attracted to this girl
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Take it this way. If you don't try, you got 0 chance.Originally posted by allstar:Becos this is my 1st time ma, 1st time is always the nervous.
If you try at least got some chance. -
Haiz... she is not at the bus stop todae, i think i dun have chance liao.
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she knows you posted this topic, thats why she won't appear.
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Haha, i don't think she will la. But if she really sees this, i wanted to tell her that she is very attractive.Originally posted by dbowie:she knows you posted this topic, thats why she won't appear. -
haiz reminds me of myself wen i was sec3. nvr found out the gals name..
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still no news ar? lol.
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Haiz ... no news ...
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see what happens when you hesitated too long and think too much?
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OMG, she is backed. But i am still nervous to speak out.
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Then you can forget about her.Originally posted by allstar:OMG, she is backed. But i am still nervous to speak out. -
Ya, i finally spoke to her todae, however she seems to be avoiding me when i say hi to her. I think i used wrong methode, i straight away told her "can i know you" which is wrong but i was nervous tat time... haiz ...
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It is still ok, bro. Dun b too sad. U've not completely lost - yet. (depends on u)
Either u r persistence, do some "plannin" & b fren with her OR u can get all tensed up, ends up worrying for nothing then lose her & regret forever.
Hey, at least the former has 50% chance of winning, rite?
Jus tell urself u onli wanna at least make frens with her, other things can wait.
Everyone will feel weird being "tapped upon" by strangers, let alone gals. So, b as natural as possible. Dun rush into it. Always find a chance to help her, e.g, let her board the train/bus 1st (ladies 1st, she'll onli think u r being a gentleman).
Go for it, bro!
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Didnt i teach u? Just say hi, hows ur day first !!!Originally posted by allstar:Ya, i finally spoke to her todae, however she seems to be avoiding me when i say hi to her. I think i used wrong methode, i straight away told her "can i know you" which is wrong but i was nervous tat time... haiz ...
sigh. nvm.. at least u spoke.. thats the most important thing..success or failure is not as important as u spoke it bravely.. cheers -
i know u taught me but my mind was blank at that moment, i just spoke out without thinking. However her response was kinda weird, she covered her face and did not reply me and look at the other direction, i realli dun understand girls.Originally posted by Zarks:Didnt i teach u? Just say hi, hows ur day first !!!
sigh. nvm.. at least u spoke.. thats the most important thing..success or failure is not as important as u spoke it bravely.. cheers -
If you are approaching a guy, you will have no problems right ?Originally posted by allstar:i know u taught me but my mind was blank at that moment, i just spoke out without thinking. However her response was kinda weird, she covered her face and did not reply me and look at the other direction, i realli dun understand girls.
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She shy perhaps.. that reaction is like those in anime (Japanese cartoon) = =Originally posted by allstar:i know u taught me but my mind was blank at that moment, i just spoke out without thinking. However her response was kinda weird, she covered her face and did not reply me and look at the other direction, i realli dun understand girls.
Nvm if u see her again, just say hi, u again, hows life.. just let her feel that ur not that kind of stalking guy who will chase her till death
practice this whenever u see her.. then she will start talk a little to u one day, just take some time,, no need rush.. and dont stand or sit too near her.. jsut a comfortable distance for u n her... how old is she? can u guess? -
she ard 19 -20? Ard same age as me i think.
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oh, nvm just talk to her again the nex day, hopefully shes there..
just a simple talk la.. actualy dun ahve to think much on how to talk.. at least u TALK.. thats what matters. just like seeing ur old buddy.. what wil u say ?
"hey , hows things goin man!! or watever" -
Its totally different, buddy u talk like this can, but u can't talk to stranger like this ma ... wat will they think of me? And i just have this feeling that she has a bf, tats why her reaction like tat.
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then just be frens la.. no harm to know another new fren.. perhaps later on she can intro ur future gf ? see things in positive way ma.. when u wanna get near her, u should have know she might have a bf already.. just as a fren would be ok for starting.. get her to talk!Originally posted by allstar:Its totally different, buddy u talk like this can, but u can't talk to stranger like this ma ... wat will they think of me? And i just have this feeling that she has a bf, tats why her reaction like tat. -
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you know wat, just now the conversation to her was realli tense, its like after i asked 2 sentences and then it stopped all the way until she alight. Cos i learn from u guys that if i speak to the girl and the girl did not reply to me, i just stay away and stop everything right?Originally posted by Zarks:then just be frens la.. no harm to know another new fren.. perhaps later on she can intro ur future gf ? see things in positive way ma.. when u wanna get near her, u should have know she might have a bf already.. just as a fren would be ok for starting.. get her to talk!
I doubt she will wait at that bus stop tml. I guess we'll have another tense situation to face if i talk to her, cos she dun talk to me. -
u continue on, next u'll see policemanOriginally posted by allstar:you know wat, just now the conversation to her was realli tense, its like after i asked 2 sentences and then it stopped all the way until she alight. Cos i learn from u guys that if i speak to the girl and the girl did not reply to me, i just stay away and stop everything right?
I doubt she will wait at that bus stop tml. I guess we'll have another tense situation to face if i talk to her, cos she dun talk to me. -
negative thinking again.Originally posted by allstar:you know wat, just now the conversation to her was realli tense, its like after i asked 2 sentences and then it stopped all the way until she alight. Cos i learn from u guys that if i speak to the girl and the girl did not reply to me, i just stay away and stop everything right?
I doubt she will wait at that bus stop tml. I guess we'll have another tense situation to face if i talk to her, cos she dun talk to me.
i gues she's just the very shy type of gal.. perhaps this is the 1st time for her and she doesnt know wat to do too..
just continue talking../ dont worry.. like i said.. things wont turn out as bad as u think... -
Another classical stupidity involving love.
Scared of rejections?
U face the possiblity of rejections everyday,be it gtting more $ from your parents,asking a friend for favor,not a big deal right?
So why is it a big issues when it come to girls?
Humans,cant they be more idiotic than this..?