i wanna know if this is true about guys...
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losers wait
winners take -
i know there are many nice guys out there.
U just gotta go out there and grab it. Its a risk whether u are man enough to accept the challenge or not. Like in business , in work , in studies.. research hell.. everything. No man that has gained with doing nothing.
The greatest risk is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing , does nothing , has nothing , is nothing and becomes nothing. -
I think there is rather bullsh!t with the part "wishing" something magical will happen - perhaps it will be the disappearing act in the end.
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Great insight. Thanks.Originally posted by SoulDivine:As long as you have doubt about -> whether what you want is really what you wanted, you will never aggressive pursues it.
So in my opinion, the best thing to do when in such situation is to gradually increase your knowledge, thus decreasing your doubts.
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I feel that you will attract different girls depending on what type of guy you are.
So many posts already on girls being materialistic and not the family type, go for looks and money.
Well basically I think there are 2 types of girls.
First type are the open minded modern type. I mean if you sit back and keep quiet and hope and hope that the girl makes the first move. Most probably you are going to end up with this type of girl. So don't complain that the girl only looks for money and is materialistic when you find that things don't work out. But on the other hand, if you are looking for a partner tat is independent and can earn her own keeps, then this type very suitable for you. Just don't expect her to be submissive and give in to you because its equality of the sexes.
Second type are the quieter type. Not necessarily shy but who still feel that guys should make the first move. Meaning that if you don't make the effort to make the first move you will never get this kind of girl since she also won't say anything even if she loves you to bits. This type of girl probably expects more out of you because "you are the guy". But at the same time she will prob also do more things for you because "she is the girl". Of cos this kind of girls also may not suit everyone because she may not be very independent and will rely on you.
I don't think nice guys finish last. Maybe they are not always noticed first and are often overlooked. But I do believe that the nice guys (though may wait a bit longer) will end up with a nice partner. Persistance will eventually though the girl's heart. (not stalker kind of persistance.....that kind will win CID heart) -
Yeah man... don't put the cheesepies on the pedestal.
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Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Read this off a blog. Guys especially, do give me your precious opinions.
A lot of guys mentioned that there are good guys out there and they are often overlooked. Though that may be true, I think it's partially because good guys just don't go after things they like/want. They "respect" the person and hope that the person is attracted to them for who they are and then miraculously, something will happen between the two. I know how it is... I've been there and even now, things are still like that for me. I'm just not someone who aggressively pursues because I want a girl to like me for me.
True, some guys are like that
Not True, some guys are not like that. -
that's why govt's starting to worryOriginally posted by eagle:wait wait wait wait
good for health and patience. -
I guess sincerity plays the major part here.. you can be a good guy and still chat up girls, make friends, and if it works out, then everything goes from there.. similarly a bad guy can wait wait wait for the dumb girl to suay suay go chat him up too lol.. so of course that blog statement is not very accurate.. note: when i say chat up, there are many forms of chatting up too..from daily chats between male-female friends, to one-off between strangers.. its really quite easy to see the sincerity of a guy, whether he's after your heart or between your legs..
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kinda true.. applie to me
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i agree with what the first post says, totally.
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great posts by everyone.
somehow there is some truth in wad the blogger says.. -
i think there is some truth in wad the blogger is saying too..
i think if you heard the song "the rose" by westlife..
Some say love
It is a hunger
An endless aching need
I say love
It is a flower
And you-it's only seed
It's the heart
Afraid of breaking
That never learns to dance
It's the dream
Afraid of waking
That never takes the chance
It's the one
Who won't be taken
Who cannot seem to give
And the soul
Afraid of dying
That never learns to live
When the night has been too lonely
And the road has been too long
And you think that love is only
For the lucky and the strong
Just remember
In the winter
Far beneath the bitter snow
Lies the seed
That with the sun's love
In the spring
Becomes the rose
i think there are really many nice guys AND GIRLS out there who are overlooked.. -
What utter rubbish - one thing's got bugger-all to do wirth the other.
Sure, you've got the arsehole who will barge in and try to grab what he wants. On the other hand, someone who is decisive enough to go for what he wants is equally likely to be the one standing there holding the fort when the chips are down.
Then again, you've got the wispy, Bambi-eyed nice guy who's going to sit around and wish for the world to give him what he wants even though he hasn't actually gone and done anything to earn it, and you've also got the sleazy scumbags who sit around and grab the nearest prey stupid enough to come their way.
There's sweet FA in that theory. -
Good guys don't have the habit of actively pursue? Generalize here leh. I think it more of having no gut to chase the girl then being nice. Good or bad guy, we all want someone to love us for who we are and slowly grow into maturity love.
If you don't do something to seek union, then there meant to be will never materialize and it is just too bad~ -
it's totally true. i've met a lot of them.
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YA KINDA TRUEOriginally posted by BadzMaro:i know there are many nice guys out there.
U just gotta go out there and grab it. Its a risk whether u are man enough to accept the challenge or not. Like in business , in work , in studies.. research hell.. everything. No man that has gained with doing nothing.
The greatest risk is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing , does nothing , has nothing , is nothing and becomes nothing.
Chio Bu -- High Risk investment, can have high return but big loss too
Average Bu -- Medium Risk Investment, average risk and average return
Kong Long -- Low Risk Investment, low risk and low return
Are u risk averse or risk neutral?
Guys must be willing to take risk otherwise no return lol -
That's what the "laws in Singapore Educate us."Originally posted by BadzMaro:i know there are many nice guys out there.
U just gotta go out there and grab it. Its a risk whether u are man enough to accept the challenge or not. Like in business , in work , in studies.. research hell.. everything. No man that has gained with doing nothing.
The greatest risk is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing , does nothing , has nothing , is nothing and becomes nothing.
Ok Lor ! -
i think a lot of nice decent guys in sg are just shy...
i admit i am quite shy as well...i cannot just approach a girl i dunno to get to know her -
uhm
i think i know the blogger
R*****d lee ~ aka jigg ?
his blog i think damn wordy. ~
ok lah, is i google de ~