What to do?
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haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her? -
goddamit from the first sentence i can tell where you messed up. its where everyone messes up! u DONT confess, u ask her out. doesnt have to be a date, could just to have lunch maybe with some other people as well.
u dont just go up to a girl and say 'yeah i think ure really hot and i might be in love with u' coz thats just weird. -
brotha, i got the same prob as you, only diff is that i confessed to her about 2 years ago, but theres some lingering feelings.
she doesnt shun me at all, she would chat with me if i talked to her on msn or msg-ing, its things like these which kept me from making any progress in distancing myself from her. im also taking my o's now, but it doesnt affect me much.
dont think too much, one guy i know cut himself just because he see the girl he like with another guy -
Gather some friends and study together. At least when you're not alone, you won't think about it as much....
Or... if you think it's worth it to flunk your national examinations and risk your future because of someone who doesn't want you, by all means...
Anyway ah, she might just be too embarrassed to talk to you lah.
Relax, cheer up, watch a comedy, talk to somebody, then study!
All the best for your exams... be strong! -
Come on, I doubt your future depends on a bunch of exams. You're only in Sec 4 don't worry about it.Originally posted by MooKu:Gather some friends and study together. At least when you're not alone, you won't think about it as much....
Or... if you think it's worth it to flunk your national examinations and risk your future because of someone who doesn't want you, by all means...
Anyway ah, she might just be too embarrassed to talk to you lah.
Relax, cheer up, watch a comedy, talk to somebody, then study!
All the best for your exams... be strong! -
how to not think too much... i've been trying. group studies. but i just stare at the book and think of her...
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then study with good friends lah. it helps alot when your in good company and fool around, it just takes your mind off everything
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ya...including studying for o lvls...Originally posted by thehappybunny:then study with good friends lah. it helps alot when your in good company and fool around, it just takes your mind off everything -
concentrate on ur exams... no use flunking ur exams cos of a girl.. its not worth it
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think everyday WHAT will happen if you fail....
if u fail, u will retake your o'level.
you waste one year retaking ur o'level while the girl and your friends are happily doing their own things somewhere.
Ur parents will be disappointed.
You will feel disappointed.
Let say if you don't do well for O'level.
You study something that you don't like. STUCk.
Feel lost.. unmotivated.
Imagine what will happen down the road in 5 years if you don't well for your o'level?
This method is called freaking yourself out to score.
Then imagine what will happen if you do well for your o'level.
You will feel good about urself.
Study a course that you enjoy.
Self-recognition. -
T.T even if i dont study also can get 20 points... not to hao lian but ya... and there's no where i wanna go, and got no idea what courses i wanna take. like no preference.Originally posted by Isis:think everyday WHAT will happen if you fail....
if u fail, u will retake your o'level.
you waste one year retaking ur o'level while the girl and your friends are happily doing their own things somewhere.
Ur parents will be disappointed.
You will feel disappointed.
Let say if you don't do well for O'level.
You study something that you don't like. STUCk.
Feel lost.. unmotivated.
Imagine what will happen down the road in 5 years if you don't well for your o'level?
This method is called freaking yourself out to score.
Then imagine what will happen if you do well for your o'level.
You will feel good about urself.
Study a course that you enjoy.
Self-recognition. -
u very sure? Don't be so kau lan can. I typed so much then u tell me tis
Then don't study lah, go dream and be bothered by the girl and continue to live in ur dream. Then when reality knock knock, then it will be too late to wake up liao.
And the points u got is fixed hor, no turning back even if u want. When u got higher points, at least u have more choices when u change ur mind. -
if its so bad, tahan the next few weeks until O level over, then do whatever you want to go after her, but dont be too persistent
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Btw, its too late to salvage what little of a relationship you've had with her. Just leave her alone for 6 months or something and then start talking to her again see what happens.
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Originally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her?
If she remained friendly to you, she will be accused of giving you hope.
P.S: Rejecting is as xuete as being rejected.
Cheers -
Very simple, don't waste your time on her again. Arghh...what a patronising girl like so many of them. She doesn't even want to patronise you.Originally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her?
If someone doesn't even want to talk to you, don't talk to her again.
Simple as that.
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wa... u better pray u pass... exams period now so better concentrate... love can wait... u fail she will b laughing at u tinking"wa heng i reject tis guy wif no future".. u dun wan to end up like tat then better study hard n impress the ppl arnd...Originally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her? -
i know how its like.. so painful that u forgot many important thigns around u..
but, game is over la...let it go.. thta gal is no good for u.,, find other gal..its better than she cheated on u and play ur feeling ma.. Be a man, focus ur study,, when u get all A's, all A's gal will find u, then u slowly slowly choose the right one -
o level fail?
theres always a chance to retake.
wad a lousy time to fall in love with the wrong person
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wah only sec 4...u'll find better girls when u get older.Originally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her? -
The same old crap.. the same type of people.. I'm bored by this.
Love is just chemicals. It's an imbalance of chemicals. The primal need to find a mate. Essentially we're all animals.
Grow up, get rich, do some good, then die. Forget about falling in love, there are better things to do then feeling miserable about unreciprocrated love. -
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study for exam!
ok, if u cannot study becuse of her..
then u can think it in this ways,
if u study , pass the exams , there is a better future
when there is a better future, there is a high chance of a better future with her
heehee! u still think of her, but it movitate u to study harder for her!
isn't it solving ur problem!
jia you! after exams! u can things of her everyday!
now focus on your exams.
cannot study , put her photo in front of the book and try study!
jia you! get good result!
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16 , 17 years old could be puppy love. No worries, will fade away after some time. Infatutation, aiyah - I experienced before. Part of growing up.
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some gals are like that de...hmm...if she always give u those type of replies...my advice is dun even be bothered to talk to her anymore...it may be tough for u...but actually it is less hurtful to u overall...u really think she would treat u better after sometime? I believe not...even if she did, i think most prob would just be a one-off only...Originally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her?
hmm...does she always chat up new friends? I do know some gals treat new friends much better than old ones...after she tires of u...then she will give u those attitude u talking about...trust me, it wont change...
this may be very tough for u...but really the only rational choice for u...anyway, do u realize that if ur mood depends on how she treats u, u are really putting urself at her mercy? please dun...what u can do for urself is to study as well as u could...keep urself busy...try not to look at her or her sms or anything to do with her...as time goes by, u will soon forget abt her...
its impt that u put all ur energies into ur o levels right now...u aiming for poly or jc? always keep ur goal in mind and tell urself u must persevere. Good luck!
actually my exams also coming soon...haha