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You want just whack... be confident enough to go for it. Girls like guys who are confident and from the way you describe it... holding hands and all things aren't looking too bad. Things go wrong nvm at least u learn... many girls around. No need to be so sentimental abt girls at ur age esp. while you are still studying.
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focus on your study
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i'm trying to balance. study on weekdays her on weekends.Originally posted by mistyblue:focus on your study
less her on weekdays. got so happy last night when she said she said she has got something really important to say when we meet tomorrow.
since it's the holidays, i guess i can enjoi more with her.
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hopefully is good news. all the best!Originally posted by vertmonyet:i'm trying to balance. study on weekdays her on weekends.
less her on weekdays. got so happy last night when she said she said she has got something really important to say when we meet tomorrow.
since it's the holidays, i guess i can enjoi more with her.
have a good thursday everyone.
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attached to her. she seems really shy. she then confessed she loved me longer than i do. but never really told me.
m : you ever really wondered why i really kissd you?
me : you make me wna love you. you actually made me understand love. (well i take it that way lah)
m : okay, i made you to love me okay.
me : so you think we can get together now?
m : well, you wana go for other girls or not?
me : there's not many girls with pink braces around.
m : huh? what now?!
me : i meant to say, there's not many girls like you.
then she never gave me and and yes or no till few days later..
m : sorry, didnt give you an ans.. im sure you know the answer right?
me : yea, more or less. im sure it's a positive one..
then we got started..
i treat her to dinner and we go out just like usual. but i don't really feel the love from her. we love each other very much of cos. when i hugged her, she was reluctant. okay lah, first time with me..
like i said, we used to go out often like really close friends. now that we're together, more or less like last time. i can't really think of how to make her feel really loved. we do hold hands and all, so how do you actually make her feel really loved..
but she writes in her blog, "im freaking attached. so damn happy enough"
i can tell she's really glad we're together..
so when there's dead silence when we sit, she'll go "eh, entertain me lei"..
entertain.. hmm.
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gd start.
haha, rmb, now u all still schooling, i suggest u all do homework together. haha...
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vertmonyet,
Don't wait for a "yes" or "no".
Love is not about a verbal agreement.
It's about what you feel about her, and what she feels about you.
And what each is doing for one another.
Based on your posting, it seems you and her are like a normal couple.
When it comes to money, at your age, life is still simple, you don't have bills to pay, YET.
Spending time together to enjoy each other's company does not always have to spend big money.
When you go out with her, you can always pack food from your home, and she can too from hers.
Make it a picnic every time.
It is more meaningful to shower gifts to your gf when the items are bought with YOUR own income.
Both of you can encourage each other to achieve in studies by having a goal together.
If you so love her, you'll want to make sure you can take good care of her.
I'm sure you won;t want to have her suffer with you because you cannot make it in life, would you ?
But please, be a responsible lover.
Don't ruin her life, and don't murder a baby via abortion. -
i guess things can go smoothly w/out money having to be a problem..Originally posted by jojobeach:vertmonyet,
Don't wait for a "yes" or "no".
Love is not about a verbal agreement.
It's about what you feel about her, and what she feels about you.
And what each is doing for one another.
Based on your posting, it seems you and her are like a normal couple.
When it comes to money, at your age, life is still simple, you don't have bills to pay, YET.
Spending time together to enjoy each other's company does not always have to spend big money.
When you go out with her, you can always pack food from your home, and she can too from hers.
Make it a picnic every time.
It is more meaningful to shower gifts to your gf when the items are bought with YOUR own income.
Both of you can encourage each other to achieve in studies by having a goal together.
If you so love her, you'll want to make sure you can take good care of her.
I'm sure you won;t want to have her suffer with you because you cannot make it in life, would you ?
But please, be a responsible lover.
Don't ruin her life, and don't murder a baby via abortion.
and sex's definitely off our minds. thanks for the advise..
good idea, homework. thanks. and yea, im thinking of like taking turn who pays.Originally posted by hiphop2009:gd start.
haha, rmb, now u all still schooling, i suggest u all do homework together. haha...
for money, i guess, nt so impt for now. -
Well.. Since both of you are together now,
think of the future problems that you both might face before they come... ^^
and find a solution for them before they come too...
Dun ever think you both will never quarrel, that will happen one day...
And, don't spend too much or you will get addicted to spending too! -
Originally posted by vertmonyet:i treat her to dinner and we go out just like usual. but i don't really feel the love from her. we love each other very much of cos. when i hugged her, she was reluctant. okay lah, first time with me..
like i said, we used to go out often like really close friends. now that we're together, more or less like last time. i can't really think of how to make her feel really loved. we do hold hands and all, so how do you actually make her feel really loved..
but she writes in her blog, "im freaking attached. so damn happy enough"
i can tell she's really glad we're together..
so when there's dead silence when we sit, she'll go "eh, entertain me lei"..
entertain.. hmm. 
are u a freak to her
The funny thing is does she really like u or just want to have a r/s for the sake of having one so as to show off? -
im not a freak. she just like to say those little words in sentences lah.Originally posted by Uncertain: are u a freak to her
The funny thing is does she really like u or just want to have a r/s for the sake of having one so as to show off?
none of the above. she really loves me.
not gna spend too much lah. im broke already and she understands.Originally posted by popikachu:Well.. Since both of you are together now,
think of the future problems that you both might face before they come... ^^
and find a solution for them before they come too...
Dun ever think you both will never quarrel, that will happen one day...
And, don't spend too much or you will get addicted to spending too!
she can easily be talked to. know her well enough. -
im leaving for msia on monday. will be there for a week. im thinking of catching a movie with her before i go off. any ideas what sweet stuffs can i do with/to her before i go?