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i think hes jus being nice n kind.
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Oh my gosh!, that is pure gentlemanship. I dun mind getting to know such guy just to be his lady for a dinner and see how it goes.Originally posted by mikki:Hmm. I'm puzzled over sth and i need to know a guy's answer.
GUYS, if u:
- offered to give a gal a lift home once and her home is slightly further away from ur house,
- spotted a "mosquite bite" on the same gal's hand while both of u were eating and u touched her hand,meanwhile asking her if that was a mosquito bite,
- told other ppl and the gal that u have promised to celebrate your birthdays together(u and her happened to share the same birthdate)
- offered to accompany her for lunch when u know she's going to be alone eating but u have already eaten earlier on,
- occasionally the gal was busy doing work and u went to peer at and asked her what she's doing
Do u have a crush on this gal OR r u just being nice and kind? -
That's just what you think and plainly assume everything's an assumption. Do you happen to also doubt night follows day?Originally posted by CannyOng:She already states her doubt. Like him or not is another question!
If you had scrutinised and paid attention to details in the original post, you'd have gotten the picture. Maybe, common sense isn't so common to you after all. -
I don't go for assume. I go for clear modeOriginally posted by walesa:That's just what you think and plainly assume everything's an assumption. Do you happen to also doubt night follows day?
If you had scrutinised and paid attention to details in the original post, you'd have gotten the picture. Maybe, common sense isn't so common to you after all.
Something can be comfirm for 75%, I go for 99%
Got it?
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What's clear? Everything's subjective, isn't it? What's 75% to you could well be 99% to someone else?Originally posted by CannyOng:I don't go for assume. I go for clear mode
Something can be comfirm for 75%, I go for 99%
Got it?
Btw,What does common sense got to do with TS cases? ???
Go over my original post again - I said if you'd paid attention to the TS' very first post and scrutinised in detail, common sense would dictate - more likely than not, by the law of averages - TS had some interest in the guy in question. After all, I'm not the only one to have picked up those vibes from reading this thread... -
What are the "weird" characteristics that you have since observed?Originally posted by mikki:Haha. Dun really understand ur 1st statement....but ok,i shall admit,i do have a crush on him. And recently the guy in question behaves more "weirdly" towards me.
Personally, I think the point in red reveals something beyond what someone would do for an ordinary friend. That said, you'd probably have to know him better to know if he regards you as a really good friend or a potential romantic interest...Originally posted by mikki:Hmm. I'm puzzled over sth and i need to know a guy's answer.
GUYS, if u:
- offered to give a gal a lift home once and her home is slightly further away from ur house,
- spotted a "mosquite bite" on the same gal's hand while both of u were eating and u touched her hand,meanwhile asking her if that was a mosquito bite,
- told other ppl and the gal that u have promised to celebrate your birthdays together(u and her happened to share the same birthdate)
- offered to accompany her for lunch when u know she's going to be alone eating but u have already eaten earlier on,
- occasionally the gal was busy doing work and u went to peer at and asked her what she's doing
Do u have a crush on this gal OR r u just being nice and kind? -
i din noe i was cheeky. i think the guy is frenly since i do tht to gals as well. except the mosquito bite. and the birthday.Originally posted by Cool-gal:i think he has alittle crush in u..
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Originally posted by walesa:
I know what u mean. I too can sense it but I wouldn't go for assuming. All I seek is a comfirmation! Is it a mountain task for TS just to comfirm with my question?
What's clear? Everything's subjective, isn't it? What's 75% to you could well be 99% to someone else?
Go over my original post again - I said if you'd paid attention to the TS' very first post and scrutinised in detail, [b]common sense would dictate - more likely than not, by the law of averages - TS had some interest in the guy in question. After all, I'm not the only one to have picked up those vibes from reading this thread...[/b]
I don't know suddenly u people get so work up and start to question the logic of my question? A simple comfirmation which makes advice easier for TS and clear understanding.. Isn't that better? -
Walesa.. I think u met too little people!Originally posted by walesa:Personally, I think the point in red reveals something beyond what someone would do for an ordinary friend. That said, you'd probably have to know him better to know if he regards you as a really good friend or a potential romantic interest... 
No offense. I have some christian guy friends who will go beyond that just for friends. No matter guy or gal... -
In response to walesa's qn: What are the "weird" characteristics that you have since observed?
