I tried... But still I can't do it...
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Does love really mean seeing tt person happie n not mean possession?? Exactly wat is love?? Why is there still no fixed answer to this qn till today??
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true love is forgiving..
even if the smile on their face wasn meant for you,
even if life was life without you,
even if the wat you wished will nv come true..
sometimes seeing them happy, makes u happy too.
although most wish that they could share the happiness together that's love.
but who can be truely forgiving, our hearts will still hurt, if we see how a person hu claimed to be unable to survive without u, is now holding the hands of another?
many will think why not me? why wasn i the one hu can make that smile appear on your face again? sometimes, we have no control over what happens.. cos things happen, and always for a reason.
sometimes we just have to learn to let go, to forgive.. and sometimes forget..
i have not yet master the skills of forgetting.. maybe that's why sometimes we just can't stop thinking about the past, what they said what they did..
i'm in a similar situation as so many pple out there, just cant get him outta my head, sometimes wish there was really a WANG QING SHUI
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i agree w/ u...it is juz so sad when u wish tt they will be happy but in the end know tt happiness means u r out of the picture...haiz...if have WANG QING SHUI, save 1 for me kOriginally posted by puppylove:true love is forgiving..
even if the smile on their face wasn meant for you,
even if life was life without you,
even if the wat you wished will nv come true..
sometimes seeing them happy, makes u happy too.
although most wish that they could share the happiness together that's love.
but who can be truely forgiving, our hearts will still hurt, if we see how a person hu claimed to be unable to survive without u, is now holding the hands of another?
many will think why not me? why wasn i the one hu can make that smile appear on your face again? sometimes, we have no control over what happens.. cos things happen, and always for a reason. sometimes we just have to learn to let go, to forgive.. and sometimes forget..
i have not yet master the skills of forgetting.. maybe that's why sometimes we just can't stop thinking about the past, what they said what they did..
i'm in a similar situation as so many pple out there, just cant get him outta my head, sometimes wish there was really a WANG QING SHUI -
if i had WANG QING SHUI.. i won be here posting messages liao, maybe out playing like siao or something
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below is my personal opinion(it may not be right):Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:Does love really mean seeing tt person happie n not mean possession?? Exactly wat is love?? Why is there still no fixed answer to this qn till today??
if man knows the definition of love, then u, i and frens around us would probably born n live in a different environment... " love " has no definite answer in this vast universe we live in ..however there are many terms n names use to associate with "love" ..e.g. BGR, friendship, family etc..
i understand ur feelings, but you muz remember thats not all in life... in life there so mani things u can look forward to - daily work, frens, family, TV programme..etc The time u spend together with him is a duration of tests laid down for u in order for obstacles in near future.. all these tests are there to prepare you for the next relationship, the one you've waiting for... to let you be a better person..be a better girlfriend.. then u and ur bf/husband will have a new, better life to begin.. life has so much hope, and its up to u to grab and teasure it...look in tis direction, u will feel better..
be glad there are some things and experiences u have learnt from the duration...it is so valuable, so priceless that only you gain from it and no one else does even some live longer than u do..
Fang qi(let go) is also a yong qi( courage)..let go of a person is not easy... everything seems suddenly associate with him or her, the place went together b4, the shirt u bought for him, the Xmas dinner u spend together, Valentine's Day,...etc. but somehow u tend to think of him again after a day's activities.. it's normal.. but it should not happen too often..sub-consiously, you r putting stress on yourself without u realising it.. Immerse yourself into other stuffs is one solution ...stop thinkin about him n listen to the songs u don't listen with or without him, frequent other places u don't, exercise, social around n make more frens..let time plays its part to help you... slowly, you forget about him. and the time when u realise you forgotten about him, you can tell yourself u are a brand new person..
if it's tiring to live alone, den be yong gan( brave) to tell and depend on your frens or families... they are one of the free yet worthwhile gifts given to you... Humans are not born strong to overcome everything..
believe in yourself... -
Love can never have a fixed answer coz we all love differently.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:Does love really mean seeing tt person happie n not mean possession?? Exactly wat is love?? Why is there still no fixed answer to this qn till today??
Anyway......Better things to do
Ask no more wat's Love.....plain words cant explain Love
Love exists in the heart.......feel it & show it to the ONE
However, reckon alot arent capable of doing so these days
Many ask but never to Create Love by feeling but juz following the crowd
If u dun meet someone who allows u to feel wat's Love now,
NEXT
Believe & Seek......pondering & asking solves nothing
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wat is say is true...very true...but very hard to go thru alsoOriginally posted by xiaoqiang:below is my personal opinion(it may not be right):
if man knows the definition of love, then u, i and frens around us would probably born n live in a different environment... " love " has no definite answer in this vast universe we live in ..however there are many terms n names use to associate with "love" ..e.g. BGR, friendship, family etc..
i understand ur feelings, but you muz remember thats not all in life... in life there so mani things u can look forward to - daily work, frens, family, TV programme..etc The time u spend together with him is a duration of tests laid down for u in order for obstacles in near future.. all these tests are there to prepare you for the next relationship, the one you've waiting for... to let you be a better person..be a better girlfriend.. then u and ur bf/husband will have a new, better life to begin.. life has so much hope, and its up to u to grab and teasure it...look in tis direction, u will feel better..
be glad there are some things and experiences u have learnt from the duration...it is so valuable, so priceless that only you gain from it and no one else does even some live longer than u do..
