Crush on unexpected someone
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I'm leaving my workplace in 3 mths time and I got to know this lady that joined recently. I started to develop liking to her and I flirt with her almost everyday. We chat and joke and physical contact sometime.
But I also knew she has a steady bf and a couple of flings....Do you guys think I shall fall in deeper or just play along with her too? Coz she enjoys having flings.... -
ni qing wo yuan
if she ok and u ok then ok loh -
then why not you too enjoy your fling with her!
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okay my advice would be...
you're leaving that workplace soon right? then just go and forget abt her too okay.
okay byeee!
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fling . then leave.Originally posted by mmooi:I'm leaving my workplace in 3 mths time and I got to know this lady that joined recently. I started to develop liking to her and I flirt with her almost everyday. We chat and joke and physical contact sometime.
But I also knew she has a steady bf and a couple of flings....Do you guys think I shall fall in deeper or just play along with her too? Coz she enjoys having flings.... -
U already know the answer,why ask?Originally posted by mmooi:I'm leaving my workplace in 3 mths time and I got to know this lady that joined recently. I started to develop liking to her and I flirt with her almost everyday. We chat and joke and physical contact sometime.
But I also knew she has a steady bf and a couple of flings....Do you guys think I shall fall in deeper or just play along with her too? Coz she enjoys having flings.... -
i think u have the answer urself...
and she had a bf already...
but u still see her for 3 months rite..
so..................
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Sounds like you are like silly&dumb who started the thread on "Short term relationship.
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not so unexpected wat
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Use PTL method.Originally posted by mmooi:I'm leaving my workplace in 3 mths time and I got to know this lady that joined recently. I started to develop liking to her and I flirt with her almost everyday. We chat and joke and physical contact sometime.
But I also knew she has a steady bf and a couple of flings....Do you guys think I shall fall in deeper or just play along with her too? Coz she enjoys having flings.... -
u flirt her, she flirt you... flirt together loh...
no string attached -
Hmm..I also been thinking this. Be Hot and cold to her as no real commitment will establish. She knows I like her very much. But can't accept me for some reality reason. So I won't sink too much too. Thx to all comments. I know what attitude to take towards this STF.
I still have plenty of flowers out there waiting for me to admire and pickup. -
I can tell you from personal experience that most women who like to flirt have flawed characters in general. You will only see their true nature a few months down the road if you observe carefully.
My ex-gf who was previously my colleague and another gal in my current workplace behave this way as well. Like to mess with guys' minds. Touch me on my arm when talking or give other male colleagues misleading signals in conversations, e.g. complain that they have problems with current bf, etc.
Not saying all women that are 'more friendly' in their body language or conversation are bad but just open your eyes wide. -
Maybe you're thinking too much. Maybe she's just being friendly and is the tpye of woman who's more out-going lah...
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Since u alredi leaving than enjoy urself lor.... hate e game... not e playa.
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Hey waliao....I like your replyOriginally posted by waliao:Since u alredi leaving than enjoy urself lor.... hate e game... not e playa. . This should be my game. 
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make sure u can handle what ur playing with....Originally posted by mmooi:Hey waliao....I like your reply . This should be my game. -
aiya,, u dun have crush on this gal fellow.. u just play with her , enjoy ur time flirting.. nothing wrong rite? she enjoys too rite? so dun wait la.. just fling fling
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you flirt she flirts everyone flirt flirt~
just flirt for another 3 good months then leave the place
dont put in too much effort or have your feelings sinked too deep in -
girls and guys are different. guys are less emo than girls...
i dun encourage fling cos u hve to think of the consequnces before ur actions and dun forget there is always sumthing call 'morphy's law' -
u may say guys are less emo den girls. but it seems like girls are the always the one who could get over a relationship faster den a boys, not all, but most.Originally posted by wabuaysong:girls and guys are different. guys are less emo than girls...
i dun encourage fling cos u hve to think of the consequnces before ur actions and dun forget there is always sumthing call 'morphy's law' -
will she change into the forever and ever you must be with me kind?Originally posted by mmooi:I'm leaving my workplace in 3 mths time and I got to know this lady that joined recently. I started to develop liking to her and I flirt with her almost everyday. We chat and joke and physical contact sometime.
But I also knew she has a steady bf and a couple of flings....Do you guys think I shall fall in deeper or just play along with her too? Coz she enjoys having flings.... -
Lan tuo hwa.
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Cannot be colleagues, can still be friends right? Get her lumber and keep in touch after you've left the company lor..... Alamak, go for it lah! Make sure you left, right and centre her ok? Upside down oso can!
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Well I have her number already and we chat sometimes during the night. I frequent sms her but she that kind on and off sms you back though. But still current situation is still alright. My concern is the bonding suddenly turns sour and I might not be able to take it. Her out-spoken and friendly to all guys sometimes just make me feel uncomfortable. She might not take me seriously as no outcome really will come upon us. So I also try to prevent from sinking it too much. What is laid before me I will just accept it.Originally posted by :Cannot be colleagues, can still be friends right? Get her lumber and keep in touch after you've left the company lor..... Alamak, go for it lah! Make sure you left, right and centre her ok? Upside down oso can!
My last wish for leaving the workplace is to give her a good hug, stroke her long hair and plant down a deep touch on her lips....