To accept this girl or not?

• dbowie

  25 Oct 07, 23:58

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  In a veri short period of time..
  i didnt know her veri veri well..
  jus dat sometimes when someone says she loves u alot
  i doubt whether theres any truth in it..

  re-consideration is much sought after.
  u try getting closer and see if she will remain the same
• magical_wen

  25 Oct 07, 23:58

  Originally posted by UandMe:

  virgin or not, nine bfs at 16 does seem like u wouldn't last long with her also...

  ya...i actually told her dat..but she said
  previously is all the guys who dumped her..
• TrixCereals

  25 Oct 07, 23:59

  Originally posted by spadeTwo:

  nope, im reading TS's blog. and ts blog got alot link to chio boos.
  but but but, i wana know is who.

  Look at the first link, the wording like different leh.
• spadeTwo

  25 Oct 07, 23:59

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  ya...i actually told her dat..but she said
  previously is all the guys who dumped her..

  aiya, just accept her and see how it goes okay? bei song, break. period.
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  26 Oct 07, 00:04

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  In a veri short period of time..
  i didnt know her veri veri well..
  jus dat sometimes when someone says she loves u alot
  i doubt whether theres any truth in it..

  the phrase i love you is overrated my bro. love is rather a form of showing rather than just saying it out. i think time is the best way to see if sparks fly between you both. i know she had 9 ex but relationship is about 2ppl she has a part to play in those past relationships. maybe she rushed into them? the consequences might be that you might even lose her as a friend if you and her rush into one
• Sagara

  26 Oct 07, 00:07

  its gd that she's honest.
  
  better than lie to you right ?
• magical_wen

  26 Oct 07, 00:10

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  the phrase i love you is overrated my bro. love is rather a form of showing rather than just saying it out. i think time is the best way to see if sparks fly between you both. i know she had 9 ex but relationship is about 2ppl she has a part to play in those past relationships. maybe she rushed into them? the consequences might be that you might even lose her as a friend

  i dunno man..
  dunno wan to accept her past anot..
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  26 Oct 07, 00:11

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  i dunno man..
  dunno wan to accept her past anot..

  dunno = unsure = need to think = need more time = time will tell
• magical_wen

  26 Oct 07, 00:13

  Originally posted by TrixCereals:

  Look at the first link, the wording like different leh.

  huh??
  dat one my fren lar..
  aiyo..
• magical_wen

  26 Oct 07, 00:14

  guys..
  she has no blog...
  dun bother checking..
  hahas...
  pls..
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  26 Oct 07, 00:16

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  guys..
  she has no blog...
  dun bother checking..
  hahas...
  pls..

  pardon. me this oldbie never teach them well. i rhk them later
• dbowie

  26 Oct 07, 00:16

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  guys..
  she has no blog...
  dun bother checking..
  hahas...
  pls..

  
• spadeTwo

  26 Oct 07, 00:17

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  guys..
  she has no blog...
  dun bother checking..
  hahas...
  pls..

  but but but.... but but but........
  there is got ur profile worrs....
• magical_wen

  26 Oct 07, 00:18

  Originally posted by spadeTwo:

  but but but.... but but but........
  there is got ur profile worrs....

  My profile?
  hahas...
  haiz..
  my life in a mess...
• spadeTwo

  26 Oct 07, 00:19

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  pardon. me this oldbie never teach them well. i rhk them later

  u chemical thingy, i use CuSO4 as 1 of the ingredients to dye my hair 1 leh !
• Yunhaier

  26 Oct 07, 00:40

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  Hey guys,
  ask u ah..
  will u accept a girl ,16, who is no longer a virgin (done 3 times)?
  will u be able to trust someone who dun even respect herself?
  

  There is two distinctive notions in your topic and I would like to reframe it for you:
  
  I) Would you accept a girl who isn't a virgin?
  
  II) Would you accept a girl who has history of short-lived relationship/flings?
  
  Don't bother about lecturing morals of what you think is right or wrong - the main concern here is that moving forward: what will be your course of action?
  
  You already mentioned that you don't really know her very well before coming together - which probably implied that love probably never existed in the first place. Surely with that revelation, you will be shaken with doubts because with that little liking you have for her, would you seriously think that it's substantial enough for you to accept a 'flawed good' as painted in your perception?
  
  Only love is able to accept - anything else will fail utterly, no matter how you want to position your mindset.
  
  If you are even questioning yourself about your decision to remain with her - I suggest you should just drop the relationship. If you cannot appreciate a woman beyond her physical component - don't worry because someone else would.
  
  Release her then.
  
  Cheers
• tinuviel07

  26 Oct 07, 00:58

  you must ask means you don't accept le ma.. still need ask meh?
  
  if you love the person enough, you will overlook it. so you don't love her enough, yet..
• ghimpheng

  26 Oct 07, 06:06

  Personally No way
  
  I rather being single than being with such a girl
• ChipMDale

  26 Oct 07, 10:20

  Good said yuhaier.
  
  When u love someone so madly... Things like this is invisible to u...
  I dun think you head will have the time to care abt such thing...
  What come to u is that... from now on, will u be the one to make her happy, or will u be the the 10 guy that he will tell the next guy he have feeling for.
  
  So ask yourself how much are you really in love with her..
  
  hmm try this
  
  take a piece of paper and draw a line on the center, and write abt the different of accepting and not accepting....
  
  
• de_middle

  26 Oct 07, 10:24

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  I like her personality..
  but I didnt expect her telling me all dat..
  it made my opinion on her change
  and..its with 3 others..
  

  3 times with 3 different pple.....very unlikely
  
  only once per person.....highly unlikely
  
  u say she truthful anot
• Nikar2

  26 Oct 07, 11:15

  (magical)
  

  will u accept a girl ,16, who is no longer a virgin (done 3 times)?

  in that case, complete her and make the number 4 times.
• hisoka

  26 Oct 07, 11:18

  Originally posted by magical_wen:

  Hey guys,
  ask u ah..
  will u accept a girl ,16, who is no longer a virgin (done 3 times)?
  will u be able to trust someone who dun even respect herself?
  

  erm how she done it?
  
  go for it lor, shes being honest with you what.
  
  + if you are the kind, it means you can get some also?
• dumbdumb!

  26 Oct 07, 11:54

  hmm, if she told you the truth about her past.. it means she loves you and trusts you with her secret and shame.
  
  she didn't want to hide it from you.
  
  i think she might be genuine. no one can fault you if you can't accept her. but if you do accept her, would you treat her better than the others in this area? that's the interesting point.
• hisoka

  26 Oct 07, 11:57

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  hmm, if she told you the truth about her past.. it means she loves you and trusts you with her secret and shame.
  
  she didn't want to hide it from you.
  
  i think she might be genuine. no one can fault you if you can't accept her. but if you do accept her, would you treat her better than the others in this area? that's the interesting point.

  on the other hand, tot he girl doing it is nothign great
• choco B

  26 Oct 07, 11:59

  You have no choice. If you CANNOT accept (as shown obviously by what you post) , you simply cannot! There is no try to, or force to accept. Give up lah.