying to win her affection!
Her rejecting you could mean that she's not ready for you at that particular point in time, nothing else...... So it's your call now:- Give up on the girl and forever be a loser or persevere in your affection for the girl and stand a chance of winning her heart eventually.....
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Mind to know how close r u and her?Originally posted by dragoncloud:Hey, I just got rejected by the gal i like for the past year First try in my life and got rejected. My closest female friend in fact. But i'm not that sad, just a ok got rejected feeling, maybe cause i expected this le. I've hidden the fact that i like her and she alway got hint me that we're only friends but i decided to be honest. Called her on the phone and told her and she rejected me Maybe that is a good thing that she's honest and now I can stop thinking so much Studying to forget about this, since exam coming le...
But i'm worry that our friendship will not be like b4. How should I handle this now? How to face her? How to make this less awkard?
Gals, will you still be good friends with guys you reject?
Hope my experience will not discourage anyone here from being honest about your feelings -
this is also the reason why some guys prefer not to confess
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u shld ask her face 2 face man, r/s things over fone is not good brother
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we talk to each other on msn sms, see each other everyday. Think she see me as her brotherOriginally posted by Zarks:Mind to know how close r u and her? She say I'm really just a friend to her
Should i appear on-line today? Do i act as if nothing happened? Should i start converservsation with her? wat if she talks to me?
Now i know why i not feeling sad le
Its because i dun wan her to feel bad about making me sad
AHHHHHHHHHH cannot think so much... must do work distract myself -
I know but now study break le, no school, no chance to see her. Then i'm thinking too much le cannot studyOriginally posted by DjMatrix:u shld ask her face 2 face man, r/s things over fone is not good brother Have to tell her to see if i'll think less about it. NEED TO STUDY -
Well, go online and tell her not to worry about you. Tell her that you're fine.Originally posted by dragoncloud:we talk to each other on msn sms, see each other everyday. Think she see me as her brother She say I'm really just a friend to her
Should i appear on-line today? Do i act as if nothing happened? Should i start converservsation with her? wat if she talks to me?
Now i know why i not feeling sad le
Its because i dun wan her to feel bad about making me sad
AHHHHHHHHHH cannot think so much... must do work distract myself -
Yes. Agree.Originally posted by DjMatrix:u shld ask her face 2 face man, r/s things over fone is not good brother -
Being honest is better than being a liar. Good that she tells you straight. What if she lied and in the end break up?
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u juz said study, exam is coming.
so, GO STUDY LAH!
wahlew..
at this time come bother abt such things, still can start thread somemore
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just go back to normal. tell her u still want to be friends, and everything will be alright!
and its perfectly normal to fall in love with someone whom you treat as a sister, since 2 of my ex gfs, and my current gf was my god-sister.
so love works in many ways, just hope for the best -
YaOriginally posted by Fire Star:Being honest is better than being a liar. Good that she tells you straight. What if she lied and in the end break up? kinda thk her for being honest already. She's avoiding me le....
Not on-line at the usual time She might be avoiding me At least i dun regret doing this, at least now i know......... -
lol brownie.. u must rmb that even if he started studying now, his mind would not be into his books, but into this problem. what use is it to do something just for the sake of doing it, right?
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hey don't look at it this way, perhaps she just needs time to think things through? and when she's done she'll tell you everything
yes, the waiting can be the hardest part -
Damn, wat you say is soooo right. Can i fall in love with you insteadOriginally posted by browniebaobao:u juz said study, exam is coming.
so, GO STUDY LAH!
wahlew..
at this time come bother abt such things, still can start thread somemore 
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Nvm me....I wu liao..
Studying notes on com now... appearrng off-line... not talking to anyone....
Just need to let it out somewhere -
awww. so sad lol.Originally posted by dragoncloud:Damn, wat you say is soooo right. Can i fall in love with you instead ?
Nvm me....I wu liao..
Studying notes on com now... appearrng off-line... not talking to anyone....
Just need to let it out somewhere -
Maybe she reject you as she feel you're not that sincere asking over the phone instead of face to face.
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She accepted her previous bf over msn laOriginally posted by euc:Maybe she reject you as she feel you're not that sincere asking over the phone instead of face to face. And i tot that was worse
Hope she's not thinking too much over this...she need to study ...me oso -
why don't you just call her now and ask her how she feels
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Cos msn very gives u time to think n type..Originally posted by dragoncloud:She accepted her previous bf over msn la And i tot that was worse
Hope she's not thinking too much over this...she need to study ...me oso
on the phone..maybe she got nervous and quickly say no. -
I'm sure it'll be a conversation that end in less than a min. Or it can go silence for very long... what can i say? i already told her not to think too much about it le. No guts to call her le, what if she thinks thats i'm irriating or she become scared of me...Actually wouldn't la butOriginally posted by XenStar:why don't you just call her now and ask her how she feels I just dun know.
Let her study ba... hope she is