Well,he's getting a little bit "touchy"(NOT the molesting kind la. ha)with me lately. Firstly,remember the mosquito bite? That was the 3rd time he touched me lightly. The 1st time was when i was ordering food to eat and he was just standing behind me. We were sharing the food and he let me choose the toppings. Before i started ordering,he used his finger to tap my shoulder and told me to choose the toppings. The 2nd time was touching my hand(the one with mosquito bite) too,to ask me to look at something. And when i asked for a tissue from him,he had to fold it nicely before giving me. I told him to jus give it to me w/o folding and my other friend(who was with us) joked that the guy in question wanted to wipe my mouth for me. This was meant as a joke,but the guy then "played along" and tried to wipe for me. BUT i didnt let him do so la. It's so embarrassing.
And the other time he touched me was when i was doing my work silently,he walked past me and used his finger to touch my hair and muttered some crap which totally made me O.o???
Anyway,thanks for everyone's prompt replies. I think i jus have to wait and see if he will really keep his promise to celebrate our bdays together. -
Dpends.. There are couple of possibilites...
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Why can't love be a bit more simpler?
A few physical contacts do not means anything.
Can be just being playful, for pure fun only.
I like a girl, i ask for her hand and she will know how I feel towards her.
No wishy washy and no fooling around.
Not serious, means not sincere.
You want to know if he likes you...see where his eyes are fixed at and where is the solo date? Basic things, like movies, go for a stroll, just spending time alone together ... -
Haha. I'm quite a shy person as well. There were many occasions when he sat opposite me but well,i did not dare or want to look at him/his eyes. The only time when we were alone together was when we went for breakfast or lunch and in his car twice?
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Oh yar...talking about eyes.Originally posted by mikki:Haha. I'm quite a shy person as well. There were many occasions when he sat opposite me but well,i did not dare or want to look at him/his eyes. The only time when we were alone together was when we went for breakfast or lunch and in his car twice?
Studies have shown that you can make anyone fall in love with you, just be staring into his/her eyes for 1 whole min, no talking.
No matter how extrovert the girl is, she will still be electrocuted.
If she is shy, best. -
It could mean how many things judging from what you said.
if you dun wan all these assumptions, just ask him straight in his face.
saying: "are you interested in me?" or something like that. -
so would you wait for the girl to make the first move? Or you will still take the initiative?Originally posted by FBI:shy guys like me really dunno how to woo gals de -
Who's worked up? Aren't you assuming too? What gives credence to your brand of assumption then? Or is your assumption not considered assumption?Originally posted by CannyOng:I know what u mean. I too can sense it but I wouldn't go for assuming. All I seek is a comfirmation! Is it a mountain task for TS just to comfirm with my question?
I don't know suddenly u people get so work up and start to question the logic of my question? A simple comfirmation which makes advice easier for TS and clear understanding.. Isn't that better?
You've got to be pretty daft to need to "confirm" something blatantly obvious. Then again, maybe common sense isn't that common to all. -
Would you think in the context of the TS for a moment instead of allowing your imagination run wild and start assuming all and sundry?Originally posted by CannyOng:Walesa.. I think u met too little people! No offense. I have some christian guy friends who will go beyond that just for friends. No matter guy or gal...
If you're going to start shifting the context and start talking about "your Christian friends", why not go one further by considering salesmen and women out to clinch a deal who are incredibly nice? Or perhaps, even consider the conman out with an ulterior motive? Maybe, it's indeed you who have met too few kinds of people to believe your brand of myopic assumption is the only thing that holds. -
Originally posted by mikki:
Personally, I'd say the third touching incident differs from the first two a little (the first one could mean little, especially if he had been standing behind you - I mean, it can be normal human reaction to tap on someone gently to attract his/her attention?) and perhaps says something?
In response to walesa's qn: What are the "weird" characteristics that you have since observed?
Well,he's getting a little bit "touchy"(NOT the molesting kind la. ha)with me lately. Firstly,remember the mosquito bite? That was the 3rd time he touched me [b]lightly. The 1st time was when i was ordering food to eat and he was just standing behind me. We were sharing the food and he let me choose the toppings. Before i started ordering,he used his finger to tap my shoulder and told me to choose the toppings. The 2nd time was touching my hand(the one with mosquito bite) too,to ask me to look at something. And when i asked for a tissue from him,he had to fold it nicely before giving me. I told him to jus give it to me w/o folding and my other friend(who was with us) joked that the guy in question wanted to wipe my mouth for me. This was meant as a joke,but the guy then "played along" and tried to wipe for me. BUT i didnt let him do so la. It's so embarrassing.
