Worst feeling of all - currently

• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:12

  "The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you cant have them." - Metaphorically speaking.
  
  how true...
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 21:13

  please go to whinehouse forums if all you want to do is whine.
• oOprinceOo

  23 Sep 07, 21:13

  wah jus beside ah. true.
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:15

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  please go to whinehouse forums if all you want to do is whine.

  huh... do i sound like im whining?
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 21:19

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  huh... do i sound like im whining?

  yes.
  
  and how can we help if you don't say anything?
• Pion

  23 Sep 07, 21:21

  What is your number?
  
  I give you another person to miss
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:31

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  yes.
  
  and how can we help if you don't say anything?

  sorry about that, perhaps I do sound a bit whiny without me realising it.
  Just that, I kinda missing someone right now, but the fact that he is a really good friend, and i treasure his friendship, i didn't really have the courage to say how I really feel. So when he's here, (whether we are out having coffee or dinner etc etc), I hide my true feelings, but when he's not, i keep waiting for him to go online, sms, etc etc..
  
  Ppl tell me to have the courage to tell how I feel. But big part of me really thinks that it is not a good idea (knowing him very well). I guess some of you will say never know until you try.. But seriously I don't want to take the risk to lose our friendship.
  
  So yah.. just letting out what im feeling right now. Do I sound whiny?
• CannyOng

  23 Sep 07, 21:33

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  "The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you cant have them." - Metaphorically speaking.
  
  how true...

  Is having him so important? What happen if u have him and he is not happy??
• Pion

  23 Sep 07, 21:34

  Just ignore gigabyte.
  
  He don't understand girl's hearts.
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:37

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  Is having her so important? What happen if u have her and she is not happy??

  yes exactly.. btw it's a he... im torn between my own feeling and his feeling. That's the reason why i felt that way. I want him to be happy. But the feeling inside of me is quite 'dreadful'. it's tiring to let this out to my friends (as they keep saying the same thing). so i just let it out here. at least i felt better saying it 'anonymously'
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 21:38

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  sorry about that, perhaps I do sound a bit whiny without me realising it.
  Just that, I kinda missing someone right now, but the fact that he is a really good friend, and i treasure his friendship, i didn't really have the courage to say how I really feel. So when he's here, (whether we are out having coffee or dinner etc etc), I hide my true feelings, but when he's not, i keep waiting for him to go online, sms, etc etc..
  
  Ppl tell me to have the courage to tell how I feel. But big part of me really thinks that it is not a good idea (knowing him very well). I guess some of you will say never know until you try.. But seriously I don't want to take the risk to lose our friendship.
  
  So yah.. just letting out what im feeling right now. Do I sound whiny?

  try writing something, an email, a letter, or something.
  
  or you can always ask him out in a group, and try to get closer to him, eg. talk to him, get to know more about him and such.
  
  and also, even if it's a failed r/s, you can remain as friends too.
  
  may i ask, how long have you known him?
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 21:39

  Originally posted by Pion:

  Just ignore gigabyte.
  
  He don't understand girl's hearts.

  so you're saying you knew?
• CannyOng

  23 Sep 07, 21:40

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  yes exactly.. btw it's a he... im torn between my own feeling and his feeling. That's the reason why i felt that way. I want him to be happy. But the feeling inside of me is quite 'dreadful'. it's tiring to let this out to my friends (as they keep saying the same thing). so i just let it out here. at least i felt better saying it 'anonymously'

  If u able to feel that way,I believe u can beat this feeling sooner or later!
  Good to let it out. Sooner or later,u are ok!
  
  Btw,is the guy attached?
• Pion

  23 Sep 07, 21:42

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  so you're saying you knew?

  I am saying you know buses better than girls
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:44

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  try writing something, an email, a letter, or something.
  
  or you can always ask him out in a group, and try to get closer to him, eg. talk to him, get to know more about him and such.
  
  and also, even if it's a failed r/s, you can remain as friends too.
  
  may i ask, how long have you known him?

  im already quite close to him.. maybe because we share the same interest and can really talk about anything. I feel comfortable with him. known him for 2-3 yrs. but im doubtful abt whether we will still be as close if i ever say how i feel or if it's a failed r/s. coz in my past r/s (with other guys), i rarely stay contact with them after we broke up.
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:45

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  If u able to feel that way,I believe u can beat this feeling sooner or later!
  Good to let it out. Sooner or later,u are ok!
  
  Btw,is the guy attached?

  thanks.. but nope, he is not attached (as far as I know lol)
• <Precious>

  23 Sep 07, 21:46

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  please go to whinehouse forums if all you want to do is whine.

  Hanor hanor,,,, afterwards Gigs bite your butt then u know arh!
• dbowie

  23 Sep 07, 21:47

  You can just use this :
  You :
  You like mee ?
  He :
  No.
  You :
  What about beehoon ?
  
  I think this is lifted from darkie.
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 21:49

  Originally posted by dbowie:

  You can just use this :
  You :
  You like mee ?
  He :
  No.
  You :
  What about beehoon ?
  
  I think this is lifted from darkie.

  thanks for the laugh.
• kct360

  23 Sep 07, 22:07

  you have to let him know...ur feeling what ur feeling now cause ur scared of rejection?
  
  and rejection is better den having to hide it from him..at least you wont regret cause you know you've done what you should and could have.
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 22:12

  Originally posted by kct360:

  you have to let him know...ur feeling what ur feeling now cause ur scared of rejection?
  
  and rejection is better den having to hide it from him..at least you wont regret cause you know you've done what you should and could have.

  thanks, I get what you mean. Perhaps yes I do have a lil' fear of rejection. But my fear of losing him weighs even more.
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 22:12

  Originally posted by Pion:

  I am saying you know buses better than girls

  
• PassionInAG

  23 Sep 07, 22:13

  sorry about it. *edited*
  
  don't regret every actions u make can le GL
• CannyOng

  23 Sep 07, 22:16

  Originally posted by kct360:

  you have to let him know...ur feeling what ur feeling now cause ur scared of rejection?
  
  and rejection is better den having to hide it from him..at least you wont regret cause you know you've done what you should and could have.

  I think TS mention her feeling and way of handling friendship.
  
  TS needs to weight properly of friendship or regret for life??
  
  If u think u cannot to lose him even as friend then keeping mute over it is the best option
  
  If u think u cannot take the feeling of hiding the truth from him,confess will be the best choice. Weigh yr chocie properly and make careful decision..
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 22:18

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  thanks, I get what you mean. Perhaps yes I do have a lil' fear of rejection. But my fear of losing him weighs even more.

  it take two hands to clap, my friend.