Two timer
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i like a ger who has a bf
she also like me too,
she is trying very hard to make both of us happy but as all ppl know that we only have one heart
i told mine self, as long i can be her i am happy
but when ever she is with me, and her bf called her or message her, i feel jealous, i really cant help mineself
i cant bear to leave her, i like her very much
as days gone by, one ger i know for months message me
as she say that she like me
and want me be her bf
i really shock when she told me that
now i really dont know who to choose
choose the ger who have bf or the ger who like me
haizzzz
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sooner later she must come out with a solution..this cant go on for longOriginally posted by doghouse837:i like a ger who has a bf
she also like me too,
she is trying very hard to make both of us happy but as all ppl know that we only have one heart
i told mine self, as long i can be her i am happy
but when ever she is with me, and her bf called her or message her, i feel jealous, i really cant help mineself
i cant bear to leave her, i like her very much
as days gone by, one ger i know for months message me
as she say that she like me
and want me be her bf
i really shock when she told me that
now i really dont know who to choose
choose the ger who have bf or the ger who like me
haizzzz 
Givache 
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i did try to hint her to made the choice between the two of us
but.....
in other side, i dont wish to push her too much
she is also very stress
i dont wish to add on to it
as i just called her
her bf answer and scolded me
and he say she dont want to heard mine call anymore
saying i am very "fan"
i dont believe
i ask him to let her say to me
but when she took the phone
what she say was just asking me put down the phone
i dont know will they two qurrel again
i hope not
haizzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
i really like her alot
i cant really do anything now
the ball is in her court
haizzzzz -
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since u still like the ger then wat for u choose other pplOriginally posted by doghouse837:i like a ger who has a bf
she also like me too,
she is trying very hard to make both of us happy but as all ppl know that we only have one heart
i told mine self, as long i can be her i am happy
but when ever she is with me, and her bf called her or message her, i feel jealous, i really cant help mineself
i cant bear to leave her, i like her very much
as days gone by, one ger i know for months message me
as she say that she like me
and want me be her bf
i really shock when she told me that
now i really dont know who to choose
choose the ger who have bf or the ger who like me
haizzzz -
If i were u, i'll choose none! see,on one hand,if u choose the ger who like u,u'll definitely be loved,but at the same time u'll be thinking of the other ger!!do u think it'll be fair to the ger who love u??Originally posted by doghouse837:i did try to hint her to made the choice between the two of us
but.....
in other side, i dont wish to push her too much
she is also very stress
i dont wish to add on to it
as i just called her
her bf answer and scolded me
and he say she dont want to heard mine call anymore
saying i am very "fan"
i dont believe
i ask him to let her say to me
but when she took the phone
what she say was just asking me put down the phone
i dont know will they two qurrel again
i hope not
haizzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
i really like her alot
i cant really do anything now
the ball is in her court
haizzzzz 
On the other hand,if u choose the ger with a bf, then u'll have to continue to feel like shit,coz the ger cun even make up her mind of who to choose!!So indecisive!!Maybe she juz want the best from both??who noes?
even if let say she managed to make up her mind and choose u, how would u noe or how would u be so sure dat she wun do the same as she did to her bf??maybe after being with her for some time, a guy appeared in front of her,and she likes him(just like hw she likes u now) and wat will happen to u?? 
Let both of them go...give urself some time to cool down..think of wat u actually want,dun just plunge in lidat,u'll be the most hurt one in the end...there are still alot of nice gers out there,just that u havent go and discover them!
Hope u'll make the rite choice!Keep us updated k?All the best to u!!
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thanks
think i really need a rest now
should now fall in love so soon again
why is fate like this??
keep fooling ppl
why cant life be smooth all along??
why must have so many ups and downs -
i understand how u feel lor.. coz i have been through it
refer to my post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=28511
haiz... i dunno if yrs is more drama than mine...
but i think if i were you and have a choice i would chose to be with the girl that call you... coz bei ai shi sin fu de... but whatever it is if u prepared to suffer for the first girl... i will still support yr decision coz i'm also like you.. in dilema..till now... my good friends around me all condemn me. saying that i very stupid.. but i dun care.. i just want to be with him...
