Bf's past keep bothering Mi!
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So zh3nzh3n how u and z0ngz0ng le? Everything sorted out?
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u love him now or his past? u love him now why u care about his past?Originally posted by zh3nzh3n:My bf has an ex gf for near 5yrs... my bf broke up wif her after 1 and 1/2 yr cos she has a real bad temper and is unreasonable n spoilt. But somehow, i dunno why he wanted a patch up after another 6 mths and they continued for another 3 yr lydat but broke due to the same reason.
I was frustrated lor, how come a ger so worse yet they can be together so long... my bf now only say he was stupid to be with her n waste his time... and that he had no happy memories thru out the 5 yrs. How can tat be? But the ger realli very worse lah... maybe it's true lor.. I always think why she so bad yet my bf wan patch with her n tahan her for so long... I can only think that he loves her alot... then i very jealous and sometimes i mention this n we always buay song each other..
But he never had sex with her, though the ger once requested. my bf reject her. then my bf say the person he loves most is me, and now he hates his ex to the core... but he still cannot tahan mi keep asking him abt his past... at the same time, i canot keep myself from thinking n asking abt his past... i very insecure lah.. we always cold fight coz of this thing only... I very troubled... dunno wad to do... maybe u all have gone thru such thing... can help mi??
U ask urself lor, r u also that pure in ur past life? u did nothing wrong b4 mah? If ur bf also mind abt ur past, so whats the point?
Reflect this on urself man.. whats past is past, u tok so much, it also won't change.... if u mind, then find a guy with a good past... which i think its impossible... -
Yep, everything's alrite... thanx for ya concern~Originally posted by WinBoi84:So zh3nzh3n how u and z0ngz0ng le? Everything sorted out? 
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Welcome...Originally posted by zh3nzh3n:Yep, everything's alrite... thanx for ya concern~ 
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wahaha. agreed to the max... but they okie liao. still dovey lovey in forums l0ls.Originally posted by TZR:u love him now or his past? u love him now why u care about his past?
U ask urself lor, r u also that pure in ur past life? u did nothing wrong b4 mah? If ur bf also mind abt ur past, so whats the point?
Reflect this on urself man.. whats past is past, u tok so much, it also won't change.... if u mind, then find a guy with a good past... which i think its impossible...
Yeah.. u love him not his past..
So why bother
But can see his tolerance and patience quite high.. can stand the ger for 5 yrs.. meaning he's a gd guy..
So... its not tt bad after all... blessings to both of u
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U love him for what he is now..not for what he was. Its time he learn to forgiv n forget abt the ex..same thing matters..he loving u now..not living in the life with his ex.Originally posted by zh3nzh3n:My bf has an ex gf for near 5yrs... my bf broke up wif her after 1 and 1/2 yr cos she has a real bad temper and is unreasonable n spoilt. But somehow, i dunno why he wanted a patch up after another 6 mths and they continued for another 3 yr lydat but broke due to the same reason.
I was frustrated lor, how come a ger so worse yet they can be together so long... my bf now only say he was stupid to be with her n waste his time... and that he had no happy memories thru out the 5 yrs. How can tat be? But the ger realli very worse lah... maybe it's true lor.. I always think why she so bad yet my bf wan patch with her n tahan her for so long... I can only think that he loves her alot... then i very jealous and sometimes i mention this n we always buay song each other..
But he never had sex with her, though the ger once requested. my bf reject her. then my bf say the person he loves most is me, and now he hates his ex to the core... but he still cannot tahan mi keep asking him abt his past... at the same time, i canot keep myself from thinking n asking abt his past... i very insecure lah.. we always cold fight coz of this thing only... I very troubled... dunno wad to do... maybe u all have gone thru such thing... can help mi??
*hint* asking too much of the past is not doing mucj good favour for the present..it may even turn out nasty..sometimes -
zh3nzh3n
HI, I do not experience this kind of things b4 but just to offer some points of views.
Everyone has their past. You should put the past behind you can continue with your life with your BF. No guys like thier GF to keep bringing up tis past, esp if his past is not a present one.I am sure you will be piss off if he did the same to you. I think as long as he is faithful to you and love you now and the future, then it should be alright. You must remember that it is your relationship btwn him and you now and not his ex and him.A good relationship should only consist of the 2 involved parties and no one else.
May Happiness be with you 2.
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unhappy memories shld not b mention lor...cos it really hurts n really cannot forget 1 lor....sometimes its to pai seh to talk abt....very pek cek 1 leh...me n my gf both have worst past then him but we also last so long.....at least he told u his past n u noe abt it....wad else sia....u shld b happy n carry on....heart itchy cos u wan to noe every single little bit then make both unhappy...even if he sae all out u also not happy 1.....so best left dunno...nothing to sae 1....be gd gal continue wif him