again i am in agony
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guys would you be with someone and give her all your time and money when you feel insecure with her sometimes? would you continue this relationship when you go into depression because of the fear that she runs away?
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i would prefer some good advices. i feel very down
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Why be with her when you feel insecure? Communication is really very important in maintaining a health relationship.Originally posted by cyrusv2:guys would you be with someone and give her all your time and money when you feel insecure with her sometimes? would you continue this relationship when you go into depression because of the fear that she runs away? -
then y are you in a r/s with her?Originally posted by cyrusv2:guys would you be with someone and give her all your time and money when you feel insecure with her sometimes? would you continue this relationship when you go into depression because of the fear that she runs away?
The thing is are you happy? That's all that matters.
doko -
i have a soft spot for her. everytime i want to leave her but when i see her i feel so good that i stay with her..... i feel happy with her but insecure without her. we broke up once because of another guy. i feel the fear of losing a girl you love very much.
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Tell telling her how much you need her.
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i got try to talk to her. i dont get the answers i want from her.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Why be with her when you feel insecure? Communication is really very important in maintaining a health relationship. -
dont it makes me look desperate for her? putting me at the disadvantage? and btw i tried that. i feel so embarassedOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Tell telling her how much you need her. -
What are the answers you seek?Originally posted by cyrusv2:i got try to talk to her. i dont get the answers i want from her.
Sometimes the answers may not come from her but from you.
doko -
Bro,I was in the same situation as you.
you needa ask yourself
-Is she really worthy?
-Do the memories mean anything?
-Will you ever regret your decision?
-Does the good things she's ever did for you over-weigh the lil conflicts you both had?
-Will you be able to find someone better?
-How can you both work this out?
-Is there a better way to solve it?
Never ever let your emootions cloud your judgement
all the best to you -
its called, loving someone enough to cast aside your prideOriginally posted by cyrusv2:dont it makes me look desperate for her? putting me at the disadvantage? and btw i tried that. i feel so embarassed
do it with sincerity
dont sms
its useless
sms is monotonous
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i call her before. we talk but when she dont want to answer she hangs up. saying that i dont trust her. I was traumatised by my experiences when we left me and started dating the other guy. i felt cheated and serverely depressed. i am permanently scared its something i know. hey iainmad i am glad i am not alone. and the set of qns u set down i might just really sit down and ask myself...
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If you love someone very much then will you let go of her?Originally posted by cyrusv2:i got try to talk to her. i dont get the answers i want from her.
If you really love her, then why do you seems like locking her in a 'cage'?
Are you afraid that she might leave you one day and never return?
Just like many months ago, she left you for another set relationship. Deep in her mind she is glad to leave you, and be with her new soul mate. For that instance, she is enjoying her new relationship.
If she has found her new love somewhere else and she is happy with it, will you give her your blessing? Do you wish her to be happy?
While for you, things is totally different. During that period of time, you are devastated. You feel like the world has turn its back against you, and you lose all your hopes. Life suddenly feel so stark, and all you have with you is a broken heart.
Soon you gave up all your hope. Finally you realized that love is something that cannot be forced.
Months has past, and your tears have dried. Suddenly, everything took a turn. She patched back with you. Surprising, love can really be so special and illogical.
Two of you are now back together and I believe this time she will be totally committed to the new relationship with you. You both are enjoying each other's accompany. Knowing that both care for each other, the relationship will then be stable.
But ask yourself this question again. If you love someone very much then will you let go of her? -
cyrusv2,
Why is this relationship so rocky ?
You mean, she broke off with you, then go date another guy ?
Or she date another guy while she still in a relationship with you ?
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hmmm, thought of running away right......did that with my previous R/S. Preventing myself from being hurt before the actual hurt comes, thinking back it was all for nothing & plain childish.Originally posted by cyrusv2:guys would you be with someone and give her all your time and money when you feel insecure with her sometimes? would you continue this relationship when you go into depression because of the fear that she runs away?
I fully understand that it can be tormenting feeling insecure but you just gotta have a positive mindset towards the R/S. If she leaves, let it be.....but for every moment that she's there with you, learn to cherish & shower her with whatever you have.
