What to do?
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BTW hor...how many times u try to start a conversation with her? If u try too many times she may not dao u or give u those kinda replies u know. she may simply say u r stalking her u know...dun demean urself...Originally posted by kct360:and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
i thought i read in this forum before that if u continue trying in this way no use de...conversely, if u pretend to treat her as invisible, she may think that u are worth her attention really...but if really like that...really worth playing all these games ma...dun let all these bother u...
it maybe her way of telling u she doesnt want to talk to u...nobody's at fault...just dun talk to her anymore...
U r still young...i believe u will meet more suitable girls in poly or/and uni de... -
Agreed!Originally posted by dokono:Very simple, don't waste your time on her again. Arghh...what a patronising girl like so many of them. She doesn't even want to patronise you.
If someone doesn't even want to talk to you, don't talk to her again.
Simple as that.
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You are only suffering yourself, some of us gal are very proud of ourselves, very dao dao, u must understand that some gal character is like this, try to think of other think and forget about her. You should actually think that you are glad that you never take her, if not you may have to suffer for the rest of your life under her dao dao control ya. So, you are actually saved ok.
By the way, i am not those proud dao dao gal ya. -
i didnt say that.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:u dont just go up to a girl and say 'yeah i think ure really hot and i might be in love with u' coz thats just weird.
and we'll be in different jcs by then and it'll be much harder to get to contact her.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Btw, its too late to salvage what little of a relationship you've had with her. Just leave her alone for 6 months or something and then start talking to her again see what happens.
what's xueteOriginally posted by Yunhaier:
If she remained friendly to you, she will be accused of giving you hope.
P.S: Rejecting is as xuete as being rejected.
Cheers
i know it may not ever be possible for us to be together, but what i wan is to at least be her friend. and why is she like say one thing and do another... good luck too.Originally posted by teddybear10:some gals are like that de...hmm...if she always give u those type of replies...my advice is dun even be bothered to talk to her anymore...it may be tough for u...but actually it is less hurtful to u overall...u really think she would treat u better after sometime? I believe not...even if she did, i think most prob would just be a one-off only...
hmm...does she always chat up new friends? I do know some gals treat new friends much better than old ones...after she tires of u...then she will give u those attitude u talking about...trust me, it wont change...
this may be very tough for u...but really the only rational choice for u...anyway, do u realize that if ur mood depends on how she treats u, u are really putting urself at her mercy? please dun...what u can do for urself is to study as well as u could...keep urself busy...try not to look at her or her sms or anything to do with her...as time goes by, u will soon forget abt her...
its impt that u put all ur energies into ur o levels right now...u aiming for poly or jc? always keep ur goal in mind and tell urself u must persevere. Good luck!
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ntgetting over is a thing. NT GETTING OVER HER DURING UR coming OS?! R U MAD. WAKKEY WAKKEYY!! i have no idea hw u can put it aside. but hurry talk to her m get it solve den get it over with. N STUDY!!
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she is not worth your time. she wants to be friends yet give you cold shoulder.
studying now is what u shld be doing. (me also, lol) -
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screw the 5 min crewfew. -
This girl is definitely not worth your time.
Sibei not sincere.
Be smart, don't go deeper into it or you will be hurt more since she isn't intented to be your friend. Anyone can also be my friend but not everyone will take me seriously, get it bo ? -
maybe she is playing hard to get. Anyway i also don't think she worth your time, energy and your emotion.Originally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
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friends do move on from time to time...while i was working in this place, i have this friend who used to be very close to me...i really thought we could be friends forever and we had a lot of fun together also...however, later i had to go...and this particular friend started to drift away from me...always telling me very bz..no time to talk...but i do know that this particular friend chats up with new friends and consistently laugh and smile away at new friends next to me...at the same time telling me all the busyness and said a lot of hurtful things to me all the time i tried to talk to this person...hmm...could really tell the person is not listening le...and it has nothing to do with busyness or anything......but i hang on to the friendship due to old times sake, always believing this person still treats me as a friend...but the longer i tried to do that...the more hurtful it is...Originally posted by kct360:and we'll be in different jcs by then and it'll be much harder to get to contact her.
BTW, this person did told me that we could have a dinner when time can, that was several months ago...but i also know the dinner will never happen...if i reminded that person, i would receive a scolding, if i didnt that person would say bz, forget...just that the person likes to keep people guessing and let them wait forever lo...
if ur friendship is dependent on u being classmates or colleagues with her...
then this friendship is worthless...i do have some old classmates whom i have kept in contact for over 10 years...while we only meetup about say 1-2 times a year...hmm...i think lesser than that, but anyway, i was always happy whenever i see them...i think this sort of friendship better la...
what u can do for urself is to live well...go to the top jcs and uni...and fulfill ur career aspirations...if fate so degrees, u will meet her again...but by then i believe u would have found a much better gal liao...Take care -
hais. she even blocked me on msn now...
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Study man Study -.-~~~since she blocked u jus take it as a chance to recover and study...~~ u later retain don regret it..jus 2 more weeks and its all over
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i think the only wrong thing u did was to confess 1 month before the o's lol.
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judging from ur post, MOVE ON dun be STUPIDOriginally posted by kct360:haiz. there was this girl that i confessed to like 1 month+ ago and was rejected. now i still cant get over her. everytime i see her i'll still feel the pain. i tried to get away from her, but everytime i do that, i feel like seeing her again. i dont know why..
and i dont understand girls...she said lets be friends..and when i try to start a conversation with her, she always dao me or give me those kinda i-dont-wanna-talk-to-you replies. haiz. is that what you do to your friend?
and the worst thing is that it's o lvls now. and i cant concentrate on anything. i've taken my a maths and chem without studying anything. even during the exams, i was still thinking of her...
what to do? how to concentrate on o lvls? how to stop thinking of her?
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alot of whinners here recently.
If u cant do anything,then just forget her,suck it and forget everything.
Whaht do u want to acheive by brooding over such petty provocation?