And the other time he touched me was when i was doing my work silently,he walked past me and used his finger to touch my hair and muttered some crap which totally made me O.o???
Anyway,thanks for everyone's prompt replies. I think i jus have to wait and see if he will really keep his promise to celebrate our bdays together.
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But as some others have mentioned, perhaps he's shy and you could certainly get the answer you want more easily by being more proactive in the approach(ie.take the initiative and lead him on to reveal his true intentions instead of waiting passively for him to do something)? -
I did not met salesman who are extremely nice? Maybe u can share yr experiences.Originally posted by walesa:Would you think in the context of the TS for a moment instead of allowing your imagination run wild and start assuming all and sundry?
If you're going to start shifting the context and start talking about "your Christian friends", why not go one further by considering salesmen and women out to clinch a deal who are incredibly nice? Or perhaps, even consider the conman out with an ulterior motive? Maybe, it's indeed you who have met too few kinds of people to believe your brand of myopic assumption is the only thing that holds. Talking abt meeting too little nice people, LOL.. I thought u are the one that shall broaden the yr view? It is u who generalise all goods things need to be connected to a moltive of BGR. If not,I will not be the one discussing with u,isn't it?
Pls show some intelligent and logic reasoning. U are really confusing me and all others!! I really have a good laugh of yr reply! -
A typical turning the gun on me but lacking basic reasoning..Originally posted by walesa:Who's worked up? Aren't you assuming too? What gives credence to your brand of assumption then? Or is your assumption not considered assumption?
You've got to be pretty daft to need to "confirm" something blatantly obvious. Then again, maybe common sense isn't that common to all.
U say I assume too? That is why I ask TS the question of whether she likes him or not? But for u? U claim it is 100% sure TS like the guy she mention and even imply asking for a comfirmation is redundant and claiming yr ultra sensing is damm good.. I merely aske u not to jump to conclusion too abruptly to avoid misunderstanding. All i give is for the good of TS. That's all..
If u don't have a good reason to reply my answer. Don't make a fool of yrself here and starting to feed all yr words into me! -
like someone mention.....
maybe he is juz being gentlemen, friendly. -
If you don't know, then it is not. When you have a crush, believe me, you do not need to ask anyone.Originally posted by mikki:Hmm. I'm puzzled over sth and i need to know a guy's answer.
GUYS, if u:
- offered to give a gal a lift home once and her home is slightly further away from ur house,
- spotted a "mosquite bite" on the same gal's hand while both of u were eating and u touched her hand,meanwhile asking her if that was a mosquito bite,
- told other ppl and the gal that u have promised to celebrate your birthdays together(u and her happened to share the same birthdate)
- offered to accompany her for lunch when u know she's going to be alone eating but u have already eaten earlier on,
- occasionally the gal was busy doing work and u went to peer at and asked her what she's doing
Do u have a crush on this gal OR r u just being nice and kind? -
You didn't because you live in your warped cocoon? As usual, what's new? Your laughter certainly befits the delusional for what can anyone do should you be devoid of common sense?Originally posted by CannyOng:I did not met salesman who are extremely nice? Maybe u can share yr experiences. Talking abt meeting too little nice people, LOL.. I thought u are the one that shall broaden the yr view? It is u who generalise all goods things need to be connected to a moltive of BGR. If not,I will not be the one discussing with u,isn't it?
Pls show some intelligent and logic reasoning. U are really confusing me and all others!! I really have a good laugh of yr reply! -
Well, apparently, you're either linguistically or intellectually challenged. It is indeed appalling you could actually misinterpret my labelling your assumptions (of me being worked up) in such spectacular fashion.Originally posted by CannyOng:A typical turning the gun on me but lacking basic reasoning..
U say I assume too? That is why I ask TS the question of whether she likes him or not? But for u? U claim it is 100% sure TS like the guy she mention and even imply asking for a comfirmation is redundant and claiming yr ultra sensing is damm good.. I merely aske u not to jump to conclusion too abruptly to avoid misunderstanding. All i give is for the good of TS. That's all..
If u don't have a good reason to reply my answer. Don't make a fool of yrself here and starting to feed all yr words into me!
And yeah, I'd like you to show me where I "claimed it is 100%" that my conjecture had been right? Are you logically challenged too? As with anything, maybe common sense has a knack of evading idiots. Then again, my response was hardly meant to accommodate an idiot's intellect.