Loving a person without reason.. How truth is it?
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Hi.. I often heard many people say that,they love their opposite sex partner without a reason.
It might be love at first sight...
It might be solely be feeling...
Whatever... Do u believe u need no reason to love a person and base just on purely feeling?
I have a girl friend, she got a bf recently and I know my friend got foul temper and childish. As I predicted,her bf cannot handle and tahan her. He is trouble and he suddenly call me up to pour out his feeling. He told me he loves my friend just becos he loves her and no reason and based purely on feeling(so call love at first sight). He claim only such love is the ultimate lvl of love. Love a person with any bias,no factor and unconditional love...
Just like my friend case,her foul temper will pissed off a lof of pontential lover. I am feeling that guy is suffering cos of his intuition of loving a person without reason.
I don't believe love a person base on feeling...
What is yr view? -
tis is something i've always been puzzled about too..
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love is blind...
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Can I say they take back their words after kenna deep deep(hurt)?Originally posted by Nadare:love is blind... 
U surely must love a person based on something...
It can be appearance,a kind soul,an adorable and gentle lady..
But can't be without a reason,right??? -
its true..
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maye u juz feel attached to that person?
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Infatuation
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lol u haven slpOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Infatuation
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chemistry ba...
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Loving a person without reason? No offense, I would say your guy friend has been brainwashed into believing into such a thing? It's just our minds playing tricks on us.Originally posted by CannyOng:Hi.. I often heard many people say that,they love their opposite sex partner without a reason.
It might be love at first sight...
It might be solely be feeling...
Whatever... Do u believe u need no reason to love a person and base just on purely feeling?
I have a girl friend, she got a bf recently and I know my friend got foul temper and childish. As I predicted,her bf cannot handle and tahan her. He is trouble and he suddenly call me up to pour out his feeling. He told me he loves my friend just becos he loves her and no reason and based purely on feeling(so call love at first sight). He claim only such love is the ultimate lvl of love. Love a person with any bias,no factor and unconditional love...
Just like my friend case,her foul temper will pissed off a lof of pontential lover. I am feeling that guy is suffering cos of his intuition of loving a person without reason.
I don't believe love a person base on feeling...
What is yr view?
Seriously, the way your friend behave, their relationship is not going to last. I think you also know right? I think you can't force him to give up the relationship but to me, this relationship won't work in the long run because of the girl's attitude.
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What kind of feeling? A feeling of need resulting from loneliness?
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Loving a person without reason ?
That's lust. -
hm... for a guy to say bout love so divine.. is really funny... but sometimes thats love.. when u really love some1, no matter how bad the lover is, u still have some strong feeling.. This cant be explained anyway cuz it might be pure feeling. But somehow many ppl confused bout pure feeling and infatuation.. most of the time its infatuation,, well, u know.. when the guy or gal is very pretty with perfect body.. sometimes this kind of infatuation can be confused as love...
I think ppl fall in love easier with pretty face than those with ugly face...
TO me, if a person can fall in love with an ugly face but a good heart, i think thats pure love... ask anyone if they might like or love a person who is ugly or fat... 99% will say NO.
My female friend is the same too, Terrible attitude, childish thinking, and obviously a good liar, i just dun understand why is it her bf love her so much. Yea she is pretty and perfect body, i dont know if the guy just love her appearance or really pure love.... This confused me as well.. -
I'll add another one..
Love without a reason can be true..
This is very normal but...
It takes 2 side, male and female to take their own effort to maintain their relationship instead of just pure love
To me, when u be with lover, you can think that you like your lover without a reason.. but pure love only comes from understanding , toleration and trust..
Too sad, your female friend is another gal who takes things for granted...Some gals are immature and too childish to understand pure love, they think if they have feeling, then its pure love.. which is totally wrong..
I pity that guy, i think he might really love that gal but that gal doesnt seem to appreciate him.. I dont think they can last long..
To me , i wouldnt find a gal who dont understand what is love all about..nowadays , gals are too chilidish to understand this love thing and alwasy take things for granted -
lust = loving the person's body w/o any emotional feelings.Originally posted by jojobeach:Loving a person without reason ?
That's lust. -
There is always a reason behind loving a person...
tat is "I LOVE U" -
Loving the person's body = emotional feelings emanating from down there.....Originally posted by de_middle:lust = loving the person's body w/o any emotional feelings.
Therefore, do not need a reason. -
the word love has been distorted in its meaning already.
its true. becaues sometimes we forget why we love the person in the first place. hence, we say that love has no reason sometimes. thus, love=momentum -
I mOriginally posted by jojobeach:Loving the person's body = emotional feelings emanating from down there.....
Therefore, do not need a reason.
topic "loving a person without reason" become topic "loving the person's body without reason" liao... -
Love is Blind, I agree. Love unconditionally, i oso agree.. But love w/o a reason .. ..cant b really possible..
I can onli think tat when u "Love w/o a reason" is when u havn been with tat person long enuf to know wat u love abt him/her. For a start, "loving w/o a reason" is simply an attraction, & tat's not love - yet. -
My wife asks me why do I love her.Originally posted by CannyOng:Hi.. I often heard many people say that,they love their opposite sex partner without a reason.
It might be love at first sight...
It might be solely be feeling...
Whatever... Do u believe u need no reason to love a person and base just on purely feeling?
I have a girl friend, she got a bf recently and I know my friend got foul temper and childish. As I predicted,her bf cannot handle and tahan her. He is trouble and he suddenly call me up to pour out his feeling. He told me he loves my friend just becos he loves her and no reason and based purely on feeling(so call love at first sight). He claim only such love is the ultimate lvl of love. Love a person with any bias,no factor and unconditional love...
Just like my friend case,her foul temper will pissed off a lof of pontential lover. I am feeling that guy is suffering cos of his intuition of loving a person without reason.
I don't believe love a person base on feeling...
What is yr view?
Each time, I can't find any reason
Except that my love grows each day, and I must see her each day.
Overseas business trips are particularly painful. -
unconditional love means accepting her ferocious temper too.
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No, it is still in line with the topic.Originally posted by ispyyy:I m
topic "loving a person without reason" become topic "loving the person's body without reason" liao...
Loving without reason is lust.
Lust is loving a person's body.
Loving a person's body does not require reasoning.
Therefore, love with no reason is real. -
agreed.Originally posted by LyonK:unconditional love means accepting her ferocious temper too.