We pray togther that this thing come to an end quickly ok....
God Bless... -
All two-timers will go to HELL. Rest assured !
God will provide you with a better companion
and will be your judge against all your adversaries. -
Hey doghouse, i'm a guy here and i've been in this state before. Let me show you my way. Since that 2nd girl you mentioned has make known her feelings towards you, and if you feel that she's still not bad, y not just accept her? Waiting for the girl you really like is a disadvantage to you, y waste your previous time ?NEVER waste time on people that's not worthy. Furthermore she has her bf, u only stand to lose( I mean emotionally). She doesnt even know( or care) how u r feeling now. By accepting the 2nd girl, u've not done anything wrong. U dont need to answer anything to the 1st girl(since she has bf). The 2nd one might truly care for u & treat you better.Originally posted by doghouse837:i like a ger who has a bf
she also like me too,
she is trying very hard to make both of us happy but as all ppl know that we only have one heart
i told mine self, as long i can be her i am happy
but when ever she is with me, and her bf called her or message her, i feel jealous, i really cant help mineself
i cant bear to leave her, i like her very much
as days gone by, one ger i know for months message me
as she say that she like me
and want me be her bf
i really shock when she told me that
now i really dont know who to choose
choose the ger who have bf or the ger who like me
haizzzz
As for the girl you like( 1st one la), still keep in touch, pretend nth has happened, dont rush give her time to decide. When the relationship between them gets bored or if they quarrel, these are times u seize the chances and earn points on the girl. And not forcing her to make up her mind. If one day u find that she's not the real person u like, or she's not gd enough for u at least u have that 2nd girl that really cared for u in the 1st place. Why sit there and wait? -
I have a feeling u haf been ditched by a two-timer before.Originally posted by Elementals: All two-timers will go to HELL. Rest assured !
God will provide you with a better companion
and will be your judge against all your adversaries. -
Originally posted by RuthBaby:
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If all three party can reach an understanding... I think it is workable.
But I think nowadays people are too self-centred to share.
A muslim can have 4 wives. But in order to marry the second, third, fourth, the husband must have the permission of the first wife.
Is this allowed? -
eerrm.. how to reach an understanding?? if u love me u must love me wholeheartly mar.. for me i would definitely not share my bf one lor.. imagine yr husband/bf making love to another wife/gf?? i will go crazy!! and i dun think tat is considered as self-centered coz everyone has the right to do that lor....Originally posted by CloneMe72:If all three party can reach an understanding... I think it is workable.
But I think nowadays people are too self-centred to share.
A muslim can have 4 wives. But in order to marry the second, third, fourth, the husband must have the permission of the first wife.
Is this allowed?
I dun think that is possible in Singapore.. but i not very sure.. anyone can enlight us -
but, if i do it, am i counted as a two timer too??Originally posted by highflyer:Hey doghouse, i'm a guy here and i've been in this state before. Let me show you my way. Since that 2nd girl you mentioned has make known her feelings towards you, and if you feel that she's still not bad, y not just accept her? Waiting for the girl you really like is a disadvantage to you, y waste your previous time ?NEVER waste time on people that's not worthy. Furthermore she has her bf, u only stand to lose( I mean emotionally). She doesnt even know( or care) how u r feeling now. By accepting the 2nd girl, u've not done anything wrong. U dont need to answer anything to the 1st girl(since she has bf). The 2nd one might truly care for u & treat you better.
