Worst feeling of all - currently

• CannyOng

  23 Sep 07, 22:18

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  thanks, I get what you mean. Perhaps yes I do have a lil' fear of rejection. But my fear of losing him weighs even more.

  Good that u know what u want.. Stick to it and be firm. Don't be affect by other advise.
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 22:25

  Originally posted by PassionInAG:

  Sorry but I totally agree with him.

  read more.
• gigabyte14

  23 Sep 07, 22:26

  well, you mentioned he's single
  
  and you're single
  
  and you've known him for 2-3 years
  
  it's easy to develop, i tell you
  
  sometimes, you have to brave it a little
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 22:41

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  well, you mentioned he's single
  
  and you're single
  
  and you've known him for 2-3 years
  
  it's easy to develop, i tell you
  
  sometimes, you have to brave it a little

  thanks.. it's tough to be brave in this situation (to me that is), perhaps only time will tell.
  
  
• Pion

  23 Sep 07, 22:45

  My recommendation is for you to stay put and not do a single thing for the rest of this year.
• browniebaobao

  23 Sep 07, 23:06

  does he knows ur feelings for him?
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 23:11

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  does he knows ur feelings for him?

  i doubt so. we are quite close.. but our friendship is like 'brother - sister' kind. sometimes i do call him 'brother' lol..
• Pion

  23 Sep 07, 23:13

  you are still hung up on him aye?
  
  all i can say is that love does not favour pigs this year.
• browniebaobao

  23 Sep 07, 23:13

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  i doubt so. we are quite close.. but our friendship is like 'brother - sister' kind. sometimes i do call him 'brother' lol..

  
  
  how old are both of u?
• wh|te_@ng3|

  23 Sep 07, 23:27

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  
  how old are both of u?

  we are both 24.
• cApitaland

  23 Sep 07, 23:31

  i feel like that sometimes.
  
  withdrawal symptoms from those i had shared a wonderful past with.
  
  it makes me EMO.
• browniebaobao

  23 Sep 07, 23:45

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  we are both 24.

  if u are confident that ur friendship is up to test, then tell him.
  
  but if u are not sure.. then maybe juz let nature take its course?
  
  to be safe, maybe juz drop a few hints, and see how he react.
• Detached

  24 Sep 07, 06:03

  I say...
  
  Go for it, express yourself in whatever way you deem fit.
  
  I'd rather a "No" anytime,
  
  than to have many regrets in the future.
• Isis

  24 Sep 07, 06:07

  U don't ask him, you sad.
  U ask him and he reject u, you also sad.
  
  Aiyeah just ask him........ i don't see any loss...
  
  But it also depends on how u tell him.
  Can follow BBB's advice, there are always alternative ways to go about it.
• de_middle

  24 Sep 07, 08:49

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  huh... do i sound like im whining?

  then are u in any agony
• Zarks

  24 Sep 07, 08:53

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  then are u in any agony

  Ask FireIce if he is
• Sagara

  24 Sep 07, 10:15

  Hmm...
  
  i would rather regret something i did than something which i didnt do.
• angel7030

  24 Sep 07, 14:57

  Dear TS,
  
  Are You a Gay?
• nanren4ever

  25 Sep 07, 07:59

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  sorry about that, perhaps I do sound a bit whiny without me realising it.
  Just that, I kinda missing someone right now, but the fact that he is a really good friend, and i treasure his friendship, i didn't really have the courage to say how I really feel. So when he's here, (whether we are out having coffee or dinner etc etc), I hide my true feelings, but when he's not, i keep waiting for him to go online, sms, etc etc..
  
  Ppl tell me to have the courage to tell how I feel. But big part of me really thinks that it is not a good idea (knowing him very well). I guess some of you will say never know until you try.. But seriously I don't want to take the risk to lose our friendship.
  
  So yah.. just letting out what im feeling right now. Do I sound whiny?

