why? is it a normal/abnormal of his attitude?
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i am not sure about this...
i called a guy and he picked up. happily i ask him to guess why i call him... his reply was "why you called, why you called leh??"
so i replied cause i like to call you mah... he replied you want to call me then call lor... (he always sounds like i can call him anytime) and ask me where am i...
after a few exchange of words, i found out that he was outside(talking with his fren) so i said... oh you busy? then bye bye lor... he replied "bye BYe"
a bit reluctant, i said really?? he ask me to sms him. so i said dont want, and asked him what time i can call him back. he said 30 min later...
40 min later, i called back twice, he cut my phone. so i msg him to ask if i can sms him. NO REPLY. 15 min i called back once, no1 picks up. so i sms him saying i have sth that needs his help if he can. its really impprtant to me. 10 mins plus plus later den he reply me wat thing...
Anyway, that thing is really v impt -
i think u have successfully interrupted and irritated him
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Your friend really having attitude problem leh. 
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what's the issue? are you calling him just to chat? get him to call u back
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it is a normal reply, and even if someone was to call me, or even sms me, it really depends on what sort of message it is, i probably will message back a few days later or never even reply at all
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if you have something to important, then just message him, your problem and ask him to help out, don't beat around the bush
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got to know a girl online, and she's is like u like that,den i think ok den tok to her, den i tired i sae i wan go slp she sae NO , i was like WTF ?! then from that time onwards i started ignoring.and very obvious i ignoring her she still can keep call n sms den i felt alittle irritated. so i often ignore her in msn n calls, in the end she stop calling . must know limit de mah.
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i only call once per week or 2 weeks once.. v often? i din even sms. still v often/? all conv not more than 30 min
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both of you are equally bo liao...
u call him for fun for what?? -
maybe you just caught him at a bad time... although i won't defend him, he shouldn't ignore you like that...Originally posted by woho:i only call once per week or 2 weeks once.. v often? i din even sms. still v often/? all conv not more than 30 min -
i cannot stand it if people call me and don't come to the point, or ask me to guess who they are la this type of thing. I find it very irritating cos usually I am doing something.
So if you need help, come to the point.
if he cut off your phone, obviously not convenient to answer. if he ask you if you can sms him, obviously he is not able to talk to you on the phone.
I will get lagi more irritated if I am in an inconvenient situation, already tell that person, that person insist on keeping on the line or KEEPS ON CALLING AND CALLING. Actually ur friend very good already. I'd switch off my phone.
If u like this guy and trying to get to know him more by chatting with him on the phone, I suggest you learn to respect it when he is not free first. -
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i did apologise and said i didnt mean it... and thanks him for his help
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TS, first , you should state the guy is your bf, crush, best friend or only normal friend. So we can have better understanding bout your situation
But No offence,
I think that guy doesnt give a shyt to you...
What is a man to tell a gal to call them and sms them but he doesnt do it (TS never stated this right?)
Seriously, i think he's just being friendly and just love attention.. but not to the extend of liking you..
i guess he somehow knows you like him and enjoy this attention but i think he's tired of these or mayb he realised he doesnt want to give u the wrong perception that he likes you too -
stop pestering him eh
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i personally dun like it much when i call a person, they say why u call ar... damn wan give them one big roundhouse kick lol
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want to act deh with a guy also must find right timing
and most importantly - the right method
obviously your method is not attractive to him
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Oh yes, too childish and amateurish. Wake up yr idea ya, you will never hook a bf with such method.Originally posted by theSquelch:want to act deh with a guy also must find right timing
and most importantly - the right method
obviously your method is not attractive to him
too bad! -
seriously, i feel tat its normal for his attitude towards u.
1st. u started out a bo liao conversation.
i called a guy and he picked up. happily i ask him to guess why i call him... his reply was "why you called, why you called leh??"
2nd. u beat ard the bush.
3rd. he is with his frenz.
4th. u flood him with calls n sms.[/i] -
I like him,don't really like gals calling us up and hoping for us to give them any attention.Originally posted by woho:i am not sure about this...
i called a guy and he picked up. happily i ask him to guess why i call him... his reply was "why you called, why you called leh??"
so i replied cause i like to call you mah... he replied you want to call me then call lor... (he always sounds like i can call him anytime) and ask me where am i...
after a few exchange of words, i found out that he was outside(talking with his fren) so i said... oh you busy? then bye bye lor... he replied "bye BYe"
a bit reluctant, i said really?? he ask me to sms him. so i said dont want, and asked him what time i can call him back. he said 30 min later...
40 min later, i called back twice, he cut my phone. so i msg him to ask if i can sms him. NO REPLY. 15 min i called back once, no1 picks up. so i sms him saying i have sth that needs his help if he can. its really impprtant to me. 10 mins plus plus later den he reply me wat thing...
Anyway, that thing is really v impt
U have been listed on our agenda as "insignificant" -
he is just my friend. all my guys n gals friend dont treat me like this...
anyway, i only call once per week or 2 weeks once.. v often? i din even sms until that time. still v often/? all conv short and sweet. i just dont understand why he suddenly behave like this
I DIN FLOOD HIM WITH CALLS OR SMSes.. PLS get it right -
True , true...Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:i cannot stand it if people call me and don't come to the point, or ask me to guess who they are la this type of thing. I find it very irritating cos usually I am doing something.
So if you need help, come to the point.
if he cut off your phone, obviously not convenient to answer. if he ask you if you can sms him, obviously he is not able to talk to you on the phone.
I will get lagi more irritated if I am in an inconvenient situation, already tell that person, that person insist on keeping on the line or KEEPS ON CALLING AND CALLING. Actually ur friend very good already. I'd switch off my phone.
If u like this guy and trying to get to know him more by chatting with him on the phone, I suggest you learn to respect it when he is not free first. -
true , true...Originally posted by allentyb:if you have something to important, then just message him, your problem and ask him to help out, don't beat around the bush
Straight to the point .. dont beat bush -
u lucky got many gals call uOriginally posted by boka:I like him,don't really like gals calling us up and hoping for us to give them any attention.
U have been listed on our agenda as "insignificant"
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Hm... lets make spme experiment
Lets say im the man you alwasy call ha..
Hm.. of course i would like it if my friend calls me up
and yea. i wont mind my friend to alwasy call me up.
BUT....
i dont like it when my friend call me up just to talk nonsense over the phone especially when im busy or with my friend doing something and not avaiable to even talk.
Teach u la ,dear
U can call but control your behaviour a bit.. Dont start by let him guess why you call him.. Guys dun like to guess.. Remembe rthat..
Start call him then just say things like Hey, How are you doin there? What r u doin.. Hows your day? keep it short enough
If hes busy with his friend .. just say: Alrite, i shall not disturb u with your friends la.. have fun and take care.. Yea.. it may sound simple,, but if u talk like that, he will even respect you more for being understanding..
We, guys dont really like gals to act cute or to get attention, what we guys want is an understanding gal, not a gal who want ppl to give attention to them.
If you got something really important, just leave a message,
Message is actually the only way to let the person whom doesnt wan to talk to you read it.. YOu can simply say, hey, i got important thing to ask you which is bla bla.. Would you mind to have some free time to help me out? If you dont, its alrite. Hv a nice day..
Simple and understanding .. enough lor.. don act cute in the phone enough liou.. guys like understanding gal more than a cute gal.
I personally irritated when gal call me then say nonsense.. even in msn.. they say funny things and keep irritating me..
Be simple and straight to the point.. no need say " i like to chat with u ma:... Everytime i hear it ,i myself will show these --->