He lied...
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i surf nude aeroplane pictures.....
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one sentence... watch porn doesnt mean he doesn't love u anymore... just a need for him to see at time...Originally posted by No OnE SpEcIaL:Recently my bf told me that he sometimes surf pornographic sites and masturbate. What he told me last time was that porn is disgusting and he doesn't like it. So he said that he felt that way in the past, but now when he's real bored he will see. And he told me he never masturbate after he met me then now tell me this.
I felt very upset because I thought he is different from other guys. In fact, the day itself that he confessed he just surf porn. He borrowed my laptop and I went to see the history of sites visited. When I asked if he saw it that day he answered me sort of.
He promised me that he will not see it again but I felt betrayed. To me its kind of like cheating on me. And this has affected me as I get upset thinking of it and I will start talking in a very cold manner. And it spoils the whole day. What should I do? I guess it will take a long time for me to get over it.
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True.. sounds like u reject him cos he surfs porn.. actuallie i share the same sentiments.. sometimes it's a disgrace for ur guy to watch porn .. cos u haf the same tings.. why bother to look @ porn when ur gf has everyting .. but on the 0ther hand.. 100 men , 99.5 watch them.. u haf to get used to it.. he didn't lie .. but it sounds like a guy's practice ... almost all watch porn.. maybe all u haf to do is to tell him not to tell u tt he watched.. maybe it wun hurt u tt way animore than he keep telling u he watched it..Originally posted by xavier1979:You reject him because he surfs porn and masturbates?
Or you reject him because he broke a promise to you?
Its not disgusting.. but guys often do tt.. i dunno y
if u love him.. accept him the way he is 
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BOO fucking hooo
cry me a river ..
show me a guy who doesnt jack off and i'll show u a fag
get over it.. if u love him u would love him for who he is..
yes i admit he was wrong for lying to u but he probably was afraid that u were not open minded enough to handle it ..... which alas it's true .. think about it ..... -
Guy masturbating = normal to anyone at a certain point of time in life.Originally posted by No OnE SpEcIaL:Recently my bf told me that he sometimes surf pornographic sites and masturbate. What he told me last time was that porn is disgusting and he doesn't like it. So he said that he felt that way in the past, but now when he's real bored he will see. And he told me he never masturbate after he met me then now tell me this.
I felt very upset because I thought he is different from other guys. In fact, the day itself that he confessed he just surf porn. He borrowed my laptop and I went to see the history of sites visited. When I asked if he saw it that day he answered me sort of.
He promised me that he will not see it again but I felt betrayed. To me its kind of like cheating on me. And this has affected me as I get upset thinking of it and I will start talking in a very cold manner. And it spoils the whole day. What should I do? I guess it will take a long time for me to get over it.
Guy lookin at pron = rather normal for any guys of age 13 and above till they die. Its better than having them watching other gers in front of u. =)
Dont let small matters sour ur sweet relations with him. obviously there are other more important thing that the both of u will prefer to tok abt or do together.
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surfing for porn is just fanatsies and imagination..not like visiting pro where u haf to share yur bf..even if u are married and haf a happy sex life, yur husband will sometimes masturbate behind yur back.So get over it..guy will always be guys.If u think u are beig cheated becoz he lied to u,think again..he lied for yur own good...he does wan u to get angry...frogive him.
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Hi,Originally posted by No OnE SpEcIaL:Recently my bf told me that he sometimes surf pornographic sites and masturbate. What he told me last time was that porn is disgusting and he doesn't like it. So he said that he felt that way in the past, but now when he's real bored he will see. And he told me he never masturbate after he met me then now tell me this.
I felt very upset because I thought he is different from other guys. In fact, the day itself that he confessed he just surf porn. He borrowed my laptop and I went to see the history of sites visited. When I asked if he saw it that day he answered me sort of.
He promised me that he will not see it again but I felt betrayed. To me its kind of like cheating on me. And this has affected me as I get upset thinking of it and I will start talking in a very cold manner. And it spoils the whole day. What should I do? I guess it will take a long time for me to get over it.
Actually you don't need to worry too much. Almost every guy in this world do that. You must understand that he has his own needs, sexually. I think he lied to you at first because he is shy to tell you of what he did as he is scare that you might depise him. Now he tell you the true something so personal show that he care about you. Actually you should be glad that he is only looking at porn website and not gay website. Give both of you 2 some space and maybe you can have some serious talk with him and tell him you are not comfortable about what he is doing and eventually come to a compromise.
Regards,
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No One Special: Let me ask u.. how old are u this yr... what makes u think that doesn't watch porn means DIFFERENT from other men?Originally posted by No OnE SpEcIaL:Recently my bf told me that he sometimes surf pornographic sites and masturbate. What he told me last time was that porn is disgusting and he doesn't like it. So he said that he felt that way in the past, but now when he's real bored he will see. And he told me he never masturbate after he met me then now tell me this.
I felt very upset because I thought he is different from other guys. In fact, the day itself that he confessed he just surf porn. He borrowed my laptop and I went to see the history of sites visited. When I asked if he saw it that day he answered me sort of.
He promised me that he will not see it again but I felt betrayed. To me its kind of like cheating on me. And this has affected me as I get upset thinking of it and I will start talking in a very cold manner. And it spoils the whole day. What should I do? I guess it will take a long time for me to get over it.
Wat if i tell u ur dad might also be watching? No offence.. but there is a possibilty. My dad also watch porn... i used to find porn tapes in my house when i was young. So what....
I think u should gif ur bf some personal space. Watching porn is no big deal. even Gals have sexual needs and masturbate. What u says jus makes me feel that u r trying to find urself excuses to ditch ur guy... I'm not trying to be harsh.. but even in Science classes or bol class or whatever, ur teacher will be like telling u .. everyone has their sexual needs rite.. just that different ppl have different kind of categories... some ppl love to be tortured in bed... some like to torture ppl... but they are afterall humans... and imagine ur guy is only watching porn..
Actually, Pornography is also a sex aid which can improve your sex life. Come on' lets jus admit that in this society.. there's no more love stories without sex.. *Unless Pious christians... nothing to say*
At least ur bf tells u about it.. that means he treasure you and trust u enough to admit it. At first he deny.. but he admit it later.. u think this is lying? No .. its not.. Lying is u discover the truth yourself....
now u know this matter from his own mouth... u think its easy for a guy to admit ma.. can tell u no! They are so egoistic *SorrY GUys But this is the truth* Nothing matters most to them except their ego =P but he still tell u abt it... u can see his sincerity from here.
However, if u still brood over matters like that ... then i can tell u.. in future.. no matter how many bf u have... the outcome is still the same
we are all ladies... so i jus sharing with u my views. Be more open in ur thinking.. this is the 21st century... dun think like a grandma ya -
its normal to surf porn unless u provide him wif sex rite..he also have his sexual desires.....so how can u stop him frm pcc lor....
its like impossible.....we r normal humans....if u leave him cos of his sexual desires its abit stupid lor....u made him promise u tis type of things its also really cannot be done....surf porn seldomly can b done.....cos he loves u tt y he made this promise to keep u...
so try to understand