Did I do it right?
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This thing happened today...
After the whole thing happen... I have been wondering did i do it right? Was i too rash and harsh?
It was like this. A, B, C, D and Z. We were good friends and always stick together... All of us, knowing that A's mother called A to go home as soon as possible. All of us know that A's mother is very strict.
A, didnt want to pang seh us and gone to eat with us... excluding himself that he didnt eat and just waited... we gone to the bubble tea shop we always visit... but today sch dismiss early cuz of exam and the shop must about 15 mins more then open... C, hoping that the shopkeeper is inside the shop. D remembered that Z got the shopkeeper number, so Z called....
Z promised the uncle we are waiting outside the shop, and even hurried the shopkeeper to the shop.
A then said he need to go 1st, if not time wont allow him to go back on time. B, C, D and I followed A as A just now didnt pang seh us and even waited for us to eat finish... he accompanied us so much and we thought we shouldnt pang seh him.....
Z then buay song said " wah lau eh, u all say go then go, how i ans to the shopkeeper? i promise him we will all be outside the shop waiting." few secs later, he scolded again" wah lau, just now i talking on the phone u all nv tell me A need to go" few secs later, again... " wah lau eh, u all very fuk nia, CCB!"
then later on he keep scolding the same thing... untill i cannot bear with it anymore, i scolded back " eh, just now tell u A need to go home early u nv listen always talk loudly wan act act lidat, then on the phone u nv even ask us then u promise, u think we wat? and u thinking intterupting a phone talk is very mannered? then u say we say go then go, then u promise we need to wait?"
did i do right, or am i wrong?
Note: Z has been very very xia lan and very very irritating, he is a very ill-mannered boy, always wan act good, think he boss... and many more, we all tell him then he say our attitude changed to the worse... ( background of Z) -
just slap Z
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so ur saying i did not do wrong?Originally posted by de_middle:just slap Z
if i did, tell me where i was wrong...
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So which one are you? E or F?
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No la.... I tink TS is Z lah!Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:So which one are you? E or F? 
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o ya... forgot to say me myself... i has been sticking with them all along... i am I...
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B,C n D are minor character rite?
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gang beat Z.
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Tell Z to blowjob u guys. SM him so he know he is wrong
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Knowing that A needs to be home earlier than the rest of you, yet allowed him to tag along with the claim that A didn't wish to "pangseh" you guys....
You already got it wrong in the beginning...
Next time, play the role of a good friend and encourage A to go home first. That should solve all the unnecessary trouble
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u ask z blowjob for the uncle if he cannot answer to him..
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Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:
I'm trying to be as neutral as possible here (but I think I'm *unconsciously* siding with Z), but point out my mistakes if I do make any. I have excluded the background info about Z as it may be biased. No offense, TS.
This thing happened today...
After the whole thing happen... I have been wondering did i do it right? Was i too rash and harsh?
It was like this. A, B, C, D and Z. We were good friends and always stick together... All of us, knowing that A's mother called A to go home as soon as possible. All of us know that A's mother is very strict.
A, didnt want to pang seh us and gone to eat with us... excluding himself that he didnt eat and just waited... we gone to the bubble tea shop we always visit... but today sch dismiss early cuz of exam and the shop must about 15 mins more then open... C, hoping that the shopkeeper is inside the shop. D remembered that Z got the shopkeeper number, so Z called....
Z promised the uncle we are waiting outside the shop, and even hurried the shopkeeper to the shop.
A then said he need to go 1st, if not time wont allow him to go back on time. B, C, D and I followed A as A just now didnt pang seh us and even waited for us to eat finish... he accompanied us so much and we thought we shouldnt pang seh him.....
Z then buay song said " wah lau eh, u all say go then go, how i ans to the shopkeeper? i promise him we will all be outside the shop waiting." few secs later, he scolded again" wah lau, just now i talking on the phone u all nv tell me A need to go" few secs later, again... " wah lau eh, u all very fuk nia, CCB!"
then later on he keep scolding the same thing... untill i cannot bear with it anymore, i scolded back " eh, just now tell u A need to go home early u nv listen always talk loudly wan act act lidat, then on the phone u nv even ask us then u promise, u think we wat? and u thinking intterupting a phone talk is very mannered? then u say we say go then go, then u promise we need to wait?"
did i do right, or am i wrong?
Note: Z has been very very xia lan and very very irritating, he is a very ill-mannered boy, always wan act good, think he boss... and many more, we all tell him then he say our attitude changed to the worse... ( background of Z)
Firstly, did any one of you guys asked or hinted Z to call? Or was he acting like a smart Alex then?
And you should have interrupted the call if any one of you is in any way in disagreement of the arrangement made by Z, that is, to wait for the shopkeeper to open his store.
Let me guess something (which is quite obvious here) - A is more well-liked by your group as compared to Z. (You won't label him as "Z" if he is well-included into your group, right?
) So, I mean, it maybe natural to view A's "pang-seh-less" is more important than Z's accountability to the shopkeeper. But by leaving with A, you guys are just pang-seh-ing Z. And imo I think you have indeed been a little too mean to Z. While he was nagging about you guys leaving the shop, you could have stfu him by:
1. Offering some sort of "compensation" like waiting for him on the next occasion if he is down for some detention or something and give him a pat on his shoulders before leaving the shop. It's not that easy to face an uncle who is disappointed to see only one customer standing when he's expecting half a dozen - alone, as a student.
2. Call back the storekeeper and explain to him the situation. (takes quite some confidence to do it) It won't kill him to open his store 15 minutes earlier, but by not answering for the departure, Z may lose trust from the storekeeper.
