i dont know what to do ):
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not that but when guys ask girl for sex "married i mean" girl say:what u can do onli sex huh.but when u ask them why always go shopping ther say non of ur problem come on
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15 stil young ler.. you'll learn more la ha
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Originally posted by candyx3o:
you love him more than he loves you so he can hack care.
hi. im quite new to this forums. & have been reading posts here & there. i have a problem & really wish to let it out. hope i`ll get advices from here (:
i have been with him for 2 weeks already. although its been 2 weeks , but we have only seen each other a couple of times , & once in this 2 weeks. seriously , i dont expect us to b going out every day or two , cos we`re really staying v far away from each other.
recently , he has asked me out. & of cos , i was looking forward to that day. but he cancelled it cos his friends asked him out. & this has made me think , before i accepted him , 2 friends who also know him [but not v close] have advised me about him putting his friends before girlfriend. thats what they thought at that point in time , but i didnt believe it & just went ahead. accepted him.
that day he cancelled out plans , he postponed it to today; 2 days later. & he cancelled it again ._. cos he woke up & msged me that he was lazy to step out of his house. okay , i accept. & just tell him i dont mind. he told me that he wants to go out on thursday , which is 4 days from now.
& the last thing is that , is it normal for us to b communicating through smses rather than phone. cos he doesnt take initiative to call; & i dont want to cos im afraid i`ll b stuck & nothing to say.
[b]can leave advices & what you think. really wld b appreciated ><[/b]
You know he can treat you like dirt and you do not mind.
girls in love is like that. -
It happen to you huh ? LOL.....that sex part means , you need to romance them first, make them feel good first.... then you get what you want lah.Originally posted by funnyboii:not that but when guys ask girl for sex "married i mean" girl say:what u can do onli sex huh.but when u ask them why always go shopping ther say non of ur problem come on
You don't know the meaning of foreplay huh ?
Next time want sex, do nice things for them first, you think she ( your wife) a prostitute issit ? You can't just go up to her and say " I want sex tonight, you giving or not ?".....
Shopping.
None of your business if they go shopping unless you paying for the shopping trip lah. -
TA BU ZAI HU NI...
ITS A GOOD THING. -
ehs , see how bahs. i tried what you suggested le , & he agreed ma. i dont think i shld so fast break , shld give him more time. mayb funnyboii say de half correct. besides that excuse he also told me his dad`s been nagging cos he go out too often le .. ><Originally posted by jojobeach:Her bf may be ignorant. That is why he has to learn.
Giving her bf a chance to learn is maturity on her part. -
Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):
its good , why ?
[b]TA BU ZAI HU NI...
ITS A GOOD THING.[/b]
oh & i said he doesnt take initiative to call me that part , its just call. but he does sms everyday de ma ..
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Yes Uncle, sorry na.Originally posted by dunamis:Aunties and uncles tend to be long winded because they care. They fear bad things will happen to you for there are many irresponsible guys or guys who are not ready to settle down out there, who will make you pregnant and run away or asked you to go for abortion. When such things happened, who do you think is the one who suffers the most? You.
Several years ago, sex education is only taught in secondary schools. Why do you think they brought forward into the primary schools? The main reason is because abortion rate keeps increasing over the years. Abortion cause severe pain and bleeding for many days, cause possible vomitting and adominal discomfort, increase miscarriages and decrease your chance of having a baby when you get married. If your womb get punctured in the operation, you will never have a baby, unless you dislike children and never want to have kids in your life, then its ok.
On top of that, the emotional trauma. Before an abortion, every doctor will play a video for you and advise you not to go for abortion. It is a shameful thing that you will not want to tell your best friend. Girls that I have counselled, most of them still carry the guilt and remorse for killing a human life, very few have actually moved on. Like what a doctor will say, a 100% safe sex is no sex and a pyschologist will say, sex does not necessary make a relationship better.
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2 words for u.....
MOVE ON -
for me... friends' importance = girlfriend's importance... not that girl>friend
nor friend> girl
and i got this conclusion because the surrounding experiences...
a friend of mine, very very very flirt, always take crush and inftuation as love, how i noe?
cuz he noe the girl not long then stead, how can u dunno them well enough and stead? or maybe say love...
then he always take friends forgranted and treat girlfriends like treasure, can scold friends just to cover up for his girl, and the thing is the girl is at fault...
of cuz, girlfriends are important too, they are the most trusted companion u can have when u are in the lurch or dark times...
ok sorry i noe i am out of topic... but i think i have to say this out after reading the 1st and fourth page of the thread... (ps no time read 2 3 page) -
nobody is perfectOriginally posted by Nadare:what.. he is not even making any efforts in the relationship..
a little disheartening.. but i think hes not the perfect guy for u
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becoz one day u will kick his Ass off