Originally posted by qwerty-x:
i hate going to his house..cuz everytime go his house = petting.
i really hate it. i hate these unhealthy activities. i wish i can stop doing all these, i wish i didnt even give in when he started touching me... i dont want to betray the trust my parents and friends have in me..i come from a very decent family. i really hate doing all these...
why wont he understand..why cant i just have a simple relationship...
Well, if you know that equation of going to his house = petting. Then you should not go to his house in the 1st place and play up another episode. A lot of times you can actually suggest going out and engage in healthy relationship activities. I am sure your ideas are not lacking here.
Try not to be alone with him as this will lead him into further temptation. And if he is still amorous in the public then I think he needs some help other than from you. Remember you are the conductor and you need to keep your distance here before it leads to anything which the both of you are not prepared to handle and worst regret later.
Sometimes it is good for both parties if you could just learn to be strong to say No and Walk Away.
