HELP,noob needs help on approaching
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What she means, this thing no need to force to be quick.. take it slow.. be a friend, be there for her.. and learn more bout her...and never treat a gal like a toy for you to buy.Originally posted by gigabyte14:don't have to chat too much 1, chat if necessary for the early stages
u say friendship already, u think can attain in 3 hours ah?
u move up so fast for fark, u desperate izzit?
and take it slow la, go out go out, u think wooing girls the same as buying fishball noodles ah? suit your tastes then just go for it meh?
they can think also leh, they are not stupid
in a good r/s, no need to rush.. the more u rush , the more u'll regret -
dunnid scared 1 la like tat how to hiao char boh tio boh
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wa u sound so...Originally posted by Komon:dunnid scared 1 la like tat how to hiao char boh tio boh
thx alot dude!
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stay calm..Originally posted by Fireindahouse:well admit that im a shy guy.. then there's this girl i meet only once every weekend at my tuition..
i know there's 3hours of meeting her everyweek yet i dun even dare to approach.. her eyes stares at me for minutes without glancing that each time my heart pumps so fast than my hands,fingers and backbone even shivers..
its not a usual feeling...
i juz need help on how to approach her and develop a friendship first.. i dun have much experience on approaching gals.nor do i develop such a strong interest on a girl often. it ain't a crush,it's been from the start of the year until now.. she hints&hints,stares & stares but i just dun any ideas for approaching and time left indeed little..
im very keen in developing a close friendship in early stage with her so any tips?
i need is interesting/creative ideas. dun wanna bore with wad usual people would do on dates..eg movies then treat meal then talk boring things on bus journey home like majority of my friends do...
even if u r nervous, pretend that u r not..
ai zai, if not, act zai..
be natural..
gd luck.. -
Originally posted by Fireindahouse:well admit that im a shy guy.. then there's this girl i meet only once every weekend at my tuition.. i know there's 3hours of meeting her everyweek yet i dun even dare to approach.. her eyes stares at me for minutes without glancing that each time my heart pumps so fast than my hands,fingers and backbone even shivers..
its not a usual feeling...
i juz need help on how to approach her and develop a friendship first.. i dun have much experience on approaching gals.nor do i develop such a strong interest on a girl often. it ain't a crush,it's been from the start of the year until now.. she hints&hints,stares & stares but i just dun any ideas for approaching and time left indeed little..
im very keen in developing a close friendship in early stage with her so any tips?
i need is interesting/creative ideas. dun wanna bore with wad usual people would do on dates..eg movies then treat meal then talk boring things on bus journey home like majority of my friends do...
Why don't you just go up to her and make small talk?Originally posted by Fireindahouse:well admit that im a shy guy.. then there's this girl i meet only once every weekend at my tuition.. i know there's 3hours of meeting her everyweek yet i dun even dare to approach.. her eyes stares at me for minutes without glancing that each time my heart pumps so fast than my hands,fingers and backbone even shivers..
its not a usual feeling...
i juz need help on how to approach her and develop a friendship first.. i dun have much experience on approaching gals.nor do i develop such a strong interest on a girl often. it ain't a crush,it's been from the start of the year until now.. she hints&hints,stares & stares but i just dun any ideas for approaching and time left indeed little..
im very keen in developing a close friendship in early stage with her so any tips?
i need is interesting/creative ideas. dun wanna bore with wad usual people would do on dates..eg movies then treat meal then talk boring things on bus journey home like majority of my friends do...
Smile at her. If she makes eye contact then you smile back and just approach.
"Hey are you Singaporean?"
"Errr... yes. Why?"
"I noticed you around here several times, you look a bit different from most local girls."
"Is it? I see..."
"Are you single?"
"Why do you ask?"
"Give me your email address?"
Don't wait for her to reply. Take out paper and pen and just note it down. Then say goodbye tell her you gotta go. -
Omg this is wad i did....
perhaps its due to the way i grew up as a only child,which results in my limited social skills..even some of my good friends that i most often mixed in are very shy persons..(u know the we are the guai guai type and is quite popular among the girls in school type but still gonggong dunno wad to do type)so inevitably im indeed the very "noobie" type in approaching girls,so i didn't know where i picked up the courage make out this 1st step...
spent the whole of last night practising in front of the mirror planning wad to talk to her...
today morning wake up with an exceptional eagerness which i never had b4..
brush my teeth repeatedly 3 times until its shinning white...
spent about 45mins just to do my hair alone..!!!!(which is so new to me,often i don't comb my hair at all as most of the girls im going to meet everyday dosent catch my eye,most often i have this feeling that combing my hair to meet them is a waste of my gel..)
But its so DIFFERENT today..45mins.....(im so concern of wad she thinks of me) im afraid from these facts im already able to make a conclusion of the kind of "feelings" for her..
then happily dressed up picked my bag,and step out of the doorsteps with my rarely worn long sleeved white shirt which i rarely wear unless there's important occasion spray some perfume together with my "45mins combed hair"
then when i happily reached the bus stop,i saw some many malays in their traditional costumes which suddenly reminds me of today is hari raya (WHICH MEANS A PUBLLLIICCC HOLLIIIDDAAAYYYY!!!!) OMG!
i actually got so excited over meeting her that i forgot its a public holiday today..which means there's no tuition class today!!..
However imma gonna try again next week..
but the main important point is that im finally able to build up the courage to approach her but sometimes shyt do happens...
so im indeed very very very worried about my courage is going to be diminished by the time next week comes..