Fang qi(let go) is also a yong qi( courage)..let go of a person is not easy... everything seems suddenly associate with him or her, the place went together b4, the shirt u bought for him, the Xmas dinner u spend together, Valentine's Day,...etc. but somehow u tend to think of him again after a day's activities.. it's normal.. but it should not happen too often..sub-consiously, you r putting stress on yourself without u realising it.. Immerse yourself into other stuffs is one solution ...stop thinkin about him n listen to the songs u don't listen with or without him, frequent other places u don't, exercise, social around n make more frens..let time plays its part to help you... slowly, you forget about him. and the time when u realise you forgotten about him, you can tell yourself u are a brand new person..
if it's tiring to live alone, den be yong gan( brave) to tell and depend on your frens or families... they are one of the free yet worthwhile gifts given to you... Humans are not born strong to overcome everything..
believe in yourself...
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i mean.. u nv try to contact him and tell him u still like him? But like wad mani said.. once u let go.. there might not be ani turning back..Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How can I ever get e one whom I've loved for almost half of my life and still loving him now out of my heart?? I can still remember all e times I've shared wif him since e day I knew him as a child.. I miss him a lot thou I know tt things won't ever be possible between us.. I juz wanna noe how can I ever let go?? I've tried... But everything seems to remind mi of him now and then... (considering tt most of my life was spent wif him in e picture also)...
tt's y there're regrets...
Till now, i still live wif regrets... but i remembered. if i dun let him go.. i will onli spoil the most beautiful memories wif him.. cos he didn't treat me as well as the past..
But i told him.. let bygones be bygones.. So... maybe being frens is the best...
Memories are memories.. past is past.. -
GET A LIFEOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How can I ever get e one whom I've loved for almost half of my life and still loving him now out of my heart?? I can still remember all e times I've shared wif him since e day I knew him as a child.. I miss him a lot thou I know tt things won't ever be possible between us.. I juz wanna noe how can I ever let go?? I've tried... But everything seems to remind mi of him now and then... (considering tt most of my life was spent wif him in e picture also)... -
Originally posted by puppylove:true love is forgiving..
even if the smile on their face wasn meant for you,
even if life was life without you,
even if the wat you wished will nv come true..
sometimes seeing them happy, makes u happy too.
although most wish that they could share the happiness together that's love.
but who can be truely forgiving, our hearts will still hurt, if we see how a person hu claimed to be unable to survive without u, is now holding the hands of another?
many will think why not me? why wasn i the one hu can make that smile appear on your face again? sometimes, we have no control over what happens.. cos things happen, and always for a reason. sometimes we just have to learn to let go, to forgive.. and sometimes forget..
i have not yet master the skills of forgetting.. maybe that's why sometimes we just can't stop thinking about the past, what they said what they did..
i'm in a similar situation as so many pple out there, just cant get him outta my head, sometimes wish there was really a WANG QING SHUI -
u can do it
for me...having a few day of mad days (mine second time)
Now...I realise...If she happy can liao...What should i expect more...There still other thing i can do..And try to
too
Im glad that she manage to say out bravely
No matter how hurt i am...She also wouldn't know...Even if she knows...Thing wouldn't improve coz a fact is a fact...No point...
No matter how others think bad about me...I wouldn't blame them...
Coz they dun understand me deep enough...If they did it one day...They will realise that im a stupid fool
so trust time...It will happen to u...U will be strong...
In the past...I dun really trust time...But now...I had to admit it...
That's the fact...Now...time to say goodbye ! 
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Get a puppy and great loads of friends. Your life be as wonderful as the moments u tink of the life with him. Or would u rather live in ur past and forgo the future?Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How can I ever get e one whom I've loved for almost half of my life and still loving him now out of my heart?? I can still remember all e times I've shared wif him since e day I knew him as a child.. I miss him a lot thou I know tt things won't ever be possible between us.. I juz wanna noe how can I ever let go?? I've tried... But everything seems to remind mi of him now and then... (considering tt most of my life was spent wif him in e picture also)... -
AsTr0GiRL
I don't know what happened betwn the 2 of you or had you try to tell him how you feel about him and not assume that it is not possible btwn the 2 of you as he may feel the same also and not dare to tell you. There isn't any fast method to forget someone you love so much, but you can only let time takes its course....YOu just had to move on and eventually when you suddenly remember him one day when doing something, you know you had already forget him. Your condition now is that you are now in a small circle and not dare to take a step out of that small circle of your to relised that there is a bigger outside. Try to make more friends and have more choice for yourself and not to confine to one only....
All the best..
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