As for the girl you like( 1st one la), still keep in touch, pretend nth has happened, dont rush give her time to decide. When the relationship between them gets bored or if they quarrel, these are times u seize the chances and earn points on the girl. And not forcing her to make up her mind. If one day u find that she's not the real person u like, or she's not gd enough for u at least u have that 2nd girl that really cared for u in the 1st place. Why sit there and wait?
i dont wish to be a two timer, i will hate mineself if i am a two timer
haizzz -
Well.. erm no offence but if i were to stand rite infront of u.. i will oppose on ur view. Simply bcos of one reason: Doghouse might not even like the ger who like him..let's call her A, and the ger who has a bf, B.Originally posted by highflyer:Hey doghouse, i'm a guy here and i've been in this state before. Let me show you my way. Since that 2nd girl you mentioned has make known her feelings towards you, and if you feel that she's still not bad, y not just accept her? Waiting for the girl you really like is a disadvantage to you, y waste your previous time ?NEVER waste time on people that's not worthy. Furthermore she has her bf, u only stand to lose( I mean emotionally). She doesnt even know( or care) how u r feeling now. By accepting the 2nd girl, u've not done anything wrong. U dont need to answer anything to the 1st girl(since she has bf). The 2nd one might truly care for u & treat you better.
As for the girl you like( 1st one la), still keep in touch, pretend nth has happened, dont rush give her time to decide. When the relationship between them gets bored or if they quarrel, these are times u seize the chances and earn points on the girl. And not forcing her to make up her mind. If one day u find that she's not the real person u like, or she's not gd enough for u at least u have that 2nd girl that really cared for u in the 1st place. Why sit there and wait?
Doghouse, if u dun like A, dun hurt her.. she likes u.. but it doesn't give u the rite to stead wif her w/o really understanding ur own feelings.. u like B, and to prove to B , u will haf to wait till they're over.. dun be a person who is a two timer.. in the end.. both will hate u. so why find trouble..
Yes, u shdn't waste time on B but.. u shdn't hurt A either.. if u dun like A, make clear ur feelings to her.. and leave her alone.. and B, if u realli like her.. u just haf to wait for ur turn.. cos she alreadi had a bf..
Or. u can choose to be single... meaning.. spore has a lot of better gers..
But like wad i say.. dun hurt anione animore.. incl urself..
Try to let it go.. i noe it's hard.. i had been the B's state before.. worst.. my stead (who's now my ex) has a fren who likes me.. a fren whom he realli treasures..
Whoever u choose, dun hurt anione.. Best of Luck!
Regards,
Stephanie -
i think you people have not been reading clearing..got to read between the lines..yo steph,or if u r a girl so u won't understan..i never ask him to hurt her or play with her feelings. i just mentioned if he could "accept her if she's not bad", in other words give her chance.Originally posted by steph`-:Well.. erm no offence but if i were to stand rite infront of u.. i will oppose on ur view. Simply bcos of one reason: Doghouse might not even like the ger who like him..let's call her A, and the ger who has a bf, B.
Doghouse, if u dun like A, dun hurt her.. she likes u.. but it doesn't give u the rite to stead wif her w/o really understanding ur own feelings.. u like B, and to prove to B , u will haf to wait till they're over.. dun be a person who is a two timer.. in the end.. both will hate u. so why find trouble..
Yes, u shdn't waste time on B but.. u shdn't hurt A either.. if u dun like A, make clear ur feelings to her.. and leave her alone.. and B, if u realli like her.. u just haf to wait for ur turn.. cos she alreadi had a bf..
Or. u can choose to be single... meaning.. spore has a lot of better gers..
But like wad i say.. dun hurt anione animore.. incl urself..
Try to let it go.. i noe it's hard.. i had been the B's state before.. worst.. my stead (who's now my ex) has a fren who likes me.. a fren whom he realli treasures..
Whoever u choose, dun hurt anione.. Best of Luck!
Regards,
Stephanie
and dogHouse, as i've already mentioned , u r not two timing. U r not doing anything wrong. U do not need to let B know anythingabout A, and u dont have to answer anything to her. Since she(B) has bf, she can chose as she like[ as u mention, ball is in her court], y cant u? She has no right to accuse u[ if one day] becoz of her own actions. all this i've said is to your own advantage[ if someone has bf, yr "LUCK" is 50%, how long they go on u wouldn't know], advice can only be this much, choice is yours, what u ultimately do really depends on yrself k.. think carefully -
Originally posted by steph`-:Well.. erm no offence but if i were to stand rite infront of u.. i will oppose on ur view. Simply bcos of one reason: Doghouse might not even like the ger who like him..let's call her A, and the ger who has a bf, B.
