Hmmmmmmz haha if her friend can know about it maybe she discusses about you with them.. soo might be more than just using you ba. Maybe be more trusting and don't think about "making use"?Originally posted by bill89:I not sure where to start from .
Ok . She use to be in the same secondary school as me , though different class , but i use to be from badminton team and she use to be from table tennis . And our training day are the same and we often disturb each other . Sometime we even walk home together .
After secondary school , She study in MI , and i get into Poly . After which we rarely contact each other much .
Suddenly , this year , she like keep asking me to meet up for breakfast before school start .
Sometime , when late in the night , she will just call me to ask to go down bus stop to fetch her home as she stay quite close to me .
Then sometime , is like she will suddenly call me ask if i want to have lunch with her or if i free to find her cause she meeting her frenz like 3-4hr later .
Recently , i just gotten my driving license , then is like she sometime ask me if i free , can i fetch her to school .
So i was like kinda confused . Not sure if she like me or if she is just trying to make use of me . Cause one of her close frenz was like trying to hint to me why nowaday nv talk to her when i merely didnt sms her for 1week due to over-exhausted from meeting after meeting in school ...
Hope your can help me out . Thanks .
Oh haha you didn't mention you like her too.Originally posted by bill89:I see . But i not sure if i should let her know that i like her too .
Although i know that her parent are strict as she has to be home everyday by 6pm even though she 18 . but i am alright with that .
too scare to take the first step as have been too many failure
Haha then why do you still say you like her? Why you wanna forget?Originally posted by bill89:the problem is i dont want to contact her is because i want to try to forget her ...
but when ever she try to contact me , my heart itchy again ...
Haha..realli ar? But since you all got so much opportunities to go out together sure can talk properly de mah... Anyway the best thing you can do for now just enjoy her company as a friend. Then ask yourself whether you really wanna be close to her and maybe you can also see whether she wants to be more than just friends right?Originally posted by bill89:Ok . Thanks for the help . Now i know the one that have problem is me .
cause sometime whenever i message her , she always too busy or she reply with 1 or 2 words only .. so sometime i dont really know how to talk to her![]()
hey! wake up wake up.... there is no difference!Originally posted by bill89:I not sure where to start from .
Ok . She use to be in the same secondary school as me , though different class , but i use to be from badminton team and she use to be from table tennis . And our training day are the same and we often disturb each other . Sometime we even walk home together .
After secondary school , She study in MI , and i get into Poly . After which we rarely contact each other much .
Suddenly , this year , she like keep asking me to meet up for breakfast before school start .
Sometime , when late in the night , she will just call me to ask to go down bus stop to fetch her home as she stay quite close to me .
Then sometime , is like she will suddenly call me ask if i want to have lunch with her or if i free to find her cause she meeting her frenz like 3-4hr later .
Recently , i just gotten my driving license , then is like she sometime ask me if i free , can i fetch her to school .
So i was like kinda confused . Not sure if she like me or if she is just trying to make use of me . Cause one of her close frenz was like trying to hint to me why nowaday nv talk to her when i merely didnt sms her for 1week due to over-exhausted from meeting after meeting in school ...
Hope your can help me out . Thanks .
i think that alone gives us the answerOriginally posted by bill89:Ok . Thanks for the help . Now i know the one that have problem is me .
cause sometime whenever i message her , she always too busy or she reply with 1 or 2 words only .. so sometime i dont really know how to talk to her![]()
true, i agree. if you think she is making use of you, then stop contacting her. She never force you to do those "making use of you" stuffs. but 1 thing for sure, if you think this way, your life will be miserable. Cause your guess too much.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:hey! wake up wake up.... there is no difference!
Love is making use of each other
Love is to satisfy each others' needs.
Love is give... yes give....
and take... yes take....
aiya be more organise la.Originally posted by bill89:i just afraid that i dont have enough time for her only . Cause i have to many things happening in school ... as i am the main committee of my school Union...