  I can relate to u. For me, its a case of being the girl's best buddy, and I know that I can go no further than being just that. But from what I heard, it was exactly due to the fact that I clamped my mouth for fear of losing this friendship that caused our relationship to go no further than that.
  
  Sometimes, someone has to make the first move. Does it really matter who?
• zoragirl

  26 Sep 07, 21:51

  Sometimes its to good to stay as friends.
  
  Was rejected by a guy then i felt so lousy....but we still are friends, juz that not as close as last time.
  Nowadays we avoid each other - no MSN, no SMS etc.
  
  Ask me if i regret for asking him the question :-
  yes coz i lost the TLC which he shower to me (which he claims juz friend friend).
  No, at least i know how he felt towards me.
  
  Not sure if the above help.......
  
  But if you are going ahead with the question - Good luck!
• Nadare

  26 Sep 07, 22:02

  how true
• wh|te_@ng3|

  27 Sep 07, 00:22

  Originally posted by zoragirl:

  Sometimes its to good to stay as friends.
  
  Was rejected by a guy then i felt so lousy....but we still are friends, juz that not as close as last time.
  Nowadays we avoid each other - no MSN, no SMS etc.
  
  Ask me if i regret for asking him the question :-
  yes coz i lost the TLC which he shower to me (which he claims juz friend friend).
  No, at least i know how he felt towards me.
  
  Not sure if the above help.......
  
  But if you are going ahead with the question - Good luck!

  just like what i have pictured if i told him the truth. But most prob I will just hide my feelings, maybe one day it will go away and i will just have a good laugh about it. it is hard to find a true friend like him.. and i guess this is something that I should really treasure. relationship can occur at the most unexpected place and time. So I just need to be a lil more patient.
  
  thanks guys.
• zoragirl

  27 Sep 07, 09:33

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  just like what i have pictured if i told him the truth. But most prob I will just hide my feelings, maybe one day it will go away and i will just have a good laugh about it. it is hard to find a true friend like him.. and i guess this is something that I should really treasure. relationship can occur at the most unexpected place and time. So I just need to be a lil more patient.
  
  thanks guys.

  i guess so ba.
  but you have to be prepared that hiding feeling for one person is very very painful.
  On one hand you have to stay cheerful and happy while the other you will feel empty when he is not around.
  
  If you are struggling and need vent out your fustration, feel free to drop me a note.
  
  In the meantime, stay cool....
  
  Cheers!
  
• zoragirl

  27 Sep 07, 09:41

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  just like what i have pictured if i told him the truth. But most prob I will just hide my feelings, maybe one day it will go away and i will just have a good laugh about it. it is hard to find a true friend like him.. and i guess this is something that I should really treasure. relationship can occur at the most unexpected place and time. So I just need to be a lil more patient.
  
  thanks guys.

  i guess so ba.
  but you have to be prepared that hiding feeling for one person is very very painful.
  On one hand you have to stay cheerful and happy while the other you will feel empty when he is not around.
  
  If you are struggling and need vent out your fustration, feel free to drop me a note.
  
  In the meantime, stay cool....
  
  Cheers!
  
• Zarks

  27 Sep 07, 10:05

  Originally posted by wh|te_@ng3|:

  thanks.. but nope, he is not attached (as far as I know lol)

  lol, i think worst feeling is that..
  
  when as far as you know he is not attached and the nex morning u saw her with a gal and when you ask him, then he say they have been dating together for the past 2 months and they are not officially in r/s and told u to not tell other ppl cuz its not official yet..
  
  I experienced that ..
  
  The more it hurts when i asked her out and she said she need to go out with cousin, cousin, cousin.. and then when she said they have been dating together , i asked, in weekend? YES... Oh, it hurts when she put me in the bottom of list...
  
  Bloody hell, if she could just tell me shes in love with a guy, When i asked her previously ,she said no.. WTF
  
  Thats the worst feeling... knowing some1 whom you like putting you in the bottom of all list and simply lied to you and make stupid promises
  
  PLease tell me im not alone