Breakup
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Guys,
You don't need to be a arssee kicking jerk to have your woman fall head over heels with you , begging to carry your child.
All you need is to frequently REINVENT.
Just because she shows some appreciation to the chicken rice packet you bought from Pulau Ubin, does NOT means she wants it every other day.
Being a little bit more creative ain't gonna lower your sperm count ,OK ? -
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you know what you are now?
you have been demoted from a boyfriend to a convenience store. worse still, you happily accepted the role of a 7-11.
time to wind up business.
next time she calls, tell her to stop calling you if she is really feeling sorry to you. that is the least she could do for you.
stop entertaining her anymore. stop filling in her free time. stop being her cheap outlet for comfort.
and please stop fascinating for a rekindle love over her words like, misses you, happier with you etc...
she already told you its over between the two of you and its not possible for you two to be together again.
she had already put it across to you loud and clear. why are you still cheapening yourselves?
since you are most likely the type that cant let go, its better to cut off relationship with her. not even as a friend.
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Focus on your career. Be richer.
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Any examples of reinvent?Originally posted by jojobeach:Guys,
You don't need to be a arssee kicking jerk to have your woman fall head over heels with you , begging to carry your child.
All you need is to frequently REINVENT.
Just because she shows some appreciation to the chicken rice packet you bought from Pulau Ubin, does NOT means she wants it every other day.
Being a little bit more creative ain't gonna lower your sperm count ,OK ?
In same case when the gal truly loves the guy, I believe it will work but in this case is the TS ex who clearly shows that she wants more.
If the gals needs and wants is ever increasing can the guy really keep up to her?
Is the same case as TS, I believe he tried hard to "Reinvent and to be creative" but in the end is it worth the effort? Cos one side is doing so much and the other side keeps want more and more.
Why should one side keep doing so much and later kena scolded by others that he should not " do whatever in his power to give in to herÂ…. " -
no money no girl friendS.
money is everything, u dont tell me wat with money no feeling no hapiness blar blar blar...
tht's only excuses for those no money 1.. -
lol agree. with money, every girl loves u. Not all girls love you for your money, but if you have alot of money, you can do things that normal man wouldn't. E.g. fireworks with some messages on it, your video on every outdoor TV to show your affection to her. You can have the power and time to do and satisfy the girl needs. It can even make your weakness look much less of a weakness. Don't tell me no need money also can be happy or even happier than those got money. If you have the choice, I'm certain you wouldn't choose to be no money.Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):no money no girl friendS.
money is everything, u dont tell me wat with money no feeling no hapiness blar blar blar...
tht's only excuses for those no money 1.. -
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arh arh .... nice guys always end up with bad gals. And bad guys always end up with good gals. That's the truth.Originally posted by jojobeach:Be honest.
You were a jerk to her , that's why she left you.
Let's be very truthful now.
No woman will leave a man if he is such a nice guy as what you would hope to believe.
Once you have admitted that you've been a jerk to her, and that you deserved to be dumped. You will get over it faster.
Guys who pretend to be Mr Nice guy, is just what it is, FAKE.
So stop that "I'm such a nice guy, why did she has to leave me " Bull shiate. OK ? -
TS is not a nice guy, he is an easy sucker!
see, gf alrdy dump him but he still want to be her spare tire
u can't rape the willing
he willing to be used, she happy to use him - it's a fair exchangeOriginally posted by TheGoodEarth:arh arh .... nice guys always end up with bad gals. And bad guys always end up with good gals. That's the truth. -
play with her la.. just make her feel you still love her... then when she really in love with you, u dump her back just the same way as she did to you..
revenge is sweet.. -
Here a little exercise you can do to/with your partner.
Get 30 pieces cut out paper.
On each piece of paper, write down what your partner likes you to do for him/her.
You should know what he/she likes, if not you can ask her to come up with the list.
Fold each of them and put them in a small container/jar.
Every time, before you meet up, lucky draw 1 piece of paper.
Do what is written on it for your partner for that day.
This kind of couples game is not new, there is a sleazier version where I live.
But it sure takes some boredom out of the bore.
Reinvention. -
i tink she is taking u for granted.
or maybe she just aint really like the feeling of being too close to u?
wateva it is... women are evil creatures
they tell u they like tis and tat but in fact they hate it -
TS... think u got the answer to yr solutions... U do not need help ....
U just need the strenght to carry out....
for tat, u have to help yrself...
This post sounds a bit extra... but it is necessary... Stay strong... the storm will pass -
Forget her
My Version
Broke up with my gf almost 3 YEAR ago..
We had a wonderful time (almost 47 months) together. IÂ’m AM romantic type OK OK looking.. So I gave in everything she wanted to her.. what she wanted, I will get it for her, what she need to do, I will try to assist her or help help her to do it. We spent all our time together NEARLY 24 HOUR 365 DAYS,SHE CALL I THERE. I was in the final yr of my NS .
I got a 3 ROOM FLAT, she moved in with me and it was almost the feeling of being husband and wife as we would do everything together as we are beside each other 24/7 FOR A YEAR. We talked of getting engaged once she SOON , She always said she was very sure that IÂ’m the one for her.
ETC ETC ETC
She broke with me for another man.who the same age as me.
and and alot of abuse infront of others and got marry later with another
older guy who she believe able to earn more.
her DEMAND 6C
cash (income of $10000 per month)
CAR (honda JAZZ)
Conda
Career (banker perfer)
Credit card
AND CHIRSTIAN (sorry) -
Huh! wow! i dun believe we gals like this lah, this is only your side of the story, maybe she got her story to tell too. So need to be fair to her.Originally posted by ExSpirit: Forget her
My Version
Broke up with my gf almost 3 YEAR ago..
We had a wonderful time (almost 47 months) together. IÂ’m AM romantic type OK OK looking.. So I gave in everything she wanted to her.. what she wanted, I will get it for her, what she need to do, I will try to assist her or help help her to do it. We spent all our time together NEARLY 24 HOUR 365 DAYS,SHE CALL I THERE. I was in the final yr of my NS .
I got a 3 ROOM FLAT, she moved in with me and it was almost the feeling of being husband and wife as we would do everything together as we are beside each other 24/7 FOR A YEAR. We talked of getting engaged once she SOON , She always said she was very sure that IÂ’m the one for her.
ETC ETC ETC
She broke with me for another man.who the same age as me.
and and alot of abuse infront of others and got marry later with another
older guy who she believe able to earn more.
her DEMAND 6C
cash (income of $10000 per month)
CAR (honda JAZZ)
Conda
Career (banker perfer)
Credit card
AND CHIRSTIAN (sorry) -
I think it is fate lor. if you all cant match than thats it lor. No matter how much you said it is cannot work one lor.
I am being honest, no offence -
what you're doing now is choosing what you wanna listen. Some time, people are sick of being poor so they will do this, applies to both female and male.Originally posted by angel7030:Huh! wow! i dun believe we gals like this lah, this is only your side of the story, maybe she got her story to tell too. So need to be fair to her. -
EH this is all crap! Why are there so many guys whining about a failed relationship.
WAKE UP!
She isnt the only girl out there !
GUYS! Career first Career first! !
WHen you establish your career, girls will come lookin for you. When that happens, you might even be stealing her from another guy
that guy gets sad and whines at sgforum
and the whole process repeats itself.
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I not Whining About IT, i over it, just wish that him(owner of this forum)Originally posted by FireToad:EH this is all crap! Why are there so many guys whining about a failed relationship.
WAKE UP!
She isnt the only girl out there !
GUYS! Career first Career first! !
WHen you establish your career, girls will come lookin for you. When that happens, you might even be stealing her from another guy
that guy gets sad and whines at sgforum
and the whole process repeats itself.
for SOME singapore Gals,Dont waste time on them,SOME had no idea that the earth is spining and believe it still FLAT.(StoneAGE Thinking)
So get yourself another gal or just Earn lot of cash and spend on them and see how they WHINING you for the money and ETC
(CRuel but MOST singapore gals are like that,they are richer in someway but lost something else"HearT") -
lols, x1000000000Originally posted by FireToad:EH this is all crap! Why are there so many guys whining about a failed relationship.
WAKE UP!
She isnt the only girl out there !
GUYS! Career first Career first! !
WHen you establish your career, girls will come lookin for you. When that happens, you might even be stealing her from another guy
that guy gets sad and whines at sgforum
and the whole process repeats itself. 
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"Originally posted by angel7030:Huh! wow! i dun believe we gals like this lah, this is only your side of the story, maybe she got her story to tell too. So need to be fair to her.
She broke with me for another man.who the same age as me.
and and alot of abuse infront of others and got marry later with another
older guy who she believe able to earn more.
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Sadly I believe his story. The above quote only enforce my views.
Since is the guy who is suffering, who ever cares about him? Gals always say tat they got their own version of sad stories but in the end is all lies.
The real truth is that they can lie so much to get what they want, why not lie about their stories? I no longer believe in crap stories that gals tell cos they only want others to do what they want and dump them when they could no longer do it.
Life is never fair, if it is fair then why his ex left so many man ?
Action speaks louder than words.
Why be fair to her when her action shows that she betrays him? -
i've read the TS's entries..
i feel sad for him..
dun worry man..
time heals everything..
btw, i've broke up with my first love 10 months ago..
i'm feeling ok now.. -
mostly is like this one la.Originally posted by Guardx:"
She broke with me for another man.who the same age as me.
and and alot of abuse infront of others and got marry later with another
older guy who she believe able to earn more.
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Sadly I believe his story. The above quote only enforce my views.
Since is the guy who is suffering, who ever cares about him? Gals always say tat they got their own version of sad stories but in the end is all lies.
The real truth is that they can lie so much to get what they want, why not lie about their stories? I no longer believe in crap stories that gals tell cos they only want others to do what they want and dump them when they could no longer do it.
Life is never fair, if it is fair then why his ex left so many man ?
Action speaks louder than words.
Why be fair to her when her action shows that she betrays him?
girl break up with guy, guy come and post. then girl will have her reasons for the breakup. must be fair. must hear both sides to be fair.
guy break up with girl, girl come and post.
the guy is a jerk. -
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