How should i be feeling?
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I don't mean got car and money can get any girl i want. If that's possible, she should be throwing herself at me right.
But like you all said, a small matter, she doesn't wanna go back to the gym? Then what, avoid all places i go? That's too extreme.
I agree with what Uncertain said, but doko mentioned about being weak, this is not showing of weakness but some form of sincerity to clear the air?[/quote] -
Hello!! Can I be your friend too? Got anymore sexy gf to intro?Originally posted by angel7030:Hey, what is wrong about going up and talk to a gal, i was approached many times by guys in the public and most just happily make frens out of it, Please lah, what is there to be shame, shy or scare about, we gal won't eat you up ya. We also respect and admire guys who are more open and not those teeny weeny shy type.
I believed the gal did not noticed you or thought that you were saying hi to somebody instead of her. Once a guy also approached me and say hello, i completely ignored him, because I was thinking of something that I did not noticed him. The next day, in the same bus stop, he again approached me and said hello, and asked "did you note my greeting to you yesterday", I was glad he came forward so that I have a chance to apologise to him about my ignorant. From then on, we become frens, and guess what, i introduce him to my sexy gf too and they are getting engage very soon.
Go straight and talk to her, I guarantee she will talk to you, if not, she must be a damn proud gal, no use going after her, even if you manage to get her, you will suffer.
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Just do it if u have the fourth time. Think as if it is the god's will to let u and her meet again.Originally posted by MidnightK:I don't mean got car and money can get any girl i want. If that's possible, she should be throwing herself at me right.
But like you all said, a small matter, she doesn't wanna go back to the gym? Then what, avoid all places i go? That's too extreme.
I agree with what Uncertain said, but doko mentioned about being weak, this is not showing of weakness but some form of sincerity to clear the air?[/quote] -
Yeah, if there's a fourth time. I'll do it. Meanwhile i don't think about it anymore. This is too small a matter to be pondering over. No point
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if this gym that ur going to has no other branches, u miight get to see her again...otherwise, she might change venue.....just my thoughts
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The gym i frequent is in the west area. But i doubt so, cause not many gyms around here. Ha, ha. Don't know if that's good or bad. This topic became featured
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life is unexpected, dont get your hopes high
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You played the game wrong from the start - you should be the one going over, introducing yourself and starting the small talk. Instead you get your friend to help you, didn't grab the opportunity and even kept quite - allowing awkwardness to envelope the short time together.
It takes only 7 seconds to make the first impression, and you blotched it up. No worries, what's done is done - so lets move on to plan 2.
The next time you see her, muster up some courage and confidence. Walk up to her and introduce yourself, apologize for the bad impression the other day - just whipped up a "Sorry, I was somewhat nervous".... Then move on with the small talk... Play it with humor, make her laugh and comfy, ask for her contact details - be it email address or cell number...
Remember not to behave like a stalker or low self-esteem dude the next time, make it to 1st base... And come back here again for more advice
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i'm definitely no stalker.. Hopefully next wednesday, i have sth positive to post here.. i'm not going to put my hopes up, cause i know the feeling of falling.. my last 3 gfs seems to like me first, then i don't have to do much to win them over.. so maybe when i encounter the girl i like, its a challenge for me..
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What you did was too direct... won't work one lah... this kind of thing, you must make it look "natural"... it is very difficult to make it look natural... a lot of planning and intelligence is involved...Originally posted by MidnightK:Why give me signs to go over and you just left?
I felt i was played man. Feeling confused.
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Really?? its like i'm getting mixed signals.. i never thought my actions are 'ah beng' like.. maybe gotta reflect on that.. thanks bro
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Guys,
DO NOT approach a girl when she is with her friends.
Guys don't want to come across as chee hong.
Girls also don't want their friends to label them as Lan Hong.
DO NOT expect a girl to jump into your car just because she may have some liking for you.
Our mothers has always told us NEVER to get into a stranger's vehicle.
You should have parked your car, offer to walk her to the bus/MRT station. Then come back later on your own to pick up your car. -
You got it wrong, i didn't mean that i stopped and invited her in. I parked my car, went out to talk to her. Not like what you said. I don't have the intention that i'm out to impress her or anything. Anyone above 18 could have got a license and a car. I wanted to have a chat with her or sth. But it appears she just walk away
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Maybe the brand of your car turn her off? She was expecting a BMW but it turned out you were driving a common Nissan.
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i guess i have no answer to that..
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Like what other forumers have said, be natural... Don't do excessive thing.
I think asking for hp no is excessive thing here because she may think we only meet once, you want my hp no?
Let it be natural first. Talk for a while, best is to exchange email address as a starting point. Once u got her msn, she will definitely talk to u. Then just play along... till u think is a right time to get her hp no. -
Oh ya, if the girl is so god damned materialistic at the first few times we met, i won't even bother to go after her.. Yeah, i'll go and do what's have to be done.. asking for number will come soon, provided i get to see her again