why do people quarrel?

• Nadare

  24 Oct 07, 20:35

  ppl quarrel when they voice out their thinking , opinions and thoughts and the other party do not agree or think its wrong
  
• Yunhaier

  24 Oct 07, 22:18

  Originally posted by january:

  recently my family quarrel over marriage preparation stuff.
  
  just wondering, why do human beings quarrel and hate?
  humans are quite stupid and violent leh...
  
  

  You already said 'human being' - I think that answers everything?
  
  Cheers
• Frustrated_guy

  25 Oct 07, 16:33

  Marriage preparation can be an awfully stressful thing. It is never a couple's preparation when parents start to give their opinions and want this and that done. Each side really have to take care their side of the parents to prevent unnecessary stuff from spilling over.
  
  Also, it depends on the individual. If the person can accept that things are made the way they are without changing them, then peace. But if the person don't like what they see, and want everything to be reshaped to what they want and don't get it, then conflict arises.
• queen0ftiara

  31 Oct 07, 03:55

  Becus human always want to defend demself n be correct. Maybe...?
  Ask god lorh.
• y33bas

  2 Nov 07, 14:06

  argument is healthy as long as it is resolved and does not resort to a fight. Over the years so many wars have been fought but so little talk. Its all about ego..