Originally posted by soul_rage:
Actually at the end of the day, all these things are overhyped
Virgin or not? Not impt
Had sex before or not? Not impt
Abortion before or not? Not impt
Basically its all the MCP brains working to say that you want the ideal girl which is an angel with wings in a white dress
Virgin or not? After marriage no longer virgin
Had sex before or not? After marriage have sex already
Who say all these are not important, as a virgin angel, i hold my pride and intergrity for my future husband only, it is does a personnel conceptual to uphold such intergrity till the end. To die a virgin is better than a slut.
It is important to know yr partner sexual past, so as to protect oneself from illness and infection
It is important to know yr partner health, thing like abortion may create health problem such as unable to conceive baby in future, or again infection.
It is not a matter of after marriage or before marriage issue, it a matter of understand your spouse or partner better before advancing into a relationship. It will be uncalled or it later you get infected by illness or when you want to have baby, but she is unable to conceive.