Query
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Hmm. I'm puzzled over sth and i need to know a guy's answer.
GUYS, if u:
- offered to give a gal a lift home once and her home is slightly further away from ur house,
- spotted a "mosquite bite" on the same gal's hand while both of u were eating and u touched her hand,meanwhile asking her if that was a mosquito bite,
- told other ppl and the gal that u have promised to celebrate your birthdays together(u and her happened to share the same birthdate)
- offered to accompany her for lunch when u know she's going to be alone eating but u have already eaten earlier on,
- occasionally the gal was busy doing work and u went to peer at and asked her what she's doing
Do u have a crush on this gal OR r u just being nice and kind? -
dude u mus be gay
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R u saying the guy is gay or me??? Nonono. Im a GAL la.
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Most probably he has a crush. Lunch and sending home can be considered being nice, but like touching your hand and telling people that you are celebrating birthday together is not necessary
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erm it might mean the guy is interested. but it can also mean the guy is just being friendly.
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It could be either just normal friendship, or a crush...
Does he treat other girls like that too?
if yes, he is just being kind...
If no, don't you think you are a little special to him?
Cheers -
i think he has alittle crush in u..
but dun assume, some guys can be cheeky.. -
yea.. if not i won't do so much things for herOriginally posted by mikki:Hmm. I'm puzzled over sth and i need to know a guy's answer.
GUYS, if u:
- offered to give a gal a lift home once and her home is slightly further away from ur house,
- spotted a "mosquite bite" on the same gal's hand while both of u were eating and u touched her hand,meanwhile asking her if that was a mosquito bite,
- told other ppl and the gal that u have promised to celebrate your birthdays together(u and her happened to share the same birthdate)
- offered to accompany her for lunch when u know she's going to be alone eating but u have already eaten earlier on,
- occasionally the gal was busy doing work and u went to peer at and asked her what she's doing
Do u have a crush on this gal OR r u just being nice and kind? -
depends on the guy character seriously, girls who dunno me well often misunderstand my intentions at times.
Those who know me better know itz a friendly gesture, with no other intentions. -
But if guys really have a crush on the gal, why didnt they ask for the gal's no. at first? Then when the guy has the no,it's usually the gal who msged him first.
The guy in question is indeed a friendly and nice person though. He does give other colleagues a lift home,since they live near him or along the way. Btw,the colleagues whom he gave a lift to are either attached or married but he's single. -
hey can we have hot sex?
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I think he's just nice only bah..
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There are guys who are shy.. you know?Originally posted by mikki:But if guys really have a crush on the gal, why didnt they ask for the gal's no. at first? Then when the guy has the no,it's usually the gal who msged him first.
The guy in question is indeed a friendly and nice person though. He does give other colleagues a lift home,since they live near him or along the way. Btw,the colleagues whom he gave a lift to are either attached or married but he's single. -
shy guys like me really dunno how to woo gals deOriginally posted by mikki:But if guys really have a crush on the gal, why didnt they ask for the gal's no. at first? Then when the guy has the no,it's usually the gal who msged him first.
The guy in question is indeed a friendly and nice person though. He does give other colleagues a lift home,since they live near him or along the way. Btw,the colleagues whom he gave a lift to are either attached or married but he's single. -
show us peekture so we can tell you if he is interested in you..Originally posted by mikki:But if guys really have a crush on the gal, why didnt they ask for the gal's no. at first? Then when the guy has the no,it's usually the gal who msged him first.
The guy in question is indeed a friendly and nice person though. He does give other colleagues a lift home,since they live near him or along the way. Btw,the colleagues whom he gave a lift to are either attached or married but he's single.
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Hmm... in that case it's really hard to tell. Probably will be good if you can give it more time.Originally posted by mikki:But if guys really have a crush on the gal, why didnt they ask for the gal's no. at first? Then when the guy has the no,it's usually the gal who msged him first.
The guy in question is indeed a friendly and nice person though. He does give other colleagues a lift home,since they live near him or along the way. Btw,the colleagues whom he gave a lift to are either attached or married but he's single. -
Another highly important question for TS.. Do u like him ?Originally posted by mikki:Hmm. I'm puzzled over sth and i need to know a guy's answer.
GUYS, if u:
- offered to give a gal a lift home once and her home is slightly further away from ur house,
- spotted a "mosquite bite" on the same gal's hand while both of u were eating and u touched her hand,meanwhile asking her if that was a mosquito bite,
- told other ppl and the gal that u have promised to celebrate your birthdays together(u and her happened to share the same birthdate)
- offered to accompany her for lunch when u know she's going to be alone eating but u have already eaten earlier on,
- occasionally the gal was busy doing work and u went to peer at and asked her what she's doing
Do u have a crush on this gal OR r u just being nice and kind? -
I find it hard pressed to imagine anyone starting such threads who'd actually think nothing more than those gestures being pure friendliness...Originally posted by CannyOng:Another highly important question for TS.. Do u like him ?
Seriously, if she weren't bothered, why would she stick up this thread to begin with? -
Haha. Dun really understand ur 1st statement....but ok,i shall admit,i do have a crush on him. And recently the guy in question behaves more "weirdly" towards me.Originally posted by walesa:I find it hard pressed to imagine anyone starting such threads who'd actually think nothing more than those gestures being pure friendliness...
Seriously, if she weren't bothered, why would she stick up this thread to begin with? -
maybe have a crush on u , maybe being friendly, maybe want to be ur friend, maybe try want to play with u, maybe have nothing to do so bother u , maybe trying to woo u, maybe trying to be fun, maybe want to see how u react...
so many maybe...
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Wait.
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so obvious right..Originally posted by mikki:Haha. Dun really understand ur 1st statement....but ok,i shall admit,i do have a crush on him. And recently the guy in question behaves more "weirdly" towards me.
if u have no interest in him why would u bother to ask abt him here -
Either you go and ask him, or you just wait and see.
But, no matter what, just don't dump your feelings into this so-called relationship first until things have become clearer.
Cheers! -
That is a plain sweeping statement. Some very good gal don't want the guy to have false hope for them and want clarification. Of cos,it will be too embarassing for them to just ask them and spoil the friendship or working environment... A lot of times, awkward moment and misunderstanding occur becos of plain generalisation like u poeple.Originally posted by FBI:so obvious right..
if u have no interest in him why would u bother to ask abt him here
See more of the world and u know more,ok? -
She already states her doubt. Like him or not is another question!Originally posted by walesa:I find it hard pressed to imagine anyone starting such threads who'd actually think nothing more than those gestures being pure friendliness...
Seriously, if she weren't bothered, why would she stick up this thread to begin with?