U have a caring and nice gf. WHat's so sad abt u? Look on the bright side of life. If she is caring and understanding,She will understand yr situation. Don't use others as guide life for all those materialise things. Be unique, Be yrself!Originally posted by sEphIrOth:I have some serious issues.
To cut them short...
My girlfriend has a good liberal family who supports her, I have a conservative family who inhibits what I do. I feel she has so many talents yet I have none. I am feeling that I am inferior to her and that I am not good enough for her, yet we understand each other and are going well. I just do not want her to be suffering. She is very nice and caring to me, that's what keeps our relationship going. However, sometimes, she sees her work as priority. In the end, I feel I am not good enough for her because she is in a league high above me.
I have health problems too. High blood pressure, knee problem, sexual disorders. I am not ashamed because I feel I have such problems but I want to solve them, yet my family does not want to acknowledge some problems. The sexual problem makes me feel inferior as my male ego is damaged. Other ailments leave me thinking when will I die. I feel that so many problems at the age of 19, it is very disheartening.
My family does not bother about issues they would not put as priority. They want me to study hard without caring about my social life and my parents do not want me to work, yet limit me to meagre allowance( no allowance on weekends). I see everyone around me having things worth a lot, yet I feel, even something simple like something worth 50 dollars, I can't even have it. Mind you my family is well to do, yet they can have everything, and me, nothing I want. I feel so pressurized when my parents tell me not to do this and that but most things are what people my age usually do (e.g spending some time outside). My parents urge me to stay at home, when I don't see any meaning in doing the mundane things I do.
I am only troubled by these 3 aspects of life. I am very troubled and have spent countless nights pondering. I hope I can get help here because I am helpless and these thoughts constantly haunt me. I do not believe I am having a very low self confidence because I am rational and I will evaluate how things are going. Life is never fair, I am a living example.
he is the biggest thing right now in the mando-pop world. what's wrong with following his footsteps? when he was young, he had nothing but music and now look where he is?Originally posted by sEphIrOth:i cannot do music. i have a bad voice. i don't play instruments.
and i don't want to follow his footsteps because i have my own life, my own identity. if i follow him, i would be any singer on the street.
but i think running away from issues will not solve them but cause me to think more. i will have to face my fears and obstacles in life... just one day.
so? if you train your voice well and can control it.. you can probably still survive as a vocal coachOriginally posted by sEphIrOth:because i am practical and i know my forte doesnt lie in music![]()
Many. Shouldn't you be in some college dormitory or living in an apartment with your roommate?Originally posted by sEphIrOth:how many ppl, at the age of 19, live by themselves?
The purpose of learning music is not to excel in it but rather enjoy it. That's what the project superstar judges always said:"ENJOY".Originally posted by sEphIrOth:because i am practical and i know my forte doesnt lie in music![]()
Just feel like slapping you.Originally posted by sEphIrOth:I have some serious issues.
To cut them short...
My girlfriend has a good liberal family who supports her, I have a conservative family who inhibits what I do. I feel she has so many talents yet I have none. I am feeling that I am inferior to her and that I am not good enough for her, yet we understand each other and are going well. I just do not want her to be suffering. She is very nice and caring to me, that's what keeps our relationship going. However, sometimes, she sees her work as priority. In the end, I feel I am not good enough for her because she is in a league high above me.
I have health problems too. High blood pressure, knee problem, sexual disorders. I am not ashamed because I feel I have such problems but I want to solve them, yet my family does not want to acknowledge some problems. The sexual problem makes me feel inferior as my male ego is damaged. Other ailments leave me thinking when will I die. I feel that so many problems at the age of 19, it is very disheartening.
My family does not bother about issues they would not put as priority. They want me to study hard without caring about my social life and my parents do not want me to work, yet limit me to meagre allowance( no allowance on weekends). I see everyone around me having things worth a lot, yet I feel, even something simple like something worth 50 dollars, I can't even have it. Mind you my family is well to do, yet they can have everything, and me, nothing I want. I feel so pressurized when my parents tell me not to do this and that but most things are what people my age usually do (e.g spending some time outside). My parents urge me to stay at home, when I don't see any meaning in doing the mundane things I do.
I am only troubled by these 3 aspects of life. I am very troubled and have spent countless nights pondering. I hope I can get help here because I am helpless and these thoughts constantly haunt me. I do not believe I am having a very low self confidence because I am rational and I will evaluate how things are going. Life is never fair, I am a living example.
Really, it's not his fault that you're worse off than him so stop acting like it is.Originally posted by Guardx:Just feel like slapping you.
Wake up lar you have such a good life and still complaining so much.
How many people can be like you?
you only complain this and that but have you done anything to change? other than craping ?
So many people do not have a gf at all and they are worst of than you.