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Give her time to degenerate into her baser primal instincts.. She will take advantage of you and summon you like a servant..
Everything's conditional, there's no good people in the world, it's just that the conditions make it mutually advantageous to both parties. -
That's why its called Aunt Agony forum mah! hahaOriginally posted by boka:OK WE GET YOUR POINT!
It seems like this forum has become some whinehouse whatsoever!
U guys have any SAD STORIES OR REGRETS,JUST BROWSE THE PAST THREAD AND READ THE ADVICES!
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Originally posted by kenny8787:
Bravo for these quotes! Brilliant!
i differ.
because i know this time i really like her, maybe even more then like. Different from the past.
I respect myself and the girl, i dont like someone for the sake of liking someone.
Actually its very simple. I like a person, and its not easy to stop thinking. I am not playing game or whatever, if i stopped just like that, it means that i am not being serious, which i am, and i am not respecting her, nor myself.
Would you simply walk out of the house if your mum says she wants to disown you?
As for the comparision to gambling, i really see no justified link to love or liking, unless u're saying that any girl u also can hantam or tikum to see if she will reciprocate?
Then my advice would be the above quote by kenny 8787. How can feelings be lined akin to tabletop gamble? -
That is why we are human beansOriginally posted by boka:Whether u are serious or not is not the issue here.
The issue is why are humans strange beings?
why would they walk out of a casino room when they are constantly losing yet in the pursue of a gal,not? -
any girl can verify?Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:lol big mistake. if u like her and want to have any chance of scoring with her u shouldnt confess. girls who have guys after them all the time are interested when guys seemingly AREN'T interested in them. hard to explain complex workings of female mind but yeah im sure many girls can verify that.
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ic.. this is sad.. but what can u do ?
Accept the rejection ? or waiting a 2nd chance?
Game is over.. if she really likes u, she would have agree.. but she;'s not.. thats the fact.. move on, who knows u might see a better gal ?
Cheer up man, this is only a very small part of your life... u cant win or get anything u want in your life.. its not that perfect -
i just now,, she might be lying by saying she wan to concentrate on studies or watever shyt..
This study and dont wanan think of any r/s is a common excuses used by gals to reject guy la..
she really say she wan to study ? well, watch her, and u will know if im right or wrong? U may kill her if suddenly u see her hugging a guy.. Just watch. -
thanks alot, but i still feel shitty from that...Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Bravo for these quotes! Brilliant!
As for the comparision to gambling, i really see no justified link to love or liking, unless u're saying that any girl u also can hantam or tikum to see if she will reciprocate?
Then my advice would be the above quote by kenny 8787. How can feelings be lined akin to tabletop gamble? -
U don't get the point being driven do u?Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Bravo for these quotes! Brilliant!
As for the comparision to gambling, i really see no justified link to love or liking, unless u're saying that any girl u also can hantam or tikum to see if she will reciprocate?
Then my advice would be the above quote by kenny 8787. How can feelings be lined akin to tabletop gamble?
I'm saying that when we constantly lose money in a casino,or having our effort going down the drain in any scenario in most case,we either give up and forget it in a snap of a finger.
So similarly in his case,he isn't faring well so why cant he just give up just like any other scenario which he face in his life?
Is it human stupidity?
Why is this classical stupidity always present in love and such?
What is so difficult to forget in a snap of your fingers?
when u constantly lose $ in a casino,u just give up and leave the casino right?
so why cant the same be done when your not faring well in the pursue of a girl.
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Aiyoh this you also dunno?Originally posted by boka:U don't get the point being driven do u?
I'm saying that when we constantly lose money in a casino,or having our effort going down the drain in any scenario in most case,we either give up and forget it in a snap of a finger.
So similarly in his case,he isn't faring well so why cant he just give up just like any other scenario which he face in his life?
Is it human stupidity?
Why is this classical stupidity always present in love and such?
What is so difficult to forget in a snap of your fingers?
when u constantly lose $ in a casino,u just give up and leave the casino right?
so why cant the same be done when your not faring well in the pursue of a girl.
What is so difficult? Let me anwer lor.
Even though in both cases there's no prospect, when you are losing money you can see the loss in capital mah. Then you would wanna withdraw so you don't end up bankrupt.
On the other hand, when you get rejected over and over , you can only feel hurt but you don't see your soul slowly dying inside. You will feel like there's nothing to lose, and even hope that you will be rewarded with your sacrifices! -
Douglas YatesOriginally posted by boka:U don't get the point being driven do u?
I'm saying that when we constantly lose money in a casino,or having our effort going down the drain in any scenario in most case,we either give up and forget it in a snap of a finger.
So similarly in his case,he isn't faring well so why cant he just give up just like any other scenario which he face in his life?
Is it human stupidity?
Why is this classical stupidity always present in love and such?
What is so difficult to forget in a snap of your fingers?
when u constantly lose $ in a casino,u just give up and leave the casino right?
so why cant the same be done when your not faring well in the pursue of a girl.
What is so difficult?
People who are sensible about love are incapable of it. -
maybe she swings the other way.
and hey, i'm not being sarcastic-at least 40% of my girl friends are-well, not straight. -
I have 2 advices my friend.
Good advice: Forget about her.
Bad advice; Hit her.
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Originally posted by Perception:Yesterday would be a day which i cant forget in my life.
Sent X home after some event and on the way, I told her that I like her. I already anticipated that I would be rejected but yet I still choose to tell her.
Told her that I already expected that she would reject me but its just want to let her know about how I feel about it. Similarly, she let me know that she just want to concentrate on her studies first and not go into relationship and she treats everyone as her friends currently.
