Did I do it right?
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don't let other people's bad behaviour be a factor to what you think is the right way to behave
you keep trying to justify what you did by saying he is someone who is annoying
but be a gentleman la - this means you don't only do the right thing to people you like. -
primary school right?
try psycho A B C D E F etc to ostracize Z.
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immature acts... should had told Z during the phone call about A leaving soon instead of letting him make empty promises. A is a guy so he can leave himself... unless BCD is a bunch of homo wanting A to be their bf...
Think for yourself... if you in Z shoe then you also will du lan one lor...
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This is so serious I think it is best that you let a professional psychiatrist handle your case instead of asking people in a forum for their opinion.Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:This thing happened today...
After the whole thing happen... I have been wondering did i do it right? Was i too rash and harsh? -
wat is this nonsense? This is madness !
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lol... try reading my 1st post again...
Z knew that A needs to go home early, and yeah Z likes to act, but after he act he will at least do one thing wrong, but this time he even scold us....
anyway Z has like got the hint that we dont like him, but too bad, instead of changing himself, he got away from us
we are a bunch of sec sch student... but we are not those pai kia or pai kia wannabes...
and ya if i am in Z shoe, i would not have made empty promise as i noe A is hurrying back to home, and we dont wanna pang seh A cuz he nv even pang seh us once and is all the time we pang seh A, and we think we should not pang seh A too many times... so..........
and yeah, i admit my act is not gentleman, but i cant control myself being bad to a person whom i look down on his characteristics and attitude, i am not so noble, i am only 14 yrs old ^^
i guess i did not do anything wrong except for being bias and not gentleman... but i would like to be my ownself rather than a gentleman which is totally not me.... i like to follow my feelings and conciousness...
anyway thx to those who commented, thanks again!!
i am rather more concious now after 2 days and discussing with my closest friend i could have ^^ -
yeah this may be nonsense to you...Originally posted by Zarks:wat is this nonsense? This is madness !
but for me as a 14 yr old teenager who often have mood swings and change of attitude, and of cuz at this age i am not matured enough and not experienced enough to judge things well and settle things in a more win-win solution....
so yeah, guess u are really experienced and matured.....
if u dont mind, try giving some tips for these kind of problems, especially things towards friendships and maybe relationships stuff that can be useful in future when i have one girl....
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Hey Mr Armpit,Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:and yeah, i admit my act is not gentleman, but i cant control myself being good to a person whom i look down on his characteristics and attitude, i am not so noble, i am only 14 yrs old ^^
Nobody becomes a good person or a considerate person overnight unless you are born a saint. It is great that you do feel a nagging doubt over what you have done and by querying about your actions, you are self reflecting - already it is more than what many self absorbed people would have done.
You are only 14 now but that's what building a life is all about. Slowly slowly we accummulate our life's lessons - so that by the time we are 30, 40, 50 - we can learn to be honest to ourselves about what we are, and what we should do.
This honesty to self is more important than simply 'doing good' or 'being nice' because sometimes the motivation for being a nice person may not be 'good' at all
if you don't truly understand yourself. That is why i say don't 'justify' your actions by someone else's behaviour. First understand your own.
A gentleman who only 'act' but dont understand WHY he is doing only an empty shell You should never be someone you are not. -
ok... actually i noe these all, but this reply made me know something that is more important than knowledge...Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:Hey Mr Armpit,
Nobody becomes a good person or a considerate person overnight unless you are born a saint. It is great that you do feel a nagging doubt over what you have done and by querying about your actions, you are self reflecting - already it is more than what many self absorbed people would have done.
You are only 14 now but that's what building a life is all about. Slowly slowly we accummulate our life's lessons - so that by the time we are 30, 40, 50 - we can learn to be honest to ourselves about what we are, and what we should do.
This honesty to self is more important than simply 'doing good' or 'being nice' because sometimes the motivation for being a nice person may not be 'good' at all if you don't truly understand yourself. That is why i say don't 'justify' your actions by someone else's behaviour. First understand your own.
A gentleman who only 'act' but dont understand WHY he is doing only an empty shell You should never be someone you are not.
... now i noe i am right, i have the confidence now, although not perfect, but i guess this small obstacle in my life had transformed into a great stepping stone in my life.....
and yeah.... if friends cant even take the attitude of me, wat for being friends when no positive impacts is done, and in fact negative..... vice versa
once again, thx all who commented ^^