2 and a half years relationship...
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Hey, look on the brighter side, at least the split wasn't acrimonious.
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she just got other guy, or the fire is not there cuz none of u try to create fire of love but only fire of arguement..
dont worry la.. one day u wil find a better one, im sure bout thta -
Me too, 1 year odd relationship. Ended up the same as you. All the best for her too.Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:it ended.
we agreed in a peaceful manner.
we discussed just now, even if we carry on, there will be still quarrels and problems that will contnue to exist.
i wish her all the best
Chill.
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screw it... a relationship should be about each other and helping each other get stronger and better.
the 2 should complement each other and grow from it. if it's just a case of accepting and forgiving and forgetting, it's BORING. get rid of it, the earlier the better. it may last, but why shortchange yourself? i'm sure there's someone out there who suits you more and deserves your love as well.
if forgiving and forgetting is what you have been doing these years, I'm happy it ended for you. it should be about feeling happy -
Both agreed le mah. . .Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:it ended.
we agreed in a peaceful manner.
we discussed just now, even if we carry on, there will be still quarrels and problems that will contnue to exist.
i wish her all the best
so no need sad le.
Cos if u do, u should RHK urself, cos u agreed and regret.
At least ur break up is mutual.
Mine broke me to pieces.
No settlement at all -
it takes a while dude!
cheer up...
may the new one comes along soon! -
hmm just to dispense my 2 cents worth of opinion.
I guess the issue with long time relationship is that well.. over time, the couple simply runs out on topics and issues to talk about ler. Each party knows the other party inside out, and all aspects of their lives are like so utterly and thoroughly discussed. This is then the stage of stagnantion one. And thats the breaking point where couples with 10yrs r.s e.g. or long r.s like 5yrs. plus plus, they break up.
THe only way to maintain the relationship is to go te next stage i.e. marriage, so that again, there will be new topics , dreams and aspirations and stuff to talk and discuss. like wedding plans, housing plans, plans for how many kids to have, kid's education, family life planning issues, blah blah. Long time Couples need to move on to the next stage of their lives in order to constantly generate new aspects of life or sparks to talk about.
Then you may ask what happens after marriage, then sure by that time, their kids would have matured, and they can talk about their kid's future, marriage plans blah blah.