I tried... But still I can't do it...
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How can I ever get e one whom I've loved for almost half of my life and still loving him now out of my heart?? I can still remember all e times I've shared wif him since e day I knew him as a child.. I miss him a lot thou I know tt things won't ever be possible between us.. I juz wanna noe how can I ever let go?? I've tried... But everything seems to remind mi of him now and then... (considering tt most of my life was spent wif him in e picture also)...
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Wat happened?
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You need to occupy your time by meeting more friends and people, especially new friends - not the usual folks that you hang out with. Be open to them and more importantly, get to know them.
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I did... but my mind goes back to him when I'm alone.. I'll recall every little thing done or said... I've known him for almost my whole life.. So many things we've done or said...
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AsTr0GiRL :
i guess we r in almost the same situation... -
if really impossible...jus be frens wit him....frens can last a lifetime also mah since u say half ur life u know him...be "buddy" with him lor....is v hard to let go....unless u met someone better or u finnally can release one day...time will heel
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Let it be good memories of him.
Do you still meet him often now? -
I guess even after meeting some1 better, u might not be able to put the person behind ...
Something similar happened to me ... even after meeting a really nice person, who loved me alot, i didn't treasure the r/s becoz i was still living in memory ... looking back at something that i never once had completely
eventually, i lost some1 who gave 100% of love to me.. anyway its a lesson learnt ..
"Dere r so mani Stars in E Sky, onli some get noticed. Among those U choose to Ignore Is E 1 which was Willing to Shine 4 U forever even if ur glance remained elsewhere."[/quote] -
Juz let time take over...
the harder u try to get him out..
the harder it will become..
been thru it myself... i know it's hard...
but time will heal...
it will get bland over the time...
let urself fall for someone else...
though attempts may fail, it will slowly take him out of ur heart...
hope u can get thru this...
stay cheerful always... -
I know him almost my whole life... He's my first fran.. e very first guy I gave my heart to.. I liked him half my life... expressed my feelings when I was 18... n he told mi he already knew it long ago... Till then nothing happened till early tis yr..
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Im at my wits, too....i can promise u thisOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I know him almost my whole life... He's my first fran.. e very first guy I gave my heart to.. I liked him half my life... expressed my feelings when I was 18... n he told mi he already knew it long ago... Till then nothing happened till early tis yr..
Dun really know how it can be u/stood by u but i'll try....
There's this guy i liked very much....hmm.....yes very very much
& for very long.....but i shant *blah blah blah* my story here
I tried to forget him.......at many attempts....all failed until.....
yes u r 'Rite'...someone else was into the Picture 
CLUE.....momentarily occupying the time when i kept thinking of him & i 'seemed' to forget him already......."Phew!.....finally"
until......like u've said many things (memories) remind u of him...
& within tt 'deja vu' moment.......i know i still like him very much
BUT the passion is gone.....it's really gone & im NOT bluffing u
BUT sub/consciously (both)........i know the liking is still there....
'IT' lives tt's all......u cant 'KILL' it entirely
So, if u do u/stand wat i mean (precisely my worry ).....
if the case (u & him=impossible) is such & u wanna forget him, remember the CLUE......Let other things occupy ur mind & take away the Focus placed on Him........Of course again, u muz Choose to Help urself in a way -
u cant forget..... den u must forgive him......
take him back
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since he know den why aren't any actions??Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I know him almost my whole life... He's my first fran.. e very first guy I gave my heart to.. I liked him half my life... expressed my feelings when I was 18... n he told mi he already knew it long ago... Till then nothing happened till early tis yr..
from what u said... i assumed something happened...
juz dun keep think to forget abt him...
the more u try... the more u will remember him... -
he did ask mi if i wanna b wif him during e beginning part of this yr but I dun wan things to change.. It could be a good change which is good but what if it is a bad one??
haiz... I get wat u mean... e passion is gone but e feelings n memories remain.. e flame isn't burning like a big fire but it is still lighted.. -
Well, if I were you, I will stub it out lest it burns me.
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thanx... i noe that if tt flame dun extinguish, another flame will neber have a place to light...
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i think u are juz used to being with him together... there are many couples out there who are juz used to each other liao. even if they are unhappy wif certain things, they would think "tats the way it shd be" so its juz a matter of facing up to reality. open up yrself, koe more frens and widen yr social circle might help~
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All the more, you should create space for new experiences. Take you time and sample again, like going on an adventure - fun.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:thanx... i noe that if tt flame dun extinguish, another flame will neber have a place to light... -
Yes. U see the 'flame' no moreOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:haiz... I get wat u mean... e passion is gone but e feelings n memories remain.. e flame isn't burning like a big fire but it is still lighted.. Whether it shall still continue to 'burn' or not, Time will tell & heal. We all live...........then die. In the journey of our lives, it's the memories tt can never be erased which proves Living a Life, whether the good ones or the bad, they r traces of our growths & maturity.....bringing us to a higher level in Life to seek wat the Heart desires before Life ends. There r a lot more things to look forward to...juz be open-minded -
thanx franz... i'll juz keep myself bz till then..
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Go immerse yourself in your studies,ehehe
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wahahahha
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I sense here that he has feelings for you too else he wont be asking you whether you wanna be with him.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:he did ask mi if i wanna b wif him during e beginning part of this yr but I dun wan things to change.. It could be a good change which is good but what if it is a bad one??
haiz... I get wat u mean... e passion is gone but e feelings n memories remain.. e flame isn't burning like a big fire but it is still lighted..
Only time can forget. You'll need at least a few years time to really let go. Make more friends meanwhile, busy yourself with new friends can help.
Take care. -
time will tell..
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well......
i love a gal all my life till i feel that its not a matter of being together but rather if she's happy all the time.
she happy i happy.
it's not about possession.