huh... do i sound like im whining?Originally posted by gigabyte14:please go to whinehouse forums if all you want to do is whine.
yes.Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:huh... do i sound like im whining?
sorry about that, perhaps I do sound a bit whiny without me realising it.Originally posted by gigabyte14:yes.
and how can we help if you don't say anything?
Is having him so important? What happen if u have him and he is not happy??Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:"The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you cant have them." - Metaphorically speaking.
how true...![]()
yes exactly.. btw it's a he... im torn between my own feeling and his feeling. That's the reason why i felt that way. I want him to be happy. But the feeling inside of me is quite 'dreadful'. it's tiring to let this out to my friends (as they keep saying the same thing). so i just let it out here. at least i felt better saying it 'anonymously'Originally posted by CannyOng:Is having her so important? What happen if u have her and she is not happy??
try writing something, an email, a letter, or something.Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:sorry about that, perhaps I do sound a bit whiny without me realising it.
Just that, I kinda missing someone right now, but the fact that he is a really good friend, and i treasure his friendship, i didn't really have the courage to say how I really feel. So when he's here, (whether we are out having coffee or dinner etc etc), I hide my true feelings, but when he's not, i keep waiting for him to go online, sms, etc etc..
Ppl tell me to have the courage to tell how I feel. But big part of me really thinks that it is not a good idea (knowing him very well). I guess some of you will say never know until you try.. But seriously I don't want to take the risk to lose our friendship.
So yah.. just letting out what im feeling right now. Do I sound whiny?
so you're saying you knew?Originally posted by Pion:Just ignore gigabyte.
He don't understand girl's hearts.
If u able to feel that way,I believe u can beat this feeling sooner or later!Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:yes exactly.. btw it's a he... im torn between my own feeling and his feeling. That's the reason why i felt that way. I want him to be happy. But the feeling inside of me is quite 'dreadful'. it's tiring to let this out to my friends (as they keep saying the same thing). so i just let it out here. at least i felt better saying it 'anonymously'
I am saying you know buses better than girlsOriginally posted by gigabyte14:so you're saying you knew?
im already quite close to him.. maybe because we share the same interest and can really talk about anything. I feel comfortable with him. known him for 2-3 yrs. but im doubtful abt whether we will still be as close if i ever say how i feel or if it's a failed r/s. coz in my past r/s (with other guys), i rarely stay contact with them after we broke up.Originally posted by gigabyte14:try writing something, an email, a letter, or something.
or you can always ask him out in a group, and try to get closer to him, eg. talk to him, get to know more about him and such.
and also, even if it's a failed r/s, you can remain as friends too.
may i ask, how long have you known him?
thanks.. but nope, he is not attached (as far as I know lol)Originally posted by CannyOng:If u able to feel that way,I believe u can beat this feeling sooner or later!
Good to let it out. Sooner or later,u are ok!
Btw,is the guy attached?
Hanor hanor,,,, afterwards Gigs bite your butt then u know arh!Originally posted by gigabyte14:please go to whinehouse forums if all you want to do is whine.
Originally posted by dbowie:You can just use this :
You :
You like mee ?
He :
No.
You :
What about beehoon ?
I think this is lifted from darkie.
thanks, I get what you mean. Perhaps yes I do have a lil' fear of rejection. But my fear of losing him weighs even more.Originally posted by kct360:you have to let him know...ur feeling what ur feeling now cause ur scared of rejection?
and rejection is better den having to hide it from him..at least you wont regret cause you know you've done what you should and could have.
Originally posted by Pion:I am saying you know buses better than girls![]()
I think TS mention her feeling and way of handling friendship.Originally posted by kct360:you have to let him know...ur feeling what ur feeling now cause ur scared of rejection?
and rejection is better den having to hide it from him..at least you wont regret cause you know you've done what you should and could have.
it take two hands to clap, my friend.Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:thanks, I get what you mean. Perhaps yes I do have a lil' fear of rejection. But my fear of losing him weighs even more.