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Ok u are behaving like a stupid shit. Girl wont like a no confident man who always feels insecure to themselves. Behave like a real man . Learn from some of those playboy their spirit. You will find girl flocking to u. And $$ helps u a lot in these area.
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i have been in same kind of suitation as u. I felt insecure becos i have no confidence in myself and the guy's action also make me lost trust in him. Till now im still trying to stay rationale.. Worst still i told him we should stop contacting ....
juz like u , i have a soft spot for him... mai meet him, i miss him deeply, meet liao very happy and forget all agonies but if u see him busy on phone ur heart will wrench....
Mind ask u to forget and stay clear but the heart die die wan to hang on... no matter what u do n etc also no use... its either time fade awae all good memories awae or jump into another relationship to enjoy receiving all honey pots again..
that is my own bias view.... -
Na... i dont give money to the gal i like.. shes taking things for granted... i hate gals trying to use my money for her own selfishness.. i can treat but not to buy her so expensive things..Originally posted by cyrusv2:guys would you be with someone and give her all your time and money when you feel insecure with her sometimes? would you continue this relationship when you go into depression because of the fear that she runs away?
Dont have to give all your time.. some gals like ppl to accompany them but htey dun like to accompany ppl.. really damn one... this kind of gal is materailistic and also attention-seeking one..
I suggest u better dun waste so much money on her... a pure r/s never see bout the money at all..
later you pokai, u know -
another whinner
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(A) If u love a person very much, u wld do anythin to let her know how u feel.
(B) If u cant make urself to do anything (not money-wise) for her or to make her happy, u aint love her much.
But if u hav done (A) & she's not happy & to the extent of havin u to spend alot of time + money on her, U are wastin ur time.
If ur insecurity is the thing tat is in between both of u, u GOTTA do something abt it! U are wasting time decidin on wat CANNOT b done. -
Ah! you hv fallen into gal trap. These are what we are good at, give u the fake love and make u happy to be with us, in return, u give all you hv to us, I admire and praise her skill for doing that to a weak man like you.Originally posted by cyrusv2:guys would you be with someone and give her all your time and money when you feel insecure with her sometimes? would you continue this relationship when you go into depression because of the fear that she runs away?
One up for gal, yeah!!! -
yes that the one. now shes back to my side. and i have already regain all the financial power i used to have. but i am very caught up with the things that she might have done with that guy(not that thing). i feel weird with her sometimes because i get nightmare like for example.... her kissing that guy. i feel very caught up about it.Originally posted by jojobeach:cyrusv2,
Why is this relationship so rocky ?
You mean, she broke off with you, then go date another guy ?
Or she date another guy while she still in a relationship with you ?
Is this the same girl you seek "sweet" revenge ? -
dude if you dont like whinners dont come to aunt agony you arrogant good for nothing. you can always choose to leave this thread it your choiceOriginally posted by boka:another whinner
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thank you very much..... what you said put me into deep thoughtsOriginally posted by wabuaysong:i have been in same kind of suitation as u. I felt insecure becos i have no confidence in myself and the guy's action also make me lost trust in him. Till now im still trying to stay rationale.. Worst still i told him we should stop contacting ....
juz like u , i have a soft spot for him... mai meet him, i miss him deeply, meet liao very happy and forget all agonies but if u see him busy on phone ur heart will wrench....
Mind ask u to forget and stay clear but the heart die die wan to hang on... no matter what u do n etc also no use... its either time fade awae all good memories awae or jump into another relationship to enjoy receiving all honey pots again..
that is my own bias view.... -
she is not the materialistic type. she dont use all my money awayOriginally posted by Zarks:Na... i dont give money to the gal i like.. shes taking things for granted... i hate gals trying to use my money for her own selfishness.. i can treat but not to buy her so expensive things..
Dont have to give all your time.. some gals like ppl to accompany them but htey dun like to accompany ppl.. really damn one... this kind of gal is materailistic and also attention-seeking one..
I suggest u better dun waste so much money on her... a pure r/s never see bout the money at all..
later you pokai, u know