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xiao di, u are a good fren... but he's not appreciative.. so leave him alone.
it's his fault for over using his phone and not able to pay.. since u offered to help and he rejected, then so be it.
money issue can hurt r/s.
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You should actually feel disappointed that "best friend" of yours actually requested you to quit your job for him to take up your post. He must be treating you like a boyfriend.Originally posted by Purplehaze623:i've a best friend who i knew from young is in some phone bill debt, because he overuse on chatting. heres the case: because i've a part time job of sending flyers at nite, he wants me to give up his slot for him, so he can pay the bill. when i've asked him to take the job when i found it (2 vacancies), he cannot take it because his parents dont allow. now i've already asked another friend to take the job and he's now back to me and say "don't care" parents and work. for the sake of me and my the other friend who already working sending flyer's rights, i rejected him, and say the most we helped him ask for vacancies or lend him money. he replied me say i let him to die and not wanting me to lend him $, even to the extend that nxt time if i have problem ask him he wont care about me.
whats the deal now? he overuse the phone and i've to helped him in it totally, even giving him my job? am i over-reacting or making it too big or issit im at the fault now? need some serious advices.
maybe im not the cut to be good at social skills.
thanks in advance.
But seriously, buy him a Lian He Zao Bao or Straits Time and ask him to look for a part-time job himself, and meanwhile, throw him off his ego and lend him the money.
And not to be too one-sided, has he done anything almost-sacrificial for you? If so, maybe he is just losing his temper that you are not helping him much of a way or even thinking that you are just patronising him. Otherwise, you will really need to pull away the spoon in his mouth and stuff it into his donkey.
And damn, if 10% of the gals here have a personality like yours, SG would have been in the top 10 of the World Happiness Ranking.
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TS is a guy..
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It's always tough to play good guy.
Like you said, at most you lend him the money to settle the phone bill and keep a look out for another opportunity for job so that he can pay u back. -
i think i needa change a nick or signature?
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wat for?
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nice guy being appreciated is still fine..not appreciated...ya know wat to do..
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Originally posted by j441167:TS is a guy..
Originally posted by LatecomerX:
You should actually feel disappointed that "best friend" of yours actually requested you to quit your job for him to take up your post. He must be treating you like a boyfriend.
But seriously, buy him a Lian He Zao Bao or Straits Time and ask him to look for a part-time job himself, and meanwhile, throw him off his ego and lend him the money.
And not to be too one-sided, has he done anything almost-sacrificial for you? If so, maybe he is just losing his temper that you are not helping him much of a way or even thinking that you are just patronising him. Otherwise, you will really need to pull away the spoon in his mouth and stuff it into his donkey.
And damn, if 10% of the gals here have a personality like yours, SG would have been in the top 10 of the World Happiness Ranking.
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Maybe. Purple represents gayshyt. Try ClearHaze623.Originally posted by Purplehaze623:i think i needa change a nick or signature? -
ok forget it....Originally posted by LatecomerX:Maybe. Purple represents gayshyt. Try ClearHaze623. going off topic. anyways thanks to everyone who've posted here. problem solved. 