The thing that made me so attracted to her is probably her personality. She's so different from other girls in terms of attitude and behavior. Thats probably why she have so many suitors as well. And on top of that, she seemed to have rejected all of them in the past as well.
Heard from a friend that during the time when i sent her home, she was feeling abit sick from something she drank and would like to be alone when going home. My presence she said, kind of irritated her...
I am having mixed feeling about this incident. Firstly, I'm feeling quite happy that at least I've got the guts to tell her face to face. Secondly, I'm feeling abit saddened by her rejection, but at least from what I've know, she rejected other guys in the past as well. But the thing now is I do not know if I should continue waiting or just give up. She's a good girl from what I can see...
This is a closure, unless you tell yourself not to accept this fate.
P.S If you attempt to chase someone who have countless of suitors, if you do what the others are doing, you will just join in the rejection queue.
I will explain this with a marketing analogy:
If a company product has no USP and its brand position is no different from competitors, it will fail - for it gives customers no reason to, specifically, purchase its product.
Kudos for your courage to express your love; but you probably need better strategies in the future.
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hmmm.. lemme cite you an example.Originally posted by boka:U don't get the point being driven do u?
I'm saying that when we constantly lose money in a casino,or having our effort going down the drain in any scenario in most case,we either give up and forget it in a snap of a finger.
So similarly in his case,he isn't faring well so why cant he just give up just like any other scenario which he face in his life?
Is it human stupidity?
Why is this classical stupidity always present in love and such?
What is so difficult to forget in a snap of your fingers?
when u constantly lose $ in a casino,u just give up and leave the casino right?
so why cant the same be done when your not faring well in the pursue of a girl.
What is so difficult?
Girl A and Girl B. both are girls. but are different people.
you can't simply group love and money as one. whether you've gone through this situation before i don't know but one thing's for sure, you're probaly one hell of a strong person to be able to treat money and feelings the same.
imagine a rich man loses $1mil in the casino, moving on would be easy because he's able to earn back the money eventually.
so now.. imagine the rich man loses his wife. the wife will never come back mind you. its something lost forever. move on? yes that's perhaps the only choice he has but it wouldn't be easy would it? he would definately habour memories of them in the past.
as for TS, as mentioned by most people, move on. it doesn't matter if you move forward slowly, just don't remain stagnent or move backwards
being persistant might make her find you irritating worse still it might never reach her heart. move on friend
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*pats*
Think about getting girls like how you think about winning lottery. The more tickets you buy, the higher your chance, right?
Get good with a lot of girls, and there's a higher chance for you to get a gf XD
Obviously, make sure that the girls that you're working on are the type that you would like to date. Maybe even make friends with a couple that aren't exactly your type, to see what sort of girls like your sort of character.
Oh, and btw, the question above about casino.. and losing money, and walking away or something comparing it to losing a wife or something..
I think it's because.... well, let's think about women and money as goods. Then, money is a homogeneous good, ie. $1 is the same $1 no matter whose hands it is in. But a girl.. is not the same girl as any other girls out there. So.. what I suppose the point here is, that women, as a product, are non-homogeneous and are highly differentiated from each other. Although they do start clumping into different types.. but that's besides the point XD And that's why losing money is different from losing a girl. Money can be replaced, and it's the same money. It's not like.. the $1 you lost before was any different to the $1 you have now. Whereas, the girl you lost before, is different to the one you are pursuing/have now.
And there we go, for Finance 101 (Women and Money) XD -
TS
In the 1st place I think you not only know that you will be rejected but the actual basis also. It is not that you are totally rejected but that the other party just has other priorities. So STOP whinning. I think if you really love this person then you should also respect her decision and concentrate on your studies as well.
The fact that you are able to accompany her home also shows that you are not on her outcast list. And stop listening to what others are saying for her, it may not be what she actually said. Use your BRAIN ok, if you still have it?
Boko, I know the casinos are coming to SG ok? But for goodness and mind sake try not to make a gambling r/s into a BG r/s. WhAT an analogy? It is totally worlds apart. They say that we Men are from Mars already but I think you are like coming from Jupiter. (Sorry no offense). -
u got the guts to tell her
well done
she reject u , so move on with life
forget about her -
She wants to concentrate on her studies so she can get to University where there are older guys with better prospects lah!
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Usually, we tend to feel down when we are rejected by someone we admired.
This "down" came when we focus on the negative aspects of ourselves and the situation. Step back, expand your perspective and notice the positive aspects of yourself.
You can take it as it is just a pity that she rejected you cos she only see the half-person of you.
cheers
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As a gal, i can tell you that she is not only rejecting you but also finding you quite irritating. Just that out of courtesy, she find some accuses to evade you. I do that to boys who i find it irritating and not up to mark, it more nice that to tell them straight off their face, "I DUN LIKE YOU, SO please keep your distance". If you dun get the click of it, that is because you like/love her alot, but in reality, you are not in her vocabulary as a bf or even a close fren.
Failure is the begining of success
Reject is the begining of accept. -
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It has been shown to work.Originally posted by Pitot:show her that you are good bf material while not overdoing it.
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Timing plays a big part in love. She is just not available at the right time.
The future is uncertain, do u want to take the risk to wait for her?
She had clearly stated the reasons.
You should let go and move on with life till the time is right.
Perhaps you will find someone better than her. -
aiyo..
stay cool..
u wont get her soon no matter wad u do,
so,
get on with ur life,
in the meantime
see if there's any better ones around.
and maybe time will let u know
whether u truly love her