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In women's worldOriginally posted by angel7030:Well, at least she tell you the true, u know we gals dun like to tell a man off, we tend to give you hints and thing like that, if you expect straight answer "yes, I dun like you to be my bf, please go away and please dun disturb me, thank you for your caring" Would that be very impolite.
I understand that your care toward her, but that is your sorry emotion not love ya. Love need to hand to clap ok.
They give hints to make men understand
In men's world
THey give straights answers to make women understand
We guys wan straight answers but gals like to let us guess for the answers..
A simple yes or not .. is really hard to be said by women..
Example:
Can we be together ?
WOmen: I think we shud study and blablablabla..
Men: No, sory.
tats y men cannot understand women, and women cant understand us men
The problems i hate bout gals is that they mind too much of how guys feel if got rejected.. sigh... which wil make matters worse if not telling the truth earlier..
WOmen's world : Must say things carefully so that they dont get hurt THAT badly
Men's world: Better say straight to make things clear...simple and straight to the point
Tats why both world clashes and we never understand each other .
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That is exactly to sexuality differences, the game between woman and man.Originally posted by Zarks:In women's world
They give hints to make men understand
In men's world
THey give straights answers to make women understand
We guys wan straight answers but gals like to let us guess for the answers..
A simple yes or not .. is really hard to be said by women..
Example:
Can we be together ?
WOmen: I think we shud study and blablablabla..
Men: No, sory.
tats y men cannot understand women, and women cant understand us men
The problems i hate bout gals is that they mind too much of how guys feel if got rejected.. sigh... which wil make matters worse if not telling the truth earlier..
WOmen's world : Must say things carefully so that they dont get hurt THAT badly
Men's world: Better say straight to make things clear...simple and straight to the point
Tats why both world clashes and we never understand each other .
SIghhhhhhh
If we are polite and straight forward, game over liao. We have our pride and dignity, so do you man. Man want the easy way out, but woman will not give you that access so as to make it more interesting. That is the kick of seducing.
By the way, i agreed we do not understand man, cos we got nothing underneath to stand. But as a man, my dear Zarkie, you should be able to understand us, because if your under cannot stand, that is very bad. -
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My dear Angelic, its not that only guy should understand gal, but gal must do the same too.. in fact , most gals i 've met always wanted a man to understand them but too bad they dont try to understand man and when something goes wrong, they tend to blame man for their mistake of not understanding their need but they never look in men's perspective... Too bad, i've seen many women this way...Originally posted by angel7030:That is exactly to sexuality differences, the game between woman and man.
If we are polite and straight forward, game over liao. We have our pride and dignity, so do you man. Man want the easy way out, but woman will not give you that access so as to make it more interesting. That is the kick of seducing.
By the way, i agreed we do not understand man, cos we got nothing underneath to stand. But as a man, my dear Zarkie, you should be able to understand us, because if your under cannot stand, that is very bad.
We both need to understand each other , dear
And my under cannot stand.. What the heck are u trying to say
Naughty gal -
I have to agree on something too..
Without all these differences.. there will be no game between man and woman . -
In terms of a relationship,
Yawn.. man and woman generally have different styles of communicating.
Regardless of man and woman, everyone have their own styles of communication. Some guys are more draggy than woman and some woman prefer cut to the chase talk. It is more about personality, the way they handle things and are they willingly to communicate properly.
PS: A successful communication: is when ur point is seen by the other party, vice versa. If this objective does not want to be reached, then just forget about communicating in the first place.
And yeah, sometime, a girl drop hints indirectly but if the girl know the guy don't get it. You need to tell them straight in the face tactfully sometime. It is the way u say it that matters, than more than the context.
And guys, must learn to be more sensitive. -
like and love a lot of difference...
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i didnt reject her..i jus didnt ask if we could be together then.Originally posted by jojobeach:What happened one month ago when she confessed her feelings for you ?
Did you reject her back then?
What do you mean by selfish reason ?