3. If my first question was a positive, you should have stayed at the shop as it was partially your intention to wait for the storekeeper to arrive. And instead, offer Option 1 to A.
Anyway, not much meaning in dwelling into events that have happened. Ultimately, if you think you are in the wrong, just treat him better next time round, or apologise to him directly if you dare. Otherwise, just continue life as usual. Incidents like this may fade away eventually as time pass by, but if you guys are putting him at the bottom of the priority list at each occasion, he might just break off with you guys, or continue to be a brainless asssucker for as long as he like.
And - I'm not Z, or in any way affiliated with Z, directly or indirectly. Just leaving my liang fen qian here. -
Childish.
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We've all been through "situations" like these...Originally posted by KrU:Childish. -
yes... we are kinda biased against Z, not the group, but me i biased against him a lot... other ppl are more to the neutral..
reasons for that i am biased against Z is that, he has a bad attitude towards me... and the backgrounds of Z + many more...
and, i was suggesting A and even insisted A to go home 1st, but he still wanted to pei us, we naturally ate faster...
yes one of us asked Z to call, but the one who asked Z to call before that he said: " maybe the uncle is inside, Z u got his number right?"
later before we leave the shop, the one who suggested Z to call, called the uncle and explained the whole thing and then apologised...
Z still very buay song, keep saying us wrong or wat... we kept quiet for long, then after like 5 mins of interval scolding, i decided to retort him back to appease myself.... and i tot he was wrong at that time...
but later when i reflect, he was not so at wrong, is only his tone of voice that is so wrong...
i actually tot of apologising to Z, but i rmb last time when i apologised to him, he accept it as if i owed him thousand of bucks, then he even say i shouldnt do this and that.... so on... after that day i apologise to him, he treat me as if i am a fierce tiger to live with....
i am very confused whether i am wrong or right...
thank you for those constructive comment -
First outing with friends?
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o ya.... and the reason for him to be so angry is that... :
- he always think he is right and other ppl is wrong
- he always think that everyone's attitude has changed for the worse ( many ppl has changed their attitude for the worse or better... mainly worse)
- always think he is more superior than us, in terms of sports, study, relationship, circles of friends, knowledge, and many more...
all the above except third point are opinions of me, can be true or false...
third is the act and very very obvious, some even he said it out, so third point is very confirmed.. -
wat makes u think so?Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:First outing with friends?
and obviously it is a no to the ans... -
Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:
yes... we are kinda biased against Z, not the group, but me i biased against him a lot... other ppl are more to the neutral..
reasons for that i am biased against Z is that, he has a bad attitude towards me... and the backgrounds of Z + many more...
and, i was suggesting A and even insisted A to go home 1st, but he still wanted to pei us, we naturally ate faster...
yes one of us asked Z to call, but the one who asked Z to call before that he said: " maybe the uncle is inside, Z u got his number right?"
later before we leave the shop, the one who suggested Z to call, called the uncle and explained the whole thing and then apologised...
Z still very buay song, keep saying us wrong or wat... we kept quiet for long, then after like 5 mins of interval scolding, i decided to retort him back to appease myself.... and i tot he was wrong at that time...
but later when i reflect, he was not so at wrong, is only his tone of voice that is so wrong...
i actually tot of apologising to Z, but i rmb last time when i apologised to him, he accept it as if i owed him thousand of bucks, then he even say i shouldnt do this and that.... so on... after that day i apologise to him, he treat me as if i am a fierce tiger to live with....
i am very confused whether i am wrong or right...
thank you for those constructive comment
Ok, so you guys have informed the storekeeper that you are leaving early. Then wtf is Z complaining about? I'm changing side. lol.
Z then buay song said " wah lau eh, u all say go then go, how i ans to the shopkeeper? i promise him we will all be outside the shop waiting." few secs later, he scolded again" wah lau, just now i talking on the phone u all nv tell me A need to go" few secs later, again... " wah lau eh, u all very fuk nia, CCB!" -
Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:
try reading again.... "wah lau eh u all say go then go, how i ans to the shopkeeper?" Z was scolding.... he continued the sentence "i promised him (the uncle) we will all be outside the shop waiting" that means Z promised the uncle that Z will be waiting along with us outside the shop...
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Z then buay song said " wah lau eh, u all say go then go, how i ans to the shopkeeper? i promise him we will all be outside the shop waiting." few secs later, he scolded again" wah lau, just now i talking on the phone u all nv tell me A need to go" few secs later, again... " wah lau eh, u all very fuk nia, CCB!"
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lol... i guess i am right after all......
at first i am very very confused...
and... today at sch he talked to me himself.... i ans back as if nth happened...
everything was fine.... only that he keep repeating his old bad habits... act beng, talk vulgar more and more, bully ppl by pinching other ppl's private parts... etc.. made me have to bear with it and put on my think skin during the 10 mins bus journey...
i guess our friendship will become a quarel soon......
how i wish i had no friends....
but on a second thought... i cant live on without my friends... except Z... argh!
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Just whack Z.
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Z is really boliao
he needs someone to dominate
four of you, don't talk to him lor
he'll definitely crawl back to you guys -
you should have just continue scratching ur armpit..
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Z mus bang wall and die.
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[quote]Originally posted by LatecomerX:
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Let me guess something (which is quite obvious here) - A is more well-liked by your group as compared to Z. (You won't label him as "Z" if he is well-included into your group, right? )
wow! behavioural analysis. cool cool. i want to learn from you!