To accept this girl or not?
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haha, i nv really read everything in this postOriginally posted by hisoka:on the other hand, tot he girl doing it is nothign great
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Please dun encourage him to do itOriginally posted by hisoka:erm how she done it?
go for it lor, shes being honest with you what.
+ if you are the kind, it means you can get some also?
What if kenna Aids who want to be responsible -
aiyah...
just accept lah...
u 19yo liao...
really wana keep ur virginity til u get married ah?
i alr forgot wat is virgin alr leh...
i tot nowadays it's cool to lose it at a young age?
n btw, u 19 shld b in poly, y dun wana find poly mei mei?
go find sec sch mei mei??? -
Originally posted by JerryYan:Please dun encourage him to do it
What if kenna Aids who want to be responsible
aids?!?!
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Got AIDS a notOriginally posted by Nikar2:(magical)
in that case, complete her and make the number 4 times. -
Better give up bah or else nx time u n her will suffer
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Haha Never bother to read all previous post.
My advice here is
Since u are all in a process of growing up, if u cant make a definate decisions now, make it next time. Do not rush and make a decisions which u will regret forever. To accept her or no in final its still ur decisions. No one here can decide for u. follow ur heart. Love and sex, difficult to be define and complicated. But once u have accepted the girl, u must love her true heartedly and forget about her flaws. If now even before u have accepted her u can't accept her flaws then next time there will be more complication.
So decision is still urs. Good Luck -
Why ask us if you have already made up your mind?
Are you trying to garner support to make it valid for not accepting her? You don't need that, trust me! Even if all the forumers ask you to accept her, you won't do that at the end of the day!
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How committed is she to a relationship? the way i see it, she gets into it for a quick ride and then moves on. you could be her 4th ride, for all you know.
maybe you are very serious about a relationship, but it doesnt always apply to the other party. also, how long have you known her already? -
erm... ate the forbidden fruit = dun respect herself?
the world has changed.. nowadays 9 yr old kids also can become parents..
sometimes it's the spur of the moment.. or she was foolish enough to give to those guys lor..
i think this is really up to individual.. if u cannot accept it, then no point being together. -
If you mind so much, then don't be with her but then come to think, there aren't much virgin around for you to choose from.
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hey man, don post your blog or email here.. if not later that girl saw it and know who u areOriginally posted by magical_wen:Hey guys,
ask u ah..
will u accept a girl ,16, who is no longer a virgin (done 3 times)?
will u be able to trust someone who dun even respect herself?
if u really like her i think the virgin thing is not really that impt? -
i'd be more concern with disease than the state of virginity
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Guys or Girls, should have protected sex before marriage then u do not have to worry about the other complication.
And i want to add: Usually it is guys who want the girls to have sex with them and not the girls. Losing V does not equivalent to no morality and mean she has no respect for her own body.
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to me , 16 years old you tell me you true love i PUI! Girls at this age cannot even make decision for herself and the only thing that comes to the girl mind is always to have someone beside her , so she won feel lonely . And worst thing is whenever temptation comes , shes always ready to spread her legs to other man .
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40 years old ah man and uncle also spread legs lor.
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Why you sound so cheapskateOriginally posted by Isis:40 years old ah man and uncle also spread legs lor.
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agreed. if she has the correct mindset, why nt give her a chance? given the "openess" of today's society, even though our parents kpkb say keep ur virginity till marriage, quite a few of today's teenagers already had sex with their partners already.Originally posted by LOL @ SGF KIA:LOLOLOL why do you people sound so narrow-minded here. BUAY TAHAN MAN.
If you mother had two different sex partners in her life, would you want to disown her? As long as the girl has a correct mindset and that's all it matters. LOLOLOL @ YOU ALL.
u like her personality? is she those bitchy, slutty type who always filrt arnd? if she doesnt, den why nt accept her and give her a chance? -
anyway, you are 19 and she is 16. age differences at this age is considered a major factor, given dat the kind of frenz u all make is different and mindset is quite different.
i suggest you concentrate more on ur studies first, rather den going after this girl. -
skip her
She's in a totally different league and caste. -
somehow it sounds true..Originally posted by wyz:to me , 16 years old you tell me you true love i PUI! Girls at this age cannot even make decision for herself and the only thing that comes to the girl mind is always to have someone beside her , so she won feel lonely . And worst thing is whenever temptation comes , shes always ready to spread her legs to other man . -
you should ask about her circumstances. Did she get raped? drugged? cheated?
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If it bothers you...it already shows you have doubt...
Accept her for who she is if you really love her...
Somethings are the past....if you feel that it bothers you...whats the point of being in a relationship with her?