Sianz...I contemplating divorce
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SLC..Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:The flowers and presents never stop after marriage. Both of us still like giving each other surprises and gifts(when we not thrashing it out!). On the assuring side, I have done it so many many times. But she just won't take it in. And of course when quarrelling, black face all come out one mah.
She likes surfing the forum, but she is easily influenced by 'online san gu liu po" one. I told her not to believe so much of what other people say, but I do not stop her online. Because she needs to have an outlet to let out her woes, I guess.
And no wonder, got terms like "MIL, DIL, HB, TLC" and all that. She say I din give her enough TLC. After the last big quarrel, I put an effort to accompany her more. Sometimes, when she unreasonably want more TLC, I also told her "not enough SLC!!"
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What's SLC?
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Frustrated_Guy,
Haiz, both of you, gota learn how to fight fair.
It seems the only problem is during arguments. other than that, you and her sounds like a very normal couple.
May I suggest, both of you refrain from vocal arguments.
If there is anything unhappy, correspond via email or letters.
This way, you get to think and re-read first before sending it to your partner.
Trouble will not spill over so fast, when it's not through our impulsive mouth. -
Agree with using email or letters when either one or both are feeling angry inside. Definitely a good method to consider.Originally posted by jojobeach:Frustrated_Guy,
Haiz, both of you, gota learn how to fight fair.
It seems the only problem is during arguments. other than that, you and her sounds like a very normal couple.
May I suggest, both of you refrain from vocal arguments.
If there is anything unhappy, correspond via email or letters.
This way, you get to think and re-read first before sending it to your partner.
Trouble will not spill over so fast, when it's not through our impulsive mouth. -
what sort of embarressing scene?Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:Thanks, I guess. I also don't know how I can tahan. Maybe one of my stronger virtue? It's very very easy to give it all up. But if I want to do that, then I wouldn't choose her in the 1st place. She has her cute points too.
If you ask me if I can outrun her. Yes, I probably can. But in her angered state, she may cause an awfully embarrassing scene right there in public(Guys do not want to go through it AT ALL). Besides, like I mention, not the 1st time liao. 1st few times, I still manage to stop her. But that day, I tot why try and stop her. Deep inside, I want some peace as well. Not quite a bad deal, if you ask me.
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She want TLC = Tender Loving CareOriginally posted by Spnw07:What's SLC?
I want SLC = Sexual Loving Care
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Girl screaming at the top of her voice. Hands waving and gesturing. Oblivious to surroundings. Only output no input. Cannot calm down. And all this in public.Originally posted by xiaoxui:what sort of embarressing scene? -
that is so Aunty-like and immature.. sorry to say that dude.. but that kind of behavior for her age.. is.. not acceptable by me..Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:Girl screaming at the top of her voice. Hands waving and gesturing. Oblivious to surroundings. Only output no input. Cannot calm down. And all this in public. -
What's she screaming about?Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:Girl screaming at the top of her voice. Hands waving and gesturing. Oblivious to surroundings. Only output no input. Cannot calm down. And all this in public.
When she run away from you (half way), it simply meant that she is unhappy with you.
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rhk her lo
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Was she wearing running shoes ?
Girls usually wear flats or heels de mah.
Basically, she is fine when she is not angry. Actually all of us get angry from time to time and the feeling of burning rage isn't good. When we get angry, we do things that we regret later. She did it out of anger and not her usual self.
And you are learning the beautiful art of tolerance, to be more giving.
U know.... Marriage isn't easy. But it is through marriage, a couple learns to evolve along the way. -
lol, you win. haha. Good wat, try to use more humour to communicate with her and within yourself loh. Unless you want to give up on marriage, then no need for all the trouble.Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:She want TLC = Tender Loving Care
I want SLC = Sexual Loving Care
But seriously, sex is hardly something that is needed to help mend a marriage. One day, someone gonna have an affair cos either husband or wife unable to satisfy each other's high sex drive for whatever reasons.