Without communication, it is very hard to sustain a relationship. You have to learn to resolve conflicts if both of you want to continue this relationship in the long run. u can try smudgey way or the angel way to get him understand your shoes.Originally posted by TimBERgURL:somehow i was refering the let it be the way it is..was because of the post that 2 ppl are arguing..
hah..unpleasant or aggressive tone..but im jus too straight forwards wif words..die die..really dnoo how to sweet talk..n suggest a solution..i got none..
guys tend nt to call girls??haha..i dun talk much at all...it is the opposite..ur theory seems wrong..hOriginally posted by yiha093:girls tend to keep talking ....
maybe thats why guys tend not to call girls at night cause they wan to
SLEEP
oh ya... TS...
be careful of zarks![]()
i did tat..at the very end..he is busy playing his games n forget calling..his reason..Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:hmmm.. for the part that he didnt call u as promised.. maybe u can call him instead to find out whats wrong ?
Originally posted by TimBERgURL:i did tat..at the very end..he is busy playing his games n forget calling..his reason..
Phone bill theory: House telephone calls are quite cheap mah, unless you're talk about mobile phone. The mobile phone call are so EXPENSIVE!Originally posted by dumbdumb!:is he reliable in other areas?
not calling back is kinda minor la.
i think it can be classified under habit.
like since young, my parents will always complain that i like to take things and not put it back wherever it was from.
its just a habit.
maybe he saving on phonebill? or maybe he really forget, or maybe he nothing to talk to you about, so never call? maybe he's just bad at talking over the phone.
personally i'm the type who's bad at talking over phones. so i don't like to talk on phone unless like urgent, or information transfer.
if i want to let my gf know that i'm thinking abt her, i'll just drop her a msg instead.
i mean, why u want him to call you back? you got alot of things to catch up with him meh?
get a life? you will be so busy, he will need to make an appointment just to talk to you and all the time you can give him is max 5 mins per appointment and max 3 times a day.Originally posted by TimBERgURL:it's my first post in here..well...here to start out wif my problems..
i know it is common n normal for couples to fight..however i see somethings in my relationship doesnt seems to work..i jus wonder waad sld i do?
we have been together for quite sometime..but one thing i cant stand abt him is he keep breaking minor promises...or u can consider me as 'xiao qi gui'...wadever the case..i shall continue...
we do talk during the night time cos it is the only free time i have in a day's time and everytime half way he says he will calls back during the night time...den as time pass by it is already mid night..i cant wait any longer as i have school in the morning next day...so seriously..i forget abt it and went to slp..onli the next day i ask him...he said..'sorry i forget...'...tat's all..i have to take his apologies right??if not wad else can i do?fight and make a mole out of something minor..
however recently he have been doing ths quite a lot of times...saying 'sorry i forget...'...and it is really getting me piss..to a certain extent dissappointment.and i duno wad sld i do...when i ask him n discuss abt it..he jus told me...'jus take n give in la ...some small problem why make it so big...'
his reply got me so stuck up..tat i think sometimes minor problems can rise up to become major problems..just because he is wif his frens and forgets his time n his words to me...
i find it a little upset and realise that he is taking for granted...can i know wad can i do?at least for now...
x2!Originally posted by sEphIrOth:a man who cant keep to his words, will not keep to his word.
you dont only wan assurance that he keeps his promise, you also wan him to be someone responsible. talk to him about it? see how he feels. if all he says is just sorry without trying to change the situation, then things could just take the plunge
Shy guy....Originally posted by TimBERgURL:[/color=blue]guys tend nt to call girls??[/color]haha..i dun talk much at all...it is the opposite..ur theory seems wrong..h
ya y zarks?
Originally posted by TimBERgURL:i did tat..at the very end..he is busy playing his games n forget calling..his reason..
Hey TS, this is true, so trueOriginally posted by allentyb:if you want a boyfriend who is sensitive about your needs, there are plenty of them, and all we can do, is offer a listening ear, and what others will reply to you, is either, they said what you want to hear, and if those people wanted to ask you to PM them and offer you advice, don't listen to them at all, because they probably want to get to know you, and get your h/p no. and i am sure you are a smart lady, so please don't give out your h/p no. to them at all, and you are looking for a place to vent your disappointment out,
you have to draw a line somewhere, either you tell your boyfriend, that he has to buck up or you will leave him for good, because you have had enough of his nonsense, if he treasure you, he will improve,
and those people who think that i am wrong
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Hey , bastard yiha093 kid,Originally posted by yiha093:girls tend to keep talking ....
maybe thats why guys tend not to call girls at night cause they wan to
SLEEP
oh ya... TS...
be careful of zarks![]()
actually yes, but nah, cause i not good at flamingOriginally posted by Zarks:Hey , bastard yiha093 kid,
You got a problem with me ?
heh, i said TENDOriginally posted by TimBERgURL:guys tend nt to call girls??haha..i dun talk much at all...it is the opposite..ur theory seems wrong..h
ya y zarks?
Just think through what you wanna say to him...Originally posted by TimBERgURL:somehow i was refering the let it be the way it is..was because of the post that 2 ppl are arguing..
hah..unpleasant or aggressive tone..but im jus too straight forwards wif words..die die..really dnoo how to sweet talk..n suggest a solution..i got none..
If u want to dump him, please pass it to me, I got lots of my gfs still wait to have a bf.Originally posted by gunner77:u are 18 only
still young still can find other betta bf
dump him !![]()