Doghouse, if u dun like A, dun hurt her.. she likes u.. but it doesn't give u the rite to stead wif her w/o really understanding ur own feelings.. u like B, and to prove to B , u will haf to wait till they're over.. dun be a person who is a two timer.. in the end.. both will hate u. so why find trouble..
Yes, u shdn't waste time on B but.. u shdn't hurt A either.. if u dun like A, make clear ur feelings to her.. and leave her alone.. and B, if u realli like her.. u just haf to wait for ur turn.. cos she alreadi had a bf..
Or. u can choose to be single... meaning.. spore has a lot of better gers..
But like wad i say.. dun hurt anione animore.. incl urself..
Try to let it go.. i noe it's hard.. i had been the B's state before.. worst.. my stead (who's now my ex) has a fren who likes me.. a fren whom he realli treasures..
Whoever u choose, dun hurt anione.. Best of Luck!
Regards,
Stephanie
hasten to add, all these tat u've said may sound logical, but in reality it might not turn out the way it should be..or u can call me a jerk or for the things i've said, but if girls can do it to guys, but y not with the order reversed? Girls r not called flirt for doing this but guys r always being labelled. Guys wake up. Learn from the girls. -
there is an update
she broke up with her bf already
she say its not completely for me, cause she had enough of his temper
so she left him
now i was with her
hope this thing wont happen to me in the future
i will treat her the best i could
can any one wish me luck
thanks -
Good luck. Hope everything will go smoothly for you.Originally posted by doghouse837:there is an update
she broke up with her bf already
she say its not completely for me, cause she had enough of his temper
so she left him
now i was with her
hope this thing wont happen to me in the future
i will treat her the best i could
can any one wish me luck
thanks
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thanks
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Now if u ask yourself this qn
"now i really dont know who to choose? choose the ger who have bf or the ger who likes me? "
this shows that you dont like the girl (w bf) at all. If u were to like her, i doubt u would not ask this qn! -
from the way u say, u are telling me u are a guy who got any ger u take. Kanina...Originally posted by doghouse837:i like a ger who has a bf
she also like me too,
she is trying very hard to make both of us happy but as all ppl know that we only have one heart
i told mine self, as long i can be her i am happy
but when ever she is with me, and her bf called her or message her, i feel jealous, i really cant help mineself
i cant bear to leave her, i like her very much
as days gone by, one ger i know for months message me
as she say that she like me
and want me be her bf
i really shock when she told me that
now i really dont know who to choose
choose the ger who have bf or the ger who like me
haizzzz
Choose who U LOVE MOST. If u like this ger with a bf most, even 10 gers come u will also hack care! U get what i mean anot? Suxx man...
If u love this ger with bf, jolly well wait for her to end with her bf then u will have chance. Give her some time to make up her decision. If she loves u well enough too, she will settle with her current bf and go with u. If not, she is just flirting around.... -
If she's yours, she's yours in the end...Originally posted by doghouse837:there is an update
she broke up with her bf already
she say its not completely for me, cause she had enough of his temper
so she left him
now i was with her
hope this thing wont happen to me in the future
i will treat her the best i could
can any one wish me luck
thanks
If she's not yours... let it be... let her go... let her live peacefully with her bf...
Show her your love by letting go of her.... letting her have a peaceful mind... -
hi guys,
i haf some experiences to share here. personally, i met with situations like these twice. once wif a married man and one wif my ex...sad to say, the married man after all is juz after lust. and so i was stupid to fall for him. whereas for my ex, i dont understand why after we broke off one yr, he came back to woo me...and while he's doin so, i saw him holding another gal's hand. its fine wif me since we are still not together back...but i'm juz sad for the gal he is holding hands with. why cant guys be happy wif juz one gal??? or why cant guys or gals be happy wif juz one partner??? they are looking for excitements/ challenges or????