2 and a half years relationship...
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it ended.
we agreed in a peaceful manner.
we discussed just now, even if we carry on, there will be still quarrels and problems that will contnue to exist.
i wish her all the best
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Jie ai shun bian...
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at least you managed to discuss everything. we havent even reached half the agenda, he already switch off liao.
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You are not aloneOriginally posted by petti:at least you managed to discuss everything. we havent even reached half the agenda, he already switch off liao.
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No worries... my friend went steady for 10 yrs.. end up...still break..
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a friend's friend cohabit with her bf for more than a decade,
until recently they got married..
and end up divorce
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thats the prob with a long relationship. the more weakness they find out about each other, the more what they contribute in this relationship becomes a daily chore and both parties dont not rrly aprreciate it anymore. in this society, everyone want things instant and quick, nobody treasures long and steady relationships
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Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:
I do treasure long and steady rs. But i think that is beside the point. The point is, if the relationship is not a match in the 1st place, sweeping dirt underneathe the rug while pretending everything is fine just isn't gonna work.
thats the prob with a long relationship. the more weakness they find out about each other, the more what they contribute in this relationship becomes a daily chore and both parties dont not rrly aprreciate it anymore. in this society, everyone want things instant and quick, nobody treasures long and steady relationships
And the breakup even after many years just prove this point.
While if u take the effort to truly understand ur partner, after dating for a period of time, find the person suitable for u and u can accept his/her weaknesses, a blissful rs is possible. -
A relationship needs effort from both parties. The couple must come to the awareness and agree to work hard at it together.
Three essential keys in a relationship: Trust, Communication & Respect. You need to have all of them together. Lacking even one would lead to the demise of the other 2 keys eventually. -
i agree.. a r/s, no matter long or short or wadeva, tit need to have trust, communication n respect.. but the currently, all thee 3 makes me laff...
no offence to others.. but.... it's my r/s im laffin at.... -
as long as you continue to win $20 toto prize group, why worry?
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that's sad.
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old one no go, new one no cm.
pick slowly hor -
I just learnt my lesson about being hasty.
Yah, ignoring differences is sucidal to the relationship. Next time I'll beoh until I happy first. -
not true...the main thing is u must learn how to forgive and forgetOriginally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:thats the prob with a long relationship. the more weakness they find out about each other, the more what they contribute in this relationship becomes a daily chore and both parties dont not rrly aprreciate it anymore. in this society, everyone want things instant and quick, nobody treasures long and steady relationships
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Hmmm take it easy ok?
Jiayou with whatever you're doing now... =) -
Tolerating differences not equals accomodating differences.
There's only so much one can accept. -
i still can't get over her. maybe it shall take weeks or months?
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bro, yours is only gf.
my wife just moved out yesterday night.
seems like she avoiding seeing me, cos i went out earlier today and she came and pack some more of her stuffs.
read my plight, and you will feel better.
if you want to chat with someone on msn or phone, pm me. -
orh...
u too -
the rs will not last if both are picky on each other weaknesses..
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wat happened? could it becos now ur status different just becos u r a ite student?
i'm not generalize. but alot of pple tend to look down on us. -
Sorry to hear that. Take heart. Hope you will be on the right track for some time to get over it. Good luck and take care.Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:it ended.
we agreed in a peaceful manner.
we discussed just now, even if we carry on, there will be still quarrels and problems that will contnue to exist.
i wish her all the best -
freedom, enjoy it
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nolah, she never ever look down on me beforeOriginally posted by 798:wat happened? could it becos now ur status different just becos u r a ite student?
i'm not generalize. but alot of pple tend to look down on us.