if you really like the first girl, you must have the patience to wait for her. while waiting, you may show her that you love and care for her. be by her side when things are getting tough for her. be her closet friend. she might realise your worth and there might be a change of heart.Originally posted by doghouse837:i like a ger who has a bf
she also like me too,
she is trying very hard to make both of us happy but as all ppl know that we only have one heart
i told mine self, as long i can be her i am happy
but when ever she is with me, and her bf called her or message her, i feel jealous, i really cant help mineself
i cant bear to leave her, i like her very much
as days gone by, one ger i know for months message me
as she say that she like me
and want me be her bf
i really shock when she told me that
now i really dont know who to choose
choose the ger who have bf or the ger who like me
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if you really love your bf/gf, would you allow him/her go out with others?Originally posted by CloneMe72:If all three party can reach an understanding... I think it is workable.
But I think nowadays people are too self-centred to share.
A muslim can have 4 wives. But in order to marry the second, third, fourth, the husband must have the permission of the first wife.
Is this allowed?
best of luck for you bro.Originally posted by doghouse837:there is an update
she broke up with her bf already
she say its not completely for me, cause she had enough of his temper
so she left him
now i was with her
hope this thing wont happen to me in the future
i will treat her the best i could
can any one wish me luck
thanks
some are not contented with one. maybe because of their egos. they feel good among their friends knowing that they have a lot of bfs/gfs in their hands. as for some girls, because of some guys behaving like that, they assume all guys are the same. it would be a pity for those guys who are sincere and take their girls seriously.Originally posted by HuRtZ:hi guys,
i haf some experiences to share here. personally, i met with situations like these twice. once wif a married man and one wif my ex...sad to say, the married man after all is juz after lust. and so i was stupid to fall for him. whereas for my ex, i dont understand why after we broke off one yr, he came back to woo me...and while he's doin so, i saw him holding another gal's hand. its fine wif me since we are still not together back...but i'm juz sad for the gal he is holding hands with. why cant guys be happy wif juz one gal??? or why cant guys or gals be happy wif juz one partner??? they are looking for excitements/ challenges or????
Are u hurt recently?Originally posted by doghouse837:sometimes guys are just flirting around
and i hate that
causing all the hurting to the ger
but there are still good guys around
but it becoming lesser as days pass
good ppl are hard to find
so when u find any, dont let it slip past![]()

i think these type of thinkings also actually applies to girls nowadays. its not tt i'm not standing on we gers side but i believe tt becoz of such gers, u guys also assume tt those sweet n nice gers are gone. i believe that Action Speaks Louder Than Words.Originally posted by Apis06:some are not contented with one. maybe because of their egos. they feel good among their friends knowing that they have a lot of bfs/gfs in their hands. as for some girls, because of some guys behaving like that, they assume all guys are the same. it would be a pity for those guys who are sincere and take their girls seriously.
i believe the whole world isn't corrupted yet, and there are girls and guys out there who are sincere... and all this crap about girls being a virgin urnot doesn't bother me cuz their issues (to me) are too generalised.Originally posted by HuRtZ:i think these type of thinkings also actually applies to girls nowadays. its not tt i'm not standing on we gers side but i believe tt becoz of such gers, u guys also assume tt those sweet n nice gers are gone. i believe that Action Speaks Louder Than Words.
i understand wat u r tryin to mean. definitely there's still nice gal n guys around....but its realli a small percentage. or maybe sometimes later, all these guys n gals which are being listed as "bitches n bastards" will treat one of em partner seriously n committed. i think it depends on the person they are dealing wif...if they are realli in love wif the person, they mite not haf treat em the same way they treat their previous partners....Originally posted by spy8reak:i believe the whole world isn't corrupted yet, and there are girls and guys out there who are sincere... and all this crap about girls being a virgin urnot doesn't bother me cuz their issues (to me) are too generalised.
there are more ppl out there than u think. the world doesn't just revolve around ur skool campus/workplace.
thanksOriginally posted by leonard_goalkeeper:hmmm... i haven been in tis kind of situation b4 but mayb i could give sum advice...
i suggest u go wif the 2nd girl(the 1 hu messaged u n sae she like u) coz since the 1st ger oreadi has a bf, i tink dat u should n break them up. even if u like her alot n she likes u alot, u all nid 2 haf self-control n remind urselfs dat she is oreadi in a relationship. Unless, she breaks up with him, i tink u should try 2 best 2 forget her and go wif the 2nd 1... since she is not in a relationship.
so prob u 2 could try it out?
all 2 best 2 u doghouse!![]()