Hubby obsessed with sports!
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We've been married for 2 years and things got a lot worst. Before we married, he paid a lot of attention to me but recently he rather focus on sports than his sexy wife.
All this problem started in the beginning of the year when his friends invited him to watch a football match at mamak stall. Since then, he went out almost every night to join his friends play indoor football (futsal?) and I don't mind with that because it's good to attached with some sports.
Last 3 months, he started to watch wrestling and bought a lot of DVDs. He became less caring towards me. Example, when I broke my glass in the kitchen, he just don't even bother to take his butt up and to see what happening. He just stick his eyes to the wrestling program.
Then last month, he bought a lot of posters (football, wrestling and basketball) and football bedsheets to decorate our room. He suggested that we should take down our wedding picture on the wall and replace it with a footballer named (Alex Ferguson?). He said it's a very inspirational poster and he want to frame it. We argued about that and at last I gave up for the sake of his happiness.
And what really upset a lot is during our anniversary recently, i bought him a nice watch and he give me a Nike football shoe as a gift. He said the shoe is pretty therefore he bought for me. Then, previous week is my birthday and his present for me is a DVD of wrestling. He said the DVD is great and I should watch it whenever I'm free.
Yesterday, I was preparing dinner while he read his sports magazine. I called his to take his dinner and he said dont disturb him. And out of my mouth I said "Eat magazines can already, no need to eat dinner!". He was very angry and shouted "You dont talk to me like that, I'm the game and king of kings in this house. If you keep talking a lot, I'll give you a shut the f**k up!". Then he grunted something like "Humaka?". I cried and ran into the room and we didnt talk since then.
Dear members, what should I do to save this marriage? I really love him a lot but recently he changed a lot suddenly and I had a really hard time to be with him.
I dont know what to do....
Thanks for reading such a long whining story of mine and i apologize for my weak grammars.
Yours sincerely,
ShyShyCat -
You should be honoured your husband respects Sir Alex Ferguson more than you. It's true, it's true, it's DAMN true.
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u reali sound very clone....
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well, itz good that he is engrossed in these rather than hanging around in those sleazy joints.
look on the bright side, he also need some private time of his own.
when was your last outing together for a holiday? -
ur hubby is clueless to what hes doing. hes really ignorant to support SAF
anyway.. i think u better have a good talk with him.. -
hmmm...Originally posted by BrUtUs:u reali sound very clone.... 
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u support arsenal.
make him more du lan -
What is clone btw?
@sLeEpWaLkErInG
I want to travel with him but he usually dont like it cause he said dont waste money. So I just listen to what he said. I'm not controlling his private time but everytime he back home from work he will stick with his sports.
@Nadare
It's really hard to talk with him recently. He will always like "Hana, hana!" and forget about it later. -
u shld be lucky ur hubby's not obsessed with 'other' things....
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he sian with you liao lah
you need to learn how to please him in bed lah.
if u want, i can teach u, first lesson free
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Obsessed to something is not good...Originally posted by pervertboi v1.2.1:u shld be lucky ur hubby's not obsessed with 'other' things.... -
at least u noe he's not sleeping with his soccer boots rite?Originally posted by ShyShyCat:Obsessed to something is not good... -
can i check with both your age? and what was the chemistry into this marriage?
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The chemistry is the love and commitment he promised to me. But everything went the other way around. I was planning to continue my 2nd degree but he seems not really happy about it. All day at home cook, wash and clean. I wish I can work.Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:can i check with both your age? and what was the chemistry into this marriage? -
u sound like in your late twenties, well for the marriage to work well, one must be able to give and take.
Try to find some time to talk to him nicely, do not exert the frustration focusing on this issue.
look at his + pts with a microscope and his - pts with a telescope. you will feel better..
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Alex Ferguson rocks!!! But fortunately I still give priority to humans over sports.
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yeah! divorce him since he support manu.Originally posted by gunner77:u support arsenal.
make him more du lan
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Guys this is serious....
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guess u overlook my posts..
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hmmmm... he probably needs a psychologist.
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Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:guess u overlook my posts.. Sorry...I feel that I give most of the time.
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ur hubby beyond hope liao. supporting manu is as good as possessed by the devils.
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Shyshycat,
An addiction to sports is good only when he is physically involved in it.
Is he gambling with the sports ?
His addiction is a mental issue.
I suggest he goes for psychological consultation.
If all else fails, you'd better pack your bags and head for a family lawyer.
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Im not sure he gambles or not. How should I suggest him to go for the consultation? He will get angry and scold me again.Originally posted by jojobeach:Shyshycat,
An addiction to sports is good only when he is physically involved in it.
Is he gambling with the sports ?
His addiction is a mental issue.
I suggest he goes for psychological consultation.
If all else fails, you'd better pack your bags and head for a family lawyer.
Sometimes men learn to cherish after they have lost their precious. -
ask him to visit this place:Originally posted by ShyShyCat:Im not sure he gambles or not. How should I suggest him to go for the consultation? He will get angry and scold me again.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=forum_display&forum_id=1401