Why?
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Recently I just broken up with my bf whom I been together for 3 months. The reason we broke up is he is not the guy tat I really wan to spend life with & I dun feel happy when I am together with him.
For my past 4 r/s, I think this is the worst relationship tat I ever had. His friends are more important than me & he is not the one there for me to share my happiness & sadness & he hated to call me & reporting to me everything.
I am a very simple person. I just want my partner to be home safe, care to share his everything with me & if he is busy I am fine with it. But he think I am controlling him too much which he had his own time to do his things rather than accompany me.
Why I am deserved to be treated like this?Why I cant meet a good guy & fall in love & get married?I am just wondering is there any good guys out there who really wan to get into serious relationship?
I had a good job, an own part time business to handle, a good family, a group of friends but my relationship really sucks.Friends often ask me how is my relationship but i always tell them dun ask there is nothing to tell. I dun smoke, I seldom club & I dun drink but why cant I meet a guy who can really treated me well?
Even though I am very understanding & concerned about my partner but they often take me for granted.
I dare not to fall in love anymore as I scared of being hurted again & again & my heart might not able to take the pain.
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The next time it will be easier...Originally posted by Starfish07:Recently I just broken up with my bf whom I been together for 3 months. The reason we broke up is he is not the guy tat I really wan to spend life with & I dun feel happy when I am together with him.
For my past 4 r/s, I think this is the worst relationship tat I ever had. His friends are more important than me & he is not the one there for me to share my happiness & sadness & he hated to call me & reporting to me everything.
I am a very simple person. I just want my partner to be home safe, care to share his everything with me & if he is busy I am fine with it. But he think I am controlling him too much which he had his own time to do his things rather than accompany me.
Why I am deserved to be treated like this?Why I cant meet a good guy & fall in love & get married?I am just wondering is there any good guys out there who really wan to get into serious relationship?
I had a good job, an own part time business to handle, a good family, a group of friends but my relationship really sucks.Friends often ask me how is my relationship but i always tell them dun ask there is nothing to tell. I dun smoke, I seldom club & I dun drink but why cant I meet a guy who can really treated me well?
Even though I am very understanding & concerned about my partner but they often take me for granted.
I dare not to fall in love anymore as I scared of being hurted again & again & my heart might not able to take the pain. -
the first time is never the best... ( or worse...)
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3 mths and u broke up??Originally posted by Starfish07:Recently I just broken up with my bf whom I been together for 3 months. The reason we broke up is he is not the guy tat I really wan to spend life with & I dun feel happy when I am together with him.
For my past 4 r/s, I think this is the worst relationship tat I ever had. His friends are more important than me & he is not the one there for me to share my happiness & sadness & he hated to call me & reporting to me everything.
I am a very simple person. I just want my partner to be home safe, care to share his everything with me & if he is busy I am fine with it. But he think I am controlling him too much which he had his own time to do his things rather than accompany me.
Why I am deserved to be treated like this?Why I cant meet a good guy & fall in love & get married?I am just wondering is there any good guys out there who really wan to get into serious relationship?
I had a good job, an own part time business to handle, a good family, a group of friends but my relationship really sucks.Friends often ask me how is my relationship but i always tell them dun ask there is nothing to tell. I dun smoke, I seldom club & I dun drink but why cant I meet a guy who can really treated me well?
Even though I am very understanding & concerned about my partner but they often take me for granted.
I dare not to fall in love anymore as I scared of being hurted again & again & my heart might not able to take the pain.
Get real man...
Anyway my advice...stay single -
I think I am going to lost trust in Singapore guys.
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up to you wat... you suffer the consequences of your actions... the Singapore guys that you lose trust in? They will continue to party...
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dun use 1 rod to hit the whole boat of pple leh...Originally posted by Starfish07:I think I am going to lost trust in Singapore guys. -
This should be at Aunt Agony
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Don't give in too early. Guys tend to forget cheap girls easily.Originally posted by Starfish07:I think I am going to lost trust in Singapore guys. -
I prefer to being loved & cared & I dun like to be single.
But very strange thing is all the guys that I did rejected before are either married or attached which I do feel happy for them.
I do believe being together need to have feelings. -
mai geh gao la, pple bad mood u still like tatOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:This should be at Aunt Agony
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no nid too much feelings, a little will do... too much is bad, no feelings is bad...Originally posted by Starfish07:I prefer to being loved & cared & I dun like to be single.
But very strange thing is all the guys that I did rejected before are either married or attached which I do feel happy for them.
I do believe being together need to have feelings.
and if you have a little feelings, you need commitment....
commitment to stay together through thick an dthin hor... not commitment to be together 24/7 hor... -
Singapore guys I can say they cant stand lust.
Dun u all think so?
Why cant they stay faithful to their partner & also in this relationship too?
This is what make me lost trust in them -
Originally posted by Starfish07:Singapore guys I can say they cant stand lust.
Dun u all think so?
Why cant they stay faithful to their partner & also in this relationship too?
This is what make me lost trust in them -
what is "cant stand lust"?Originally posted by Starfish07:Singapore guys I can say they cant stand lust.
Dun u all think so?
Why cant they stay faithful to their partner & also in this relationship too?
This is what make me lost trust in them
You mean they don't like the feelings of lust? They can't stand it?
Then why is it if they can't stand lust, they can't stay faithful? huh? -
Lust is something guys cant really take it.
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somehow right. heros also die under the hands of beautyOriginally posted by Starfish07:Lust is something guys cant really take it. -
Get a new bf
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get on it and move on with life, i think you will grow stronger and will be more cautious in select your next candidate.
Cos marriage is not child's play, someone can be your bf but he may not make up to the becoming a good husband or a good father when u got children later.
We are all still learning from experience, some of which can be hurtful, but of course behind these hurtful relationships, there are sweet memories in them i believe.
Take positive and carry on with what you need to do.
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furthermore, if you need to sacrifice your body in exchange for his love to you, this is the lust that you are talking abt.
then this kinda of guy is not worth the trouble as he will forsake you for another, after achieving his objection and to scale different more heights.
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I believe you'll find your love soon
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Even though I am not ugly nor pretty but no matter wad guys still cant stand lust leh
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weakling ~
you can survive without love` too. -
Not all guys are lusty~ Give yourself more time, I believe sooner or later you'll find the right personOriginally posted by Starfish07:Even though I am not ugly nor pretty but no matter wad guys still cant stand lust leh