helpless...
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i hate going to his house..cuz everytime go his house = petting.
i really hate it. i hate these unhealthy activities. i wish i can stop doing all these, i wish i didnt even give in when he started touching me... i dont want to betray the trust my parents and friends have in me..i come from a very decent family. i really hate doing all these...
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ditch him and find a new guy. Love not= sex
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it's healthy at least to me...
just tell him dat u're not ready lor...
so it depends on whether he respect u or not.
if he still carry on den, get it to his brain, sooner or later he'll just leave u if he can't take it, or he'll just live with no petting. -
how old are u?
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tell him that you feel uncomfortable about it. if he cannot accept it, then it shows that he doesn't love you, so ya, please dump him. protect yourself!!
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How old are both of you?
I think it is normal for couples to kiss and hug every now and then, but not every single time...just let him know that you feel uncomfy? -
Exactly the same thing happen with my 2nd bf
Finally got sick of all these & dump him for a better guy
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he likes your body, not your heart
ditch him -
Good lor, at least got house, save money, me and bf have to book hotel lahOriginally posted by qwerty-x:i hate going to his house..cuz everytime go his house = petting.
i really hate it. i hate these unhealthy activities. i wish i can stop doing all these, i wish i didnt even give in when he started touching me... i dont want to betray the trust my parents and friends have in me..i come from a very decent family. i really hate doing all these...
why wont he understand..why cant i just have a simple relationship... -
TS!!!
Whats ur age?
one thing could lead u to another. . -
TS, I don`t think you are helpless. Why shud u feel helpless?
Such sexual expressions of love shud be restricted to marriage. U can be in control.
Doing such things now does not lay a good foundation for your marriage wif him. High chance that if he can`t control himself b4 marriage, he will stray in future.
Take action now b4 it`s too late.
http://www.loyalfreedom.blogspot.com
http://www.freeyourselfpackage.com -
ya lo.. u shud ditch him -.-
dere are still alot of gd n decent guys out there..
like in sgf.. full of gd guys
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Just ditch him . Now that he gets petting from you , he will want more the next time .
Or maybe give him a verbal warning . If he still dont change , ditch. -
where is TS
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*reminds me of my 17rd old church girlfriend* slurp...
anyways...
You know u can just say.. 'Damei' . No.. Please understand. N tell him go masturbate.
If he cannot control , then dun expect him to be in control of anything. -
how old are both of u?
depends on ur mindset, some pple say petting is healthy and can foster closer relationship.
guys ma. but i agree petting everytime u go his hse is nt too gd of a idea. how long hav u been with him?
if u haven been with him for too long, i suggest u review your relationship with him.
if u n him hav been quite long, den talk to him abt u being uncomfortable with it. -
Don't give in to him, he seems like he's only interested in sex since he's only interested in petting.
How does he react when you firmly refuse to go to his house? If he shows any semblance of getting pissed off, dump him for good.
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Ditch him if he does not understand. End of story. Preserve your dignity.Originally posted by qwerty-x:i hate going to his house..cuz everytime go his house = petting.
i really hate it. i hate these unhealthy activities. i wish i can stop doing all these, i wish i didnt even give in when he started touching me... i dont want to betray the trust my parents and friends have in me..i come from a very decent family. i really hate doing all these...
why wont he understand..why cant i just have a simple relationship... -
just ditch him la
wonder why u like him at the 1st place 
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just ask him to DIY la.. he sux
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diminishing returns. more n more n more. stop now!
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cant exactly say he is interested in petting only..we do meet up and go out too...but the thing is, everytime ask him plan go where etc, confirm is plan to go is house. zzz. today...he suggested go his house again..i say i will go unless he doesnt touch me, and he was damn pissed off. maybe i said it in a harsh way...but i have been trying to put the message across many times..he doesnt seem to understand..Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:Don't give in to him, he seems like he's only interested in sex since he's only interested in petting.
How does he react when you firmly refuse to go to his house? If he shows any semblance of getting pissed off, dump him for good.
How much older is he, by the way?
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you are only 16? and ur bf?
how long have u two been together?
i believe many guys will say they have sexual needs, so perhaps petting to them can help to curb the craving a bit.
well my advise is, if u let him do that to u all the time, eventually he will lose control and go all the way de.. learn to protect urself. Try not to go to his place. If he's that horny, ask him to DIY. If he dun respect u and do things against ur will, then u might as well leave him. -
I think you should not be too direct, ala "don't-touch-me", but try recommending him that you two go for other activities in public and broad daylight. If he's still mad, it is pretty obvious that he's using you like a pair of gloves.Originally posted by qwerty-x:cant exactly say he is interested in petting only..we do meet up and go out too...but the thing is, everytime ask him plan go where etc, confirm is plan to go is house. zzz. today...he suggested go his house again..i say i will go unless he doesnt touch me, and he was damn pissed off. maybe i said it in a harsh way...but i have been trying to put the message across many times..he doesnt seem to understand..
sadness..
Have you met his friends and family? Do you think he cares about you, e.g. showing concern when you're ill, giving encouragement when you're down in the dumps and sharing his happiness with you? Has he done anything that suggests that he loves you -- even sending you home after every date is considered a nice gesture, writing you letters, showing interest in other aspects of you other than your body, etc.?
These are some questions you have to ask yourself and answer honestly. I suspect he does not really care about you, or more precisely, he cares for you to the extent that it makes you give in to his sexual advances.
How much older is he, and how did you get to know him? What sort of person is he? Is he kind to others and does he treat his family well? -
Say, "No, I don't like it".
Doing things which you don't like is akin doing things that go against your principles. His aggressive advancement is only not treating your trust in him and he is not respecting you.
This is the classic case of Lustful guy; Not a guy who ones real love.
Stop him, and he threatens to breakup, then it shall be. He's after your body, not your love.