No point telling the boss. If everyone in the dept hates her, do you think the boss does not know??? The boss is either a blur fcuk, can't be bothered or no balls. Either of which would not help even if you bring it up to your boss. If Ms A's contract gets renewed, it says a lot. She has backing....... If you are new and others esp your boss have yet to know you better, it reflects badly on your inter personal skills to complain now.Originally posted by lem0nade:Hey guys.. my ger is 6 mths into her job at some company. She has this female colleague , let's call her Miss A, who keep badmouthing about her in the office... Both of them are working in the same dept. She purposely taught my ger the wrong way of doing some stuff and my ger has to bear responsibility for the mistakes.. my ger has been very upset over this matter.. My ger told me that everyone in the office dun like A alot.. yet her contract still get renewed..
Is there any way I can get back at Miss A?
Walau just because your gf said somebody bully her in the new company you straight away assume it is so and want to take revenge on her behalf?Originally posted by lem0nade:Hey guys.. my ger is 6 mths into her job at some company. She has this female colleague , let's call her Miss A, who keep badmouthing about her in the office... Both of them are working in the same dept. She purposely taught my ger the wrong way of doing some stuff and my ger has to bear responsibility for the mistakes.. my ger has been very upset over this matter.. My ger told me that everyone in the office dun like A alot.. yet her contract still get renewed..
Is there any way I can get back at Miss A?
Anything that Miss A tells your gf, get yr gf to email to her that this is what she said and cc the bossOriginally posted by lem0nade:my ger's gonna tell her boss (they share the same one) on monday.. only pity is dat she dun have any evidence like emails.. cos Miss A taught her verbally.. so i'm afraid she won't have a strong case against her. A few weeks back, my ger requested to transfer to other dept. The management promised her come next Jan.. so should my ger stay put or just leave if they dun do anything bout the incident?
I think you should work on helping your girlfriend to get over emotionally with Miss A first. What can u do honestly.. Go join her companies and play with the politics ? Don't you think it is a waste of time and energy of your life to "play" with Miss A. What goes around comes around.Originally posted by lem0nade:Hey guys.. my ger is 6 mths into her job at some company. She has this female colleague , let's call her Miss A, who keep badmouthing about her in the office... Both of them are working in the same dept. She purposely taught my ger the wrong way of doing some stuff and my ger has to bear responsibility for the mistakes.. my ger has been very upset over this matter.. My ger told me that everyone in the office dun like A alot.. yet her contract still get renewed..
Is there any way I can get back at Miss A?
Yeah! justin timberlake, what goes around, comes around...Originally posted by Isis:I think you should work on helping your girlfriend to get over emotionally with Miss A first. What can u do honestly.. Go join her companies and play with the politics ? Don't you think it is a waste of time and energy of your life to "play" with Miss A. What goes around comes around.
Ya i agree, sometimes it reflects alot more on the one complaining rather than the one being complained. The other collegues don't like Ms A as well, but they did not complain, so ur gf is doing the dirty job for them.Originally posted by golani_bde:No point telling the boss. If everyone in the dept hates her, do you think the boss does not know??? The boss is either a blur fcuk, can't be bothered or no balls. Either of which would not help even if you bring it up to your boss. If Ms A's contract gets renewed, it says a lot. She has backing....... If you are new and others esp your boss have yet to know you better, it reflects badly on your inter personal skills to complain now.
Just bear with it. More over you have asked to be transferred to another dept, do you think the current boss would be bothered with your problems? If you complain now, you also risk your current boss/Ms A badmouthing you in the new dept, just to cover their asses.
yea... its real life here. and i think ur gf's arent the only ones. even me gets it too.Originally posted by lem0nade:Hey guys.. my ger is 6 mths into her job at some company. She has this female colleague , let's call her Miss A, who keep badmouthing about her in the office... Both of them are working in the same dept. She purposely taught my ger the wrong way of doing some stuff and my ger has to bear responsibility for the mistakes.. my ger has been very upset over this matter.. My ger told me that everyone in the office dun like A alot.. yet her contract still get renewed..
Is there any way I can get back at Miss A?