Breakup
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Hi guys, this is another long post.. and hopefully it will be my last post.
Been trying to forget abt her these few days. She also din called me since that nite. The feelings on every morning and before bed time are the worst. Saw them together in my dreams on wed nite and the next morning when I woke up, my pillow was wet. Tried to absorb all the advice given by u guys.. Feeling confused and just now, I did something despicable.. I went to check her email. We knew each other passwords coz she would ask me to help her send stuffs last time and my passwords are all her name.
Browsed through and saw an email from that guy dated 1st Oct (last Mon). The previous night was the day she sms me saying that she missed me and she would like me to know it. ThatÂ’s why I bought her dinner, hugged and kissed on her bed even though we had already broken up the previous week. She asked me to sing ai hen jian dan by david tao and she slept at my arms. Even told me that thereÂ’s chance betw us except she donÂ’t wanna promise first.
Now after seeing that mail, I finally woke up. IÂ’m really just a convenience store. Just because someone isnÂ’t free and IÂ’m stupid enough to fill his shift for him, thinking that our r/s has a chance. IÂ’m just dumb, dumb and dumb. So i decided get her out of my mind. I swear I wun cry for her anymore. Changed all my passwords. Deleted her msn although she can still see me but at least I wun see her. Have to find a day to keep all her things away; the receipts of my gifts to her, our meals together. This gonna keep me busy for quite sometime.
Finally, I wanna thank all of u (Yunhaier, Smudgey, Guardx, Jojobeach, ordinaryguy32, digicharat and a lot more) who had given me advice. Really really thankful to all u guys for even bothering to read my threads and replied.
Thank you to all of u. God bless. -
gd luck, same as u , im still recovering from my lost love, i can sae it's not easy. best is keep yr mind occupy, but everytime when u are alone u will start to think again, best is to face it. i know i cant. that's why easier sae den done
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Steady my man. i feel for you.
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im slow
but it's good to know that you've woke up and decided to let it go
Change your passwords and everything.... If she still asks you to do sth for her, dont, please
Soooner or later she will know that you no longer show any interest in her and IF she did return, you should know what to do
Respect yourself by not lettin her to treat you this way
Takes time but you will forget bout her completely one day
Take care -
There is another way to do this if you are strong but obviously you are not.Originally posted by L.o.s.t:Hi guys, this is another long post.. and hopefully it will be my last post.
Been trying to forget abt her these few days. She also din called me since that nite. The feelings on every morning and before bed time are the worst. Saw them together in my dreams on wed nite and the next morning when I woke up, my pillow was wet. Tried to absorb all the advice given by u guys.. Feeling confused and just now, I did something despicable.. I went to check her email. We knew each other passwords coz she would ask me to help her send stuffs last time and my passwords are all her name.
Browsed through and saw an email from that guy dated 1st Oct (last Mon). The previous night was the day she sms me saying that she missed me and she would like me to know it. ThatÂ’s why I bought her dinner, hugged and kissed on her bed even though we had already broken up the previous week. She asked me to sing ai hen jian dan by david tao and she slept at my arms. Even told me that thereÂ’s chance betw us except she donÂ’t wanna promise first.
Now after seeing that mail, I finally woke up. IÂ’m really just a convenience store. Just because someone isnÂ’t free and IÂ’m stupid enough to fill his shift for him, thinking that our r/s has a chance. IÂ’m just dumb, dumb and dumb. So i decided get her out of my mind. I swear I wun cry for her anymore. Changed all my passwords. Deleted her msn although she can still see me but at least I wun see her. Have to find a day to keep all her things away; the receipts of my gifts to her, our meals together. This gonna keep me busy for quite sometime.
Finally, I wanna thank all of u (Yunhaier, Smudgey, Guardx, Jojobeach, ordinaryguy32, digicharat and a lot more) who had given me advice. Really really thankful to all u guys for even bothering to read my threads and replied.
Thank you to all of u. God bless.
The other way is to continue with her while you find another one to love since she is willing to continue with you.
It is like, look for another job then resign.
hahaha just joking... -
remember the painOriginally posted by L.o.s.t:Hi guys, this is another long post.. and hopefully it will be my last post.
Been trying to forget abt her these few days. She also din called me since that nite. The feelings on every morning and before bed time are the worst. Saw them together in my dreams on wed nite and the next morning when I woke up, my pillow was wet. Tried to absorb all the advice given by u guys.. Feeling confused and just now, I did something despicable.. I went to check her email. We knew each other passwords coz she would ask me to help her send stuffs last time and my passwords are all her name.
Browsed through and saw an email from that guy dated 1st Oct (last Mon). The previous night was the day she sms me saying that she missed me and she would like me to know it. ThatÂ’s why I bought her dinner, hugged and kissed on her bed even though we had already broken up the previous week. She asked me to sing ai hen jian dan by david tao and she slept at my arms. Even told me that thereÂ’s chance betw us except she donÂ’t wanna promise first.
Now after seeing that mail, I finally woke up. IÂ’m really just a convenience store. Just because someone isnÂ’t free and IÂ’m stupid enough to fill his shift for him, thinking that our r/s has a chance. IÂ’m just dumb, dumb and dumb. So i decided get her out of my mind. I swear I wun cry for her anymore. Changed all my passwords. Deleted her msn although she can still see me but at least I wun see her. Have to find a day to keep all her things away; the receipts of my gifts to her, our meals together. This gonna keep me busy for quite sometime.
Finally, I wanna thank all of u (Yunhaier, Smudgey, Guardx, Jojobeach, ordinaryguy32, digicharat and a lot more) who had given me advice. Really really thankful to all u guys for even bothering to read my threads and replied.
Thank you to all of u. God bless.
remember the lesson leant
remember the hurt she had given you.
These are things that will prevent you from going back to her.
Life is a never ending teacher which trains you to be a better person.
Action speaks louder than words.
Remember what you hae type and act upon it. -
To TS,
Why don't you "blocked" her in MSN?
This, to me, makes me feel that you are still hoping that a miracle will happen, even if the probability is less than 0.01. -
Actually I also donno.. Want to block her but I can't bear to do so.. Thought that if I deleted her contact, as least I wun have to keep looking at the group I put her in. Just can't really let go but maybe if I don't see her online and she don't msn me, at least I wun keep thinking of her. Sounds silly but I really donno. Anyway I'm sure she will contact me again if she needs my help. This is what happened to her ex who she always ask him to help edit and correct her assignments. Maybe when time passes, I will delete her contact then.Originally posted by ILPSY:To TS,
Why don't you "blocked" her in MSN?
This, to me, makes me feel that you are still hoping that a miracle will happen, even if the probability is less than 0.01.
Thanks alot guys!! God bless -
u know this is how she treats guys ard her, yet u duno how to recognise warning sign?
dis girl is obviously a user. someone who exploits ppl who r fond of her.
sheesh when man so stupid really no medicine to help
u made d right first step but make sure u dont get used again
always remind urself tt u r like her ex - just another spare tyreOriginally posted by L.o.s.t:Anyway I'm sure she will contact me again if she needs my help. This is what happened to her ex who she always ask him to help edit and correct her assignments. -
yes i agree what the above post mentions. Its like treating you like a spare tyre and when needed call you back.
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When you want to have nothing with someone, that means you avoid all contacts with the person.Originally posted by L.o.s.t:Actually I also donno.. Want to block her but I can't bear to do so.. Thought that if I deleted her contact, as least I wun have to keep looking at the group I put her in. Just can't really let go but maybe if I don't see her online and she don't msn me, at least I wun keep thinking of her. Sounds silly but I really donno. Anyway I'm sure she will contact me again if she needs my help. This is what happened to her ex who she always ask him to help edit and correct her assignments. Maybe when time passes, I will delete her contact then.
Thanks alot guys!! God bless
Why on earth would you even care if she fails her exams or watsoever? That is simply NONE of your business.
So, if she asks you for help, will you help her? If so, you are a goner! -
same situation, move on..
like the chinese saying:" Good horse doesn't eat the grasses it passed.."
she might dial you up sometimes talking those BS, don't get hooked up..
spare tyre? _!_