TS oreddy calmed down now is your turn>Originally posted by cloud210:I'm with TS, whether it is empty threats or threats shows the girl has no consideration for you. She think its fun, she get a kick out of it when she see you giving in to her threats. The threats will never end. She thinks she is superior than you while telling you she is feeling very stress about your mom coming.
As much as you do not like/want your mother to come in, she is forcing you(although you're willing) to chase your mother away. Now the topic is your mother, and you happen to agree with her, next time when she want something, and you don't agree how? And what if by then, you both have kids, it will be more complicated by then. She is someone who can share your happiness, and leave you in the lurch when things turn for the worse. You will continue to be her slave if you continue not to do anything.
Tell her what you feel and solve the problems together, also talk about the underlying problems such as her attitude, or just divorce when she mentions it again.
Anyhow trigger happy say divorce shows she has no respect/commitment to you and the relationship. It also shows she will never sacrifice herself for you although you as a man should not let her be, but somethings it's beyond your control.
Sit down with ur wife and talk it all through...Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:There is no three of us trashing it out. I am on my wife's side with regards to moving into the new house. I will prevent my folks from interrupting us. Now the problem is my wife wants out here and there. So be it loh.
not agitated larOriginally posted by Short Ninja:TS oreddy calmed down now is your turn>![]()
Previoulsy TS posted this problem thread, settled already... but u dun know how unsupportive her wife is... if i were him, i cant live in peace too..TS already did find the solution, and they got better already previously but now his wife making problem like a kid againOriginally posted by elindra:What a dumb thing to get a divorce for
1 issue like this and both of you cannot even sit down to talk like adults and try to straighten it out with solutions
How old are you guys and why did you even get married in the first place?
Yeah loh. Trigger happy divorce. If you have any lawyer office, pls recommend and pm me. I wanna ready my bullets liao.Originally posted by cloud210:I'm with TS, whether it is empty threats or threats shows the girl has no consideration for you. She think its fun, she get a kick out of it when she see you giving in to her threats. The threats will never end. She thinks she is superior than you while telling you she is feeling very stress about your mom coming.
As much as you do not like/want your mother to come in, she is forcing you(although you're willing) to chase your mother away. Now the topic is your mother, and you happen to agree with her, next time when she want something, and you don't agree how? And what if by then, you both have kids, it will be more complicated by then. She is someone who can share your happiness, and leave you in the lurch when things turn for the worse. You will continue to be her slave if you continue not to do anything.
Tell her what you feel and solve the problems together, also talk about the underlying problems such as her attitude, or just divorce when she mentions it again.
Anyhow trigger happy say divorce shows she has no respect/commitment to you and the relationship. It also shows she will never sacrifice herself for you although you as a man should not let her be, but somethings it's beyond your control.
You are still in your frustration mode, manage your emotions b4 u managed the problem.Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:Yeah loh. Trigger happy divorce. If you have any lawyer office, pls recommend and pm me. I wanna ready my bullets liao.
Are you a mother ?Originally posted by Clandestine:Mothers are sacred.
If she wants to stay with you....let her stay.
Wife takes second ranking to mother...always!
You are a person with a high likelihood to clash with your daughter in-law.Originally posted by Clandestine:Mothers are sacred.
If she wants to stay with you....let her stay.
Wife takes second ranking to mother...always!
U talk so easy, wait till u r staying with yr mother-in-law then u know it's hellOriginally posted by Clandestine:Mothers are sacred.
If she wants to stay with you....let her stay.
Wife takes second ranking to mother...always!
this is misguided...the spouse is first after marriage, unless that half is unreasonable......but continue to honour and be filial to the parents.....husband and wife must always stand together against adversity...but given the modern disregard for family values, i see many selfish parties....Originally posted by Clandestine:Mothers are sacred.
If she wants to stay with you....let her stay.
Wife takes second ranking to mother...always!