Damn frustrated and confused.
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immature lady...
you do not expect one to always give in to you... There is a limit to tolerance...
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Yes girl, we women are suckers for misery.Originally posted by fgfm:We shared a lot. I've been to his place a couple of times, I know how he treats his family members. He knows mine. Gah, I really dont know. I understand that I am being kind of stubborn over here but sigh...If only someone can understand how I am feeling.
Been there, done that.
Sometimes we give our men too much credits, sometimes we don't give them enough.
Perhaps you want to go back to him, and when he finally gets tired of you calling it "break".. one day he might just had enough to dump you.
That will be the day, you cry your heart out and beg him to come back?
I don't know.
But girl, I sure hope it ain't gonna happen. -
The way I see it... pride or ego is preventing each party from apologising what he/she has done wrong, and because nobody takes the first step, both parties agree not to patch.Originally posted by fgfm:We shared a lot. I've been to his place a couple of times, I know how he treats his family members. He knows mine. Gah, I really dont know. I understand that I am being kind of stubborn over here but sigh...If only someone can understand how I am feeling.
Do you wish for him to come back to you, and apologise that he has been spending too much time gaming, and that he must say he will try to change? Perhaps he wishes to say all these, if only you can somehow apologise for your princessy attitude first.
Obviously you kind of regret your outburst, but perhaps you think that being the first person to apologise would allow him to get away with his mistakes. I would say, it takes a courageous person to apologize and then communicate what he/she wants to the other party.
I am not suggesting what you should do.
But pride, according the Roman Catholic Church, is the deadliest of the 7 deadly sins.
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actually TS is more to stating only some facts and didnt really talk most of her ex's terrible attitude..
I think we all might not really know all the story from A to Z.. TS perhaps only tell from A - C..
FOr me , i think her reaction is normal,, not demanding or princessy, TS just feel shes unimportant to him and for all gals, this feeling is very important.
I still think her ex is a terrible jerk.. how could u overslept when u date your gf..and let her waited 2 hours.. gosh.
Communication is SUPER important in any r/s. In this case, i guess TS's ex rarely try to communicate with TS..
My ex even get angry with me when i left my apartment with a simple note but didnt wake her up to tell her that... She thinks she's unimportant to me. Its just the matter of understanding ma. Obviously , TS's ex never really understand TS -
waaa so many pages still going on...
the point is not who is right who is wrong... who is the good one, who is the bad one...
the point is if two people have vastly different expectations towards relationship and values, then no point continuing a rship that will
repetitively cause disappointment and hurt.
waste of each other's time.
sure, the hurt, the re-adjustment got to take place
but if you understand the motivation WHY then its ok - you move on.
that's why its bad to react to soemtihng without understanding your own motivation. then end up regret. -
Nobody will understand..
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i understand ma.. u ok there?Originally posted by fgfm